2007-07-03 20:35:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not about "trust" thing..Before we know each other's passwords..He's the one who actually asked mine so i asked his also..that was 5 years ago..Then suddenly, a month ago he changed his password and told me that "you need to trust me on this.." For me its not the trust issue, but since then i become aloof and distant with him, because of some "restrictions" he made in our relationship..Because of that I even don't want him to interfere with my "privacy"...There's a line between us now..
2007-07-03 20:46:41 · update #1
BUT i never dared to ask his new password..
2007-07-03 20:58:06 · update #2
No, everyone deserves their privacy and trust.
Oh wow, I just saw that you added some more. Sounds bad, doesn't sound good, not trying to worry you but when people start putting up walls like that it isn't a good sign. You need to see if you can have a good sit down and talk to him about it, and if he refuses to do that, you may just want to start exploring other options. You should never take steps back in relationships....
2007-07-03 20:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Heather 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There could be a lot of reasons for this change. Is your birthday or an anniversary coming up soon. He could be buy you something off the Internet he wants to surprise you with. It doesn't sound like you are married. So maybe he's planning on asking you to get married and is working detail out on line. On the other hand it could be he's got something going on with someone else.
You have to look at how you relationship is going. Has the way he act toward you changed or has he started working late. You said he has put restrictions on you. What kind of restrictions has he put on you? Has he told you not to make any plans or not buy anything? Has he told you not to show up at his work or doesn't want you calling him?
2007-07-04 04:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by TheOneAndOnlyBooger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the people who say you should know their password: You say they should because of trusting eachother. Well, if you really DID trust eachother you wouldn't HAVE to know eachother's passwords. You'd TRUST the other person that what they do is their businness and doesn't effect you. Knowing another person's password is bullshit, even if it is for the sake of peace of mind.
2007-07-04 03:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually I had a bad expirence with this where he changed my password and I couldn't get back on but, that was a different guy than the one you have, It isn't vital so I would have to say noits not super important.
2007-07-04 03:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by Pop Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do know my bf's password for his email but i don't know the pin no for his ATM card.. so, i think it's ok if we know some important stuff of our partner.. it means that we are important to them.. it also shows that we trust each other.. but for certain condition, it's better if it maintain its privacy.. after all, we all have secret right? not everything is to be shared.. give them some space too..
2007-07-04 04:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by dotdot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not realy. Giving them some privacy is more important. You should be able to trust them, if you are unable to trust him/her then perhaps it is an unhealthy relationship and you should'nt be with him/her.
2007-07-04 03:43:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as you want to know, you have to trust. if you dont have trust you have nothing but a miserable relationship. if you dont trust LEAVE! ive always been told "if you look for trouble you"ll find it. so im gonna say no its not important. if i have a man i have to check on i dont want him. even though your together its still alright to have a lil space, a lil freedom. no one wants to feel caged or anything.
2007-07-04 03:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by warrior*in*the*making 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way. if you guys are sharing passwords, you're way too dependent on each other and you guys lack trust. have your privacy and let him have his. if you think you can't trust him, have a discussion about why. good luck... :)
2007-07-04 03:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by Zephyr2012 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His passwords are none of my business! Either I trust him or I don't! His passwords won't change that.
2007-07-04 03:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say NO WAY if they don't trust you (or you trust them) then it is a real relationship issue.
2007-07-04 03:38:48 · answer #10 · answered by gonecrazybacksooninky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋