Family & Relationships - 1 July 2007

doing the oral wrong :0

2007-07-01 17:29:11 · 13 answers · asked by 4xsamommie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy that I used to hook up with i think is now stalking me... It all started last new years of 06 and I got like 25 calls from a blocked number on new years eve and ever since then they call occasionally. They left a message last year and it sounded like my ex- friend w benefit then I noticed when ever I saw him or if he knew I was at his neighbors house the blocked number would call. And they called last week alot the same day he saw me and I was outside at my friends and I saw him riding his bike trying to call.. I dont no what to do.

2007-07-01 17:26:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I posted a question last week asking if my marriage could be saved. Well since then I found out my wife had an affair (her second in 6 years) and I am devastated. After the first one we came to an agreement on ways to fix our marriage, but unfortunately neither one of us acted on them. So now we're back to square one. We have 2 beautiful children and I truly love this woman, but am I fooling myself by trying to make it work again? Do you think counseling and really making an effort can work this time or is she bound to continue this behavior when things aren't going well? Please advise.

2007-07-01 17:26:24 · 11 answers · asked by almost_pa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know many would say equal but which one is more in general (excluding things like alcoholic father etc)

2007-07-01 17:24:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiance and i have been together for 2 years this July 4th, 2007. we have been engaged since january '07. we are living together and have been for quite a while. I work from home so i am always here but a few weeks ago on june 14th and 15th my mom and brother and sister came up and we went tubing, we were gone about 3 hours. my fiance did not go b/c he works third shift and had to get some sleep. He told me that he didnt get any sleep and just watched tv. he sent me a text message and i called him back and i swear i heard a woman say hello while we were talking, i shrugged it off as the tv or something. we had on our nightstand two condoms still connected together inside a glass cup. i was cleaning in the bedroom a few weeks ago before we went tubing and i KNOW they were there and connected. Then like 2 days ago i reached over to the nightstand and one of the condoms was gone. I asked him where it was and he said he didnt know and he didnt do anything. i did not accuse him and i told him that i was not accusing him , he told me he didnt do anything and that i gave him a look like i was accusing him. i still have not "found" the condom and i dont know what the hell happened because we do not use condoms for one and we have not been intimate in weeks, for 2. Any suggestions or advice please would be appreciated. i am freaking out over this and i do not know what to do or think. I asked him if he was cheating and he said no and he never has. any advice would be greatly appreciated, i hate feeling this way. i trusted him up until this point.

2007-07-01 17:24:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husbands friend is totally hott. He flirts with me and when we went to the store he grabbed me and placed a deep passionate kiss on my lips and asked me to leave my husband and come to him. I know that he is a good man and that he would treat me so much better than my husband but I do love my husband.
I am so torn. I have really got to know this guy over the past 2 years and he has grown on me. I am not a slut or anything. I do not want to wreck a friendship or marriage. My husband and I have become very successfull together and I do honestly love him even though he is not very nice verbally to me. What do I do??? Help please.

2007-07-01 17:24:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-01 17:24:18 · 4 answers · asked by kenneth h 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have had interest in many girls but i've either waited too long to tell them or they are already taken

2007-07-01 17:24:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really feel sick to my stomach. I the best I can describe it is it feels like morning sickness. They are friends again and it's killing me. Although I should be able to trust him because after all, I too am friends with my ex. I just have trust issues all around. But do you ever feel physically sick when you even hear her name? Or you know they are together hanging out and stuff?

If so, how do you overcome it? Thanks!

2007-07-01 17:22:14 · 7 answers · asked by Melissa 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-01 17:20:31 · 22 answers · asked by Ric C 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-01 17:19:56 · 5 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Weddings

2007-07-01 17:17:57 · 19 answers · asked by leilanibabyblu206 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-01 17:15:21 · 8 answers · asked by .:: mocha ^_^ ::. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I felt like i needed to add something because it seems that everyone is miss understanding what I was trying to say. Yes i have been with my husband for 10 years total, however, in those 10 years I have always loved him where as he has not always loved and been in love with me. The statement that my husband is a good man, is based on now, he just started to do the things that i was asking of him which was not that much like spend time with me and not hours on the net, lets go out together, help me around the house. He only started when he thought he was losing me becaues i became tired of being in a one sided relationship,I have never before now talked to another guy let alone cheated on him. I miss worded what i was trying to say, I want to be with my husband i just dont know how to stop feeling the way that i feel about the other guy. My husband is like a see-saw he changes his feels like i change my clothing, I am just tired of letting him hurt me. So please answer that question.

2007-07-01 17:11:43 · 12 answers · asked by youngwife23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-01 17:10:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-01 17:04:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-01 17:04:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

leaves him for a coworker. She called me from work told me that she loves me and misses me. kissed me and hugged me before work . Even made love to me 2 weeks before. Then whamo left me and moved out. She even told me that she was kissing him and stayed the night at his house. Please tell me that after a 16 year relationship and two children that this is not normal. Was she looking for a way out for a long time and just acted to love me and then left me for the first available single guy to come her way?? I was a good husband father and provider exept I worked alot to give my family a good life.

2007-07-01 17:00:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay well my parents never get along, well sometimes but sometimes no. Well this morning my mom was cleaning our office room, she yelled at me for not cleaning this shelf that was really messy, MY STUPID SELF ROLLED MY EYES AND WENT BACK ON THE COMPUTER My dad came in and yelled at me and my mom. My dad pushed my mom and scratched her. My mom called the police. And now my dad blammed me. Ive been crying all day because my mom told me she has to sleep at a hotel today(im crying even writing that my mom is gonna sleep at a hotel.. sorry:( WOW i just want to kill myself right now!!! I really want my mom tho, i love her so much I wanna stay with her not my dad!

2007-07-01 17:00:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am not sure why, i do not believe i am depressed or anything. but very often, i just want to runaway and forget about everybody even my family. and just start over. it's like a roller coster. sometimes i love them, and other times i hate them. i just dont know why i keep feeling like this.. they are my friends and family.

2007-07-01 16:59:19 · 10 answers · asked by swimmergirl07 3 in Family

theres this girl at my school a year younger than me that i really have a huge crush on...i want to hang out with her. how do i get her to like me. we have talked before and we like alot of the same stuff. how do ask her if she wants to hang out as friends or just see a movie or something like that. (im also a shy person, but i'll overcome it just to talk to her)

2007-07-01 16:54:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-01 16:53:50 · 10 answers · asked by maddie c 1 in Family

Yesterday was our one year anniversary, so we planned the whole day, we went swimming with dolphins followed by lunch/picnic on the beach. And we both enjoyed each other’s company.

Last night, we went out for dinner, it was something we didn’t plan together so she took it as a surprised. I made it very romantic; she told me that it was the best French restaurant she has been to, Kudos for me. So we went home to red flower petals all over our bedroom, we had sex and towards the end (losing my load), I screamed out my ex-girlfriend’s name.
I won’t go into details about what she did to me because male-rights group could probably sue her but I’m now sleeping on our sofa typing this question. How screwed am I? And is it possible to get her back?

Please Please help!

2007-07-01 16:49:29 · 59 answers · asked by Curious about the World 3 in Singles & Dating

i was on myspace yesterday and a girl added me, she goes to my college and we have seen eachother around but i dont know her or have ever talked to her.

anyway we got talking on myspace and out of nowhere she asked where i live and where i study etc.

later in the convo she went "my friends arent even going out now, im so sad =[" and i had to go out myself, i said "sorry i have to go out, i would stay to chat if i could but i gotta go =[".

then after that she said > "if you werent going out id drag u out to meet me"

> now does this sound to you like shes interested because she wants to meet me even on the 1st day i spoken to her? or does she just want be friends?

i said does she want my no. and msn and she said yes, i said im shy with calling ppl, she said shes shy too but is talkative when she gets to know someone better.

also she puts more kisses at the end of sentences when talkin to me compared to other guys.

2007-07-01 16:40:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you do when you feel like there your life has no purpose?

I seriously don't know what to do with myself anymore. It gets worst everyday. I'm so tired of my life. I'm tired of crying every night. I've been doing it for too long. I feel like I'm not worth anything at all. I'm not close with my family. they are like strangers to me. I don't feel comfortable getting close with others because I don't trust them. I always feel so alone and I have a hard time interacting with others. I'm not even like a normal quiet person because at least they have personality when they do talk but me on the other hand I'm just plain weird. I don't fit in anymore and for those who seem to like me I cannot understand why. I feel so unworthy in the eyes of others. I've tried counseling and it doesn't work. I've tried talking with others but it just gets worst everyday. Some days I'm able to go through it and other days I just go down the drain. I don't know what's wrong with me. I feel like they only way that the pain would end is if I kill myself.
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and I want to do it so badly. i have a hard time connecting with others and I just feel like an outcast in the world. I'm about to be a junior in college and I just feel so helpless and believe me I am trying everyday. The only reason why I keep writing how I feel online is because it actually helps me to stay alive and to not actually give in in killing myself because I just want to end this pain. I hate myself so bad. I don't know why I am the way I am. I'm so stupid and I have to pretend that everything is ok so I can appear normal. I'm just fed up

2007-07-01 16:33:29 · 14 answers · asked by . 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Or just the bride'-to be's?

2007-07-01 16:25:07 · 16 answers · asked by Amy R 2 in Weddings

I been thinking that if my girlfriend and I ever broke up, that I would be hurt the most. I would do anything to avoid that, but if it's not meant to be, who knows. If someone is wondering about their partner, should they still put all of their energy into trying to make it work, or would it be wise to look for future "opportunities"? I mean, if anything happened between us, I would be so devastated I don't know if I could feel the same way about another girl again. And of course being as shy and weird as I am, I probably would be alone for a long time to come. I doubt there are many guys who would be as hurt by losing their girl as I would and I don't know if that's good or bad.

2007-07-01 16:24:47 · 8 answers · asked by jldude 5 in Singles & Dating

Bitches instead of the nice, funny, smart ones who look hot as well?

2007-07-01 16:22:29 · 38 answers · asked by Brianna 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-01 16:19:23 · 7 answers · asked by Angie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i fell 4 him a wile ago. he broke my heart by going out w/ the girl i hate. and they broke up, we became friends and talked alot. now hes going out w/ my best friend, she talkes nonstop bout him even when i ask her not 2. i want 2 hate him but i still love him. why could that be? theres alot that happend that i dident wright. please i need ANSWERS!

2007-07-01 16:16:58 · 24 answers · asked by monkkeytheblue 1 in Singles & Dating