theres this girl at my school a year younger than me that i really have a huge crush on...i want to hang out with her. how do i get her to like me. we have talked before and we like alot of the same stuff. how do ask her if she wants to hang out as friends or just see a movie or something like that. (im also a shy person, but i'll overcome it just to talk to her)
2007-07-01 16:54:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and if u'r gunna be an a s s and call me a p ussy..don't even bother to answer
2007-07-01 16:54:53 · update #1
well you can't really make someone like you, it just happens. and if she doesn't like you than theres nothing you can do about it just move on. and to hang out with her, just go ahead and say "do you wanna hang out" and become pretty good friends with her, but not super good cuz then thats gonna be all she wants. and after hanging out for a little while hurry up and ask her out.
2007-07-09 14:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, that's cute! You should definitely hang out with her as friends. I think the easiest way is to get to know her a lot more, and maybe talk to her over the internet. Sometimes it's easier for people to talk when they don't have to see each other face to face.
When you guys are really comfortable around each other, plan a time go to the mall, see a movie. Be really subtle, and don't come on too strong. Be like: "Wow, I've been dying to see this movie ___________" or "We should hang out sometime".
When you guys become closer and closer, show her that you care about her alot. Show her your sensitive side too (not a lot, just enough to share you you have feelings), and be there for her when she needs someone. That way she can see that you are a really nice guy, and worthy of her trust. And then ask her, "Ever thought about being more then friends?"
IDK, if you want to go that far, but if you do, it will obviously take time. But the right girl is always worth waiting for (Oh and we girls like patient guys too ; ]) Good luck~!â¥
2007-07-09 15:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by j.adore♥pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww, cute.
you should talk with her and ask her to go hang out at the mall or something.
if you want to ask her to the movies, just make small chat and bring it up. "so, do you have plans this weekend?" she what she says, if shes not busy, ask her then.
to make the situation more comfortable for the both of you, invite others in a group as well. "some friends of mine are going to see this movie...did you want to come, you can brings some friends along too..."
be yourself and dont get nervous! if shes talking to you, thats a good sign already!
good luck, hope that helps!
2007-07-02 00:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by love_dove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just ask her to hang out. If she has talked to you before and she seems like a nice person then she cant really get mad at you for asking.
2007-07-02 00:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u should start out by asking her a question. maybe about something that yall both like. example: "did u see the game on friday?" or watever and then sit down/stand next 2 her and continue 2 talk. "wrap it up" by saying "hey, u wanna hang out sometime?" if she says no, then that means that shes probably just shy. if she says yes, bingo!! good luck!!
2007-07-09 23:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by Britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up to her and ask if she'd like to go see the new movie that's playing. But I hope you lose the attitude that you showed at the bottom of your question! attitudes like that will kill your chances of this girl getting to know you.
2007-07-09 20:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get 2 kno her first and then c if she's interested, if she is ask her out
2007-07-02 00:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone like you. It's up to her to decide that.
2007-07-02 00:00:36 · answer #8 · answered by uhd0rableo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just open your mouth and ask her out!
2007-07-09 06:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋