doing the oral wrong :0
2007-07-01 17:29:11 · 13 answers · asked by 4xsamommie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe you can approach it like this: When you are in a heated intimate moment or when you are in a passionate kiss you know you want to lead to something else, whisper in his ear, and tell him what you want him to do. Tell him, "Oh baby, I want you to......." and just tell him basically step by step everything you want him to do. Make it a sexy thing so that he won't catch the major hint and get offended!
2007-07-01 17:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ten years?? Holy cow, you're very tolerant ... At this point you don't tell, you show. You show by talking about what you like, moving yourself to the right position and giving some nice, loud verbal positive reinforcements.(Oh yes, baby, I love it when you do that! That's it...yessss etx) You might say things like "I was reading an article the other day about oral sex and I was wondering if there is anything I can do to improve my technique" Put yourself on the chopping block too. Brace yourself, maybe he thinks you do it "wrong" too. Hopefully, by bringing up the topic, he'll ask the same question back and it will lead to a fun evening of oral experimentation! Good luck ;)
2007-07-02 00:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you could resolve this by incorporating some food into the matter...
Stay with me on this one....chocolate syrup, or something of that sort...tell him you want him to lick it off of you, then put it where he should've been for the past ten years. He should begin to get it at that point.
Also, use positive reinforcement. When he does hit the spot, let him know it feels good!
2007-07-02 00:52:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as you don't believe it, men aren't always right and men don't always know how to control things. My husband never feels threatened when I tell him he's doing something wrong. Just make him understand that you can tell him how to do it right, if he tells you or guides you to do it right for him. This way you both communicate and make the experience much more enjoyable. It's a win/win situation. Hope it helps!
2007-07-02 00:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by ediabullo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just go out and Say It. Be suggestive. I mean - get the book Super Hot Sex. Read it together, get excited about it - and suggest you and him try some of the stuff out. When i's good, TELL him! Have fun.
2007-07-02 00:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by ani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why have you waited ten years to say anything? Men are not mind readers.
2007-07-02 01:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by posttk421 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell him he has been doing it wrong, that would completely embarrass him and he wouldn't want to do it at all. Offer suggestions, say if you would do this then that would be really nice. He will get the hint.
2007-07-02 00:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why now, jesuz woman tell the boy.... and women complain about the lack of communcation!
2007-07-02 03:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by joe s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him it's wrong. Try this....
" You know baby, I really love it when you.... "
or
" Mmm.... try this..."
That way, it lets him know what feels good so he does less of what doesn't feel good.
Being honest is the key, but you don't have to hurt his feelings to be honest.
2007-07-02 00:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by mrshouck2004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Atleast yours does it! When he's down there, say something like try that spot or a certain action. and if you like it, tell him you love it and he'll keep doing it. They love positive feedback.
2007-07-02 00:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by Blue Love Aura 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋