2007-07-01 19:21:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let them go. My husband did the same thing only a year ago. Time is a wonderful thing. It has allowed me to forgive them. I went through some hard times. Really hard times. But, I have two children with this man, and it was in my children's best interest to be civil to him. He looks horrible now. I don't know why since he has everything that he claimed he wanted. Go through the fire. You'll come out a better and stronger person. I can only say this after being through this myself. Peace is not overated. Don't let hate win. My ex-husband's girlfriend hates me because I have peace. Strange, huh? Good luck.
2007-07-01 19:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by rsouza1500 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More information, please.
I would advise you to find a new best friend. having been a cheater myself, I can't really say anything, but some people change, others don't. I wouldn't advise staying friends with this 'best friend of yours'. Forgiving is one thing, forgetting is another. Forgive them, because you dont gain anything by harboring ill feelings. But don't forget it happened and exercise caution around them.
2007-07-02 02:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by Tyiako. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her suffer the consequences of her actions. Forgive if you so choose but do not ever forget. Don't take her back.
Move on and live your life knowing you deserve far better than either one of them. She's no wife and he is no friend.
2007-07-02 02:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by lyricshade2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would be the point in going after a woman who has openly chosen someone else over you? Perhaps you should tell your wife that she should consider divorce, if she plans on leaving you for him, or to end things with him, come back to you and attend marriage counseling.
Either way, this marriage has complications that need to be looked at, if she felt the desire to stray (and your friendship needs to be looked at, if your "best friend" would disrespect you like that).
2007-07-02 02:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive but never forget. You must forgive for yourself so you may move on but you can not forget or else the lesson is lost.
2007-07-02 05:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by Squeaks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its impossible to forget but you would have really shown your maturity, love and understanding by not going after her. and letting her be happy with your bestfriend, sure some day you would want to know why they did that and if that was fair or not, but right now, let time heal the wounds, and let time answer the questions for you, dont go after them, dont make a fool of yourself.
2007-07-02 02:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a backbone and write them both off. You don't need this kind of treatment from a wife who supposedly loves you and a friend that is supposedly your best friend. Boy, you were wrong on both counts.
2007-07-02 02:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
f**k them hes an as*hole and she a Sl*t find someone who loves you and is loyal. not all womwn are like that get those divorce papers sent out to her and move on. if all goes well your ex friend will cheat on your ex wife and she'll feel just as shi*y as you do now but your best revenge is to move on and forget they even exist
2007-07-02 02:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by sweet young thing 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't go after them, and don't just forgive and forget. screw them and move on with ur life, and if they come back around punch them in the face
2007-07-02 02:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by nichole f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go after them, she made her choice, I wouldn't forgive or forget it.
2007-07-02 02:25:07 · answer #10 · answered by CLM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋