Me and my boyfriend have been doing well for past 1 year 10 months. HE says he really loves me and wants to marry me.
When we are together, out for a movie or say just for a ride, he can't stop noticing other girls, be it the actresses or other girls come to watch the movie. HE sees them, them keeps talking about their good features a few minutes. If ever we are together and he happens to see a picture of a hot girl, he immediately gets my attention to it and says, " Isn't she wonderful?" Or "Damn, She's hot!"….. all I wanna know is this sort of behavior right?
Specially, I request the boys to answer this one so I can understand my boyfriend's point of view more better.
2007-07-01 22:40:56 · 5 answers · asked by goddess_of_fame 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, its a guy thing. Even if a guy doesnt actually SAY these things, all guys think it. Truth be told, men think about sex and hot women all the time.
While you may be upset by his comments, it IS totally natural, and as long as he doesnt DO anything like go after another girl, it means he still chooses to be with you. Also remember, even when men get the hottest girl in the world, they STILL look at other girls; there is just no way around it.
On the plus side, because he's telling you these things, it means hes very comfortable and open with you. Usually, people that end up cheating never ever mention, or even at times deny what they think about other hot women. THATS when you should worry.
2007-07-01 22:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by y0ungdan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy is like that. being a guy myself i also look at other girls but when i am with my lovely GF (since 4 years now) i try not to look at other girls and not to talk about them also. It just doesnt matter if your in love and even if the other girl is half naked and has a body like Pamela Anderson. He has to control over that, the best thing to solve this is to let him know very politely that you dont like this notching at other girls. He will understand.
Dont worry, its not a ig problem.
2007-07-01 22:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by Just Ordinary. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend truely does love you and wants to marry you from what you told me but what he is doing is perfectly natural. It's called lust where a man is attracted to other women for their physical apprearence. But i also think he is being very disrespectful for not keeping it to himself even when he's around you. If he does that around the person who would find it most uncomfortable, think of what he does when he's not around you. Just a thought but if you want to do anything about it just tell him
2007-07-01 22:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by David 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf does it as well he will even say man i want to sleep with her
This doesnt bother me because i know him and know that he is all bark and no bite
I let him have his little enjoyment
2007-07-01 22:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my ex did that and i asked him why he sd its just a natural thing if he seez a grl in a pic its not like he knows them and i gonna dump you for that girl duz it?
2007-07-01 22:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by kimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋