am i the only old fashioned girl left? i like the guy to chase the girl and make the first move in everything. i believe in dating a long time before saying that you are in love. i think that couples should wait until marriage to have sex. i say that gender roles are ok. are there no more girls like me who like the world of stepford?
2007-07-01 23:03:19 · 10 answers · asked by Rebel Babe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it seems that guys dont think about that kind of thing anymore. its like a lost art or something. like being a gentleman has lost it's character
2007-07-01 23:37:18 · update #1
That is a good question. It seems in today's society that if you have old fashioned values that you are closed minded and a person of prejudice. While you are not the only one left darlin, you are apparently rare. I have been looking for an old fashion lady for a long time. It seems that it is a bad thing to have " conservative values ". Although, I don't exactly subscribe to the Stepford type of values if you are referring to the book and movie, " The Stepford Wives." That was a strange book and movie.
2007-07-01 23:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by celticwarrior7758 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, in the new age we live in, the old fasioned traits of the boy/girl relation are changing. There are those, though, that are still in the past as to this topic. Depending on your partner, it can be good or bad as to which of these, new or old, is best. For you, you need to find someone who is old-fashioned as well, unless you want the other. It all just depends on you. I, for one, am an old fasioned guy, or like to think i am, I won't let the girl do stuff, such as paying for things, that i, as the guy, am obligated to do. Having sex after marriage, staying a virgin until marriage, is a very respectable thing. Someone who can respect that is a very worthy person. It is also traditional to say the words "i love you" after you've gotten to really know the person. It should be a good while before you do. I was stupid and said it way before i maybe should have, but the feeling was true, i wasn't sure at the time, but am now. Not everyone is perfectly traditional, but there are some wild cards out there that are pretty darn close.
2007-07-02 22:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by mechanikor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old fashioned girls are becoming rarer, I believe. Females are much more assertive nowadays and they will speak up if they disagree with a man. The "love" part still seems to apply, while the sex part does not (however strange that may be). And from my point of view, gender roles can be quite oppressing. The roles really depend on the couple and the type of relationship they have. Roles are becoming more and more commonly shared.
2007-07-02 06:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by La_ponderousman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not old-fashioned. You are a nice girl. You know what is important. And to tell you the truth, i hold exactly the same thinking as you. Ppl might say you are old-fashioned as my friends say i am, but they admire our courage to say 'No' and we are firm at that.
2007-07-02 06:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe all that too hehe..although liking guys to make the first move is prolly just cuz im kinda introverted and i dont like to start anything hehe...and i dont really believe that couples have to date a long time before they say i love you if they know they love each other early on hehe...
2007-07-02 06:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by abc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and i agree with you. most of the world is doing the opposite of what you just said but i still agree with what you said
2007-07-02 06:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by David 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW ! i just found someone like me ! I agree with you very much. N i AM so glad to know that you think just the same way as i do. I am not alone anymore........
2007-07-02 06:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by goddess_of_fame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I appreciate your point of view. Do not think you are the only one like this. There are many females (and even males) who have similar views.
2007-07-02 06:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's alright to be old-fashioned. your friends and family should love you for who you are, not your fashionability. Don't worry, there will be someone like you somewhere.
2007-07-02 06:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by Emuhliie_xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thought
2007-07-02 06:08:06 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋