Three years ago, I fell for her. Last year I got her.. Starting of this year I asker her to be with me, and she said she’d love to … so now we are officially a couple.
We’re both in University at the moment – senior year. We did do internship sthis summer. She got a job offer at the end of the internship, with a giood starting salary.
I got a letter of recommendation, and no such letter.
Now when we meet its slightly odd because I know that when university is done she will have a job to head to, whereas I will not. She has a job just waiting for her to finish college….. She doesn’t know how lucky she is. They loved her performance and all that. My company did too, however they said they would not hire the moment and shall see based on my scored.
She has a 3.75 GPA, and I have a 2.90 GPA. I do not know what to think or what to do…
I guess I am slightly scared – her last man being from oxford and she is all prim and proper, very European. I am very American,
2007-07-01 23:21:52 · 3 answers · asked by __M___o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so we do have conflicting ideas, and use completely different expressions. I love her and everything… However I am lost, and don’t understand her right now, and I am wondering why she is with me, I don’t feel like I am offering her enough… We’ve been together 1 year…
Please help
2007-07-01 23:24:11 · update #1
Not everyone has a job waiting for them when they leave college. Just start sending resumes to all of the type companies that you would like to work for, regardless of whether they are presently looking for employees or not. Send a letter stating that you would appreciate them considering you for employment. Within a few weeks you will begin to get replies.
When I graduated, I wanted to work for an oil and gas company, because they had the best promotional opportunities, salaries, and benefits. None of them were advertising for positions, so I sent every single one of them an introductory letter and resume. Three weeks later, I had two job opportunties trying to top each other's salary offers.
Just be sure to mention that you are very interested in that particular field. One of the Presidents of the company intereviewed me personally, because he said that he admired my tenacity and persistance to get into that field.
You just never know. If you use a bit of ingenuity and creativity, you too can stand out among the other applicants. Just find out a lot about the company. In you introductory letter let them know that you have investigated their organization, and that you are very familiar with their services and products, etc... When you go to the interview be prepared. Know as much as possible about the company. If you see a trophy, a picture of something that indicates their interest, casually mention it such as--"Oh, I see that you have a company baseball team. That sounds like a great opportunity to get to know your coworkers better." Don't go on and on unless he/she begins to ask you questions. Just smile, smile, smile, and know your strengths, and what you can offer to the company. Always appear confident and dress appropriately and neatly.
Quit acting so insecure, or you will lose her regardless of the employment situation. If she really cares about you, she will support you in your efforts.
Good Luck!!!
2007-07-02 00:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just stay positive and keep your worries on your own life. This lack of employment will not last forever and a company will want you soon.
I just finished grad school and make decent money at my restaurant job - so I decided to take some time off to reflect.
My man does not even have a bachelor's degree and he was working at full commission and barely making money - but I have confidence in him and love him for him - not his money making skills - I know him and knew it was just temporary. He is starting a job today that will probably make him over six figures by this time next year.
I was always the one on top - but now I feel like I need to get my act together so I can make as much money as him. He doesn't care about this - he just wants me to be happy.
Hope that helps - changes in life do not mean that a relationship will end. She knows you are giving it your best and that is all that should matter.
2007-07-01 23:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by beach 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think you are good enough for her, then you aren't. Have confidence and be yourself because that's the thing that made her fall you in the first place
2007-07-01 23:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by David 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋