Family & Relationships - 30 June 2007

How do you know if someone is staring at you if you are near other people or if you are near a window or a poster. How do you know if they are staring at you or if they are staring at something or someone around you?

2007-06-30 13:39:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok heres the deal i have liked this girl for about 2 months now. she seems to be interest in me which is good. i ike her alot. We have been out on dates for the past two weeks and we have kissed twiced. the las thing we discusseed was that summer time we should hang out more. i left her a not on her car saying i didnt want things to change between us and i really enjoyed time wih her. all her friends tell me she is into me and that she is really starting to like me more. just recently i asked her to go to the movies with me so for the first time of summer and she called me back saying that she didnt want a boyfriend at this moment, she didnt want to give me any ideas. does this mean we are over or does that mean she just doesnt want a relationship over the summer and she still likes me ?
what should i do or how should i handle it

we went on the date and we both had a great time but we did not kiss or anything it was just cordial

she is definately worh it

2007-06-30 13:39:33 · 14 answers · asked by gman123 1 in Singles & Dating

ok... i forgot to tell u that... my friend had a boyfriend 2... but she broke up with him just because she just didnt feel like going out with him i guess.. well then pual witch is my x found out that she was single so he broke up with me and asked her out 2 days later and well he broke up with me on myspace.. and i didnt read the message until 2 days later so the same day that i found out that we werent together was that same day he asked her ou.. and yeah she did ask me if she could go out with him because she really lked him and yes i had alot of feelings for him at the time ....and so she asked me if she can get with him... i siad i didnt care..but i really did i just said the to try to b a good friend and let my friend go out with the person she likes... but now know i kinda made a mistake... feel bad because dont want h to break up with him... but my feeings are kinda hurt.. so what shold i do?.,.?

2007-06-30 13:38:20 · 4 answers · asked by billy bob jr....lol! 1 in Friends

2007-06-30 13:26:14 · 10 answers · asked by Niki K 1 in Singles & Dating

be done and what kind of penalty will be given to the man? This is a case of desertion.

2007-06-30 13:23:59 · 8 answers · asked by Just me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you have, what happened to the marriage? Were you able to pull through it or did it destroy it?

I want to know if there are actually situations where someone was betrayed but somehow the marriage was still salvaged and maybe even turned out better then before....

2007-06-30 13:23:53 · 17 answers · asked by Katia 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend started going thru divorce last year. We spent alot of time together, have seen each other at our possible worst and have cried to each other about our past relationships. A few months into his divorce, we took it a step further and started dating and then things because serious. Then I moved away for the past 8 month and we have been maintaining a long distance relationship. Now that the divorce is final and everything is settled, he wants me to move in with him to see how things go for us. I am also divorced and we have had a talks about future marriage and right now, we both agree that its nothing we want to rush into. We want to know its right the "next time." We both have children from our previous marriages. They get along great. However, my biggest concern, even tho I spend day in day out with this guy before we got involved, we have never disagreed or argued. I am afraid this will change when and if we move in together. Is it time to do this?

2007-06-30 13:21:58 · 12 answers · asked by chassie81 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-30 13:18:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I previously asked a question regarding my fiance's mother's comment of "you don't need a big wedding, your brother only had 2 people at his".

Everyone took it as she is going to pay for it and I was then told I need to pay for my own wedding.

We're not going into debt over a wedding, but if my mom is helping out (poor).. why can't his parents help out (rich)? For a decent ceremony?

2007-06-30 13:16:20 · 17 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Weddings

I just recently found out about a month ago that my husband was having an affair with someone on our job. This lady had the nerve to come to our home and tell me that she's in love with my husband, and he's been lying to both of us. They have been together for a year and a half. My husband says he sorry, but he's really not showing it. He told me that he wants to be with me, but he still has feeling for this hoe!! He says that he does love her, and I don't think I can deal with that. I have been really depressed and don't know what to do. We have four children together, a home, and a marriage of five years. I really can't stand both of these hoes right about now. I have never cheated on my husband and feel that he has disrespected me to the highest level of direspect. He couldn't even tell me the whole truth about the relationship, she did when she came to the house. He says he has not been talking to her and does not want to be with her anymore. Is he still trying to cheat on me???

2007-06-30 13:13:25 · 42 answers · asked by Sexy Seductive T 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so i have an AWESOME boyfriend and i love him. But my best guy ffriend who i used to like asked me out and whenever i talk to either of them i get the same feeling. My bf doesn't know that Adam (the guy who asked me out) asked me out!! SO Cody (my bf) has no idea that i kinda like adam!!

SO CONFUSING!!!

please give me advice!!

THANKS

xoxo, ME

2007-06-30 13:08:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy my age and handsome like me shouldn't be home alone on a Saturday night.

2007-06-30 13:05:51 · 11 answers · asked by Hello 1 in Singles & Dating

ok a guy tries to get to be your friend and desides to start in on you when your boyfriend isn't around

2007-06-30 13:04:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the past 4 guys I have gone out with, I've gotten confused whether I liked them or not and theyve all ended in a similar matter. With the first guy, I broke up with him after noticing I was acting REALLY different towards him [[bad different]], and we went thru all of this drama after getting back together and he'd always hurt me with his ex-gfs. i'd be sad when he'd leave me. i would try and win him back. I would get cringing feelings about him sometimes. The second guy i just started to wonder whether i did or not, it wasnt that big of a deal, it only lasted like two weeks. The third guy, I felt the bad cringing feelings too. when id break up with him, i'd cry, then we'd get back and i'd feel untrue to myself. i finally broke it off completely but i get SUPER mad and jealous about other girls. and whn i saw him, i got happy and attached. Now, Im dating this other guy right now and i'd get nervous when i'd see him [[before we started going out]] and the whole time i felt like i

2007-06-30 13:04:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you find most attractive in a female? does the fact that she gots a kid make you change your mind about her?

2007-06-30 13:03:21 · 7 answers · asked by grneydmexi 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-30 13:02:46 · 10 answers · asked by DetailSpaz 3 in Weddings

does it hurt a guy? and how much does it hurt the girl? do we get any pleasure out of it or is it all pain?

2007-06-30 13:02:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend is completely jelouse of my relationship with my boyfriend... she is constantly saying that i put her on the back burner and i never spend time with her. my boyfriend lives 3 hrs away, while she is 20 min away.. when i go visit him she makes smart remarks, even when i talk to him on the phone.. i don't want to loose her friendship but it's almost like she is trying to make me choose between her or my man.. any advice?

2007-06-30 12:57:14 · 10 answers · asked by confused chic 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who just got married & she's bisexual & she wants my other friend to be in a relationship with her & her husband & be faithful to them. If you're sleeping with somebody other than your husband/wife, then you're cheating, right? She can cheat but wants my other friend to be faithful to both her & her husband.

2007-06-30 12:55:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-30 12:53:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have been dating a guy for a couple months and last weekend he kinda got super distant (i had to call him)and told me that he was broke worried he was going to lose his house and was doing horrible at work but he wanted to see me, he said he would call me right back and didnt. it has been about a week..I havent called again. I shouldnt right?

he does realty and his website is down also that he runs his business off of..i figured he didnt pay the bill

2007-06-30 12:48:19 · 10 answers · asked by Kelly K 2 in Singles & Dating

HELP!
My wife and I have been married for 5 years... I am from the north where we are 'straight to the point" and clear cut. well my wife is from the south and things are done a little differently, much more talking and "beating around the bush"
her mother always seems to not like "our" simple and clear decision making
Her mother was emotionally and physically abuse as a child and has had been disappointed by nearly everyone in her life. She holds her children very near to her heart. Whenever her children would make any choices of their own her mother uses guilt and manipulation to make them feel bad.
Recently, My wife and I have made the decision to have both sets of parents stay at hotels when they visit.(as before her parents would stay with us) due to having LIMITED space(just had our 3rd child, and have small housing) . Her parents are asking "why we are punishing them? what they did so wrong? how hurt they are and how upset we have made them." grr .HOW DO WE STOP THIS?

2007-06-30 12:48:10 · 5 answers · asked by hmmm123 3 in Family

I have a boyfriend and he is the greatest guy I've ever met. He opens the door for me, hugs me, comforts me, overprotects me, etc.! But he has a hobbie of which I have been very supportive since the beginning. Unfortunately, its gotten to the point that he prioritizes this hobbie over me! I mean, now it's like everything we do is dictated first by what times and when he is doing it, and he'll drop everything just to do it (even me). Am I being unreasonable? I just feel so undervalued! What should I do?

2007-06-30 12:46:59 · 4 answers · asked by clau29051986 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

They get to the point that some commitment may be in the air and either run off or cheat why is that? Where are all the decent men????

2007-06-30 12:46:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, this might sound pretty lame. I just want to see what everyone's opinions are. (btw I am 24)

I was born and raised on the Jersey shore (45 min to NYC), and a month ago I moved to Boston. I had gone to DC for college and was fine.

But, ever since moving to Boston, I am just feeling that I made a huge mistake. First of all, I didn't have a job lined up (stupid), so I am having trouble finding an actual career. Aside from money matters, I find myself not really wanting to start a new life here. I feel as if coming here made me realize how important everyone back home is. I was in a lull, and unemployed for months when I was at home, and I thought moving away would be an "escape" for me. I thought wrong. I don't think I like living in a city, and it is so expensive. And, there are not as many job opportunities as I had thought.

Am I wrong to just move back home at this point? I feel like a quitter, but I am really NOT happy..in more ways than one.

2007-06-30 12:45:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Love Independance Day ... firemen are every-freaking-where ... if only I could flirt!

2007-06-30 12:44:47 · 11 answers · asked by Giggly Giraffe 7 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is emo, but only around me and his family. At school hes all happy and funny. and thats y i liked him. and now i found out hes all emo. I dont like him when hes emo, Its like he has two sides of him. but i only like one side. and thats the side i fell in love with. but now theres a different part of him. what does this mean? was it all an act?

2007-06-30 12:44:35 · 7 answers · asked by pagpinkmag 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-30 12:44:23 · 2 answers · asked by nick s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-30 12:40:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Don't you just wish you had someone to cuddle with...I wish I did right about now.

2007-06-30 12:39:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating