ok heres the deal i have liked this girl for about 2 months now. she seems to be interest in me which is good. i ike her alot. We have been out on dates for the past two weeks and we have kissed twiced. the las thing we discusseed was that summer time we should hang out more. i left her a not on her car saying i didnt want things to change between us and i really enjoyed time wih her. all her friends tell me she is into me and that she is really starting to like me more. just recently i asked her to go to the movies with me so for the first time of summer and she called me back saying that she didnt want a boyfriend at this moment, she didnt want to give me any ideas. does this mean we are over or does that mean she just doesnt want a relationship over the summer and she still likes me ?
what should i do or how should i handle it
we went on the date and we both had a great time but we did not kiss or anything it was just cordial
she is definately worh it
2007-06-30 13:39:33 · 14 answers · asked by gman123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it may seem really confusing, but a lot of times girls are like that. It sounds to me that she STILL does really like you, but she wants a break from it right now. Maybe she is really busy during the summer and a relationship is too hard for her to focus on at the moment. When someone wants a serious relationship they have to devote a lot of time to it to keep the relationship strong and steady. What you need to do is talk to her, just call her on the phone and ask her straight up. If you keep waiting you'll never find out. I know it's hard to do this and I'm sure you are very uncomfortable, but you have known her for 2 months so you should be able to tell her almost anything. Depending on what she says then take it from there. If she is not ready for a relationship this summer then ask her to just be friends for now. Make sure to not rush things for her. If you really like her then you will wait until she is ready to start dating again.
good luck.
2007-06-30 13:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually when a girls tells you that they don't want a boyfriend that means that they are not as interested about you. She just wants to keep you as a friend because if you go out with her and things don't work out the friendship would be weird because you have the same friends. I have known a couple of people that have had the same scenario. But do what your hearts indicates. Best of luck!
2007-06-30 20:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by R E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, she likes you, but i think that things may be going too fast for her taste, so yeah just cool it, but keep an eye out if any other guys make a move on her, the last thing you want is losing her over some other guy. Don't pressure her or ask her questions like "So yeah, ummm when can we be bfs and gfs" she just needs time
2007-06-30 20:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's typical for girls not to want to start relationships during the summer because of the fact that you won't see eachother as much as you would with school. and i think that it's better to start off a relationship during the school year too. don't take it personal i'm sure she still likes you but she didn't want you to think she was looking for a boyfriend. just keep on with the casual dates and hooking up or whatever.
2007-06-30 20:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by confused :( 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably still likes you. she probably just has something on her mind ! You should still hang out with her and show her that you care just be a friend for now when she realizes what a great guy you are I'm sure she will want to go out again for real.
2007-06-30 20:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it happen, one thing I have learned is you cannot make love happen. It will happen when it happens. Put yourself out there. If you want date someone else, date someone else. Another thing is if she sees you out with another girl it may make her jealous or realizes she really does like you. But don't sit around waiting for her. I am sure she is a great girl and is worth it. But you can't wait around forever for this girl who may never come around.
2007-06-30 20:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by Cath 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while she might still like you she might of just gotten out of a relationship try and talk to her about what going on between the two of you
2007-06-30 20:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be scared to think that someone is going to stop her from partying and hanging out with her friends... some girls like to wonder if your into them if you show her that she has you it take away the mystery that most girls like... give her space if she's into you you'll know take care and good luck
2007-06-30 20:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she acts like that she might just want to be friends but still likes you just not enough to be GF and BF's!
2007-06-30 20:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by katelyn_roxs55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um.....that's werid. But I think there's something going on with her. Not to be rude, but maybe she found a new guy or something. I think you should just ask her about it, if she doesn't tell you, tell her to give you a hint.
keep it going
2007-06-30 20:43:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋