does it hurt a guy? and how much does it hurt the girl? do we get any pleasure out of it or is it all pain?
2007-06-30 13:02:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it doesn't hurt the guy. It only hurts the girl the first couple of times. But, it differs...some girls have a lot of pain and some don't have much at all. I didn't hurt that bad my first time. However, don't let that scare you. It really isn't that bad and it will start to feel good. Only let it happen if you're ready and make sure it's the right guy. He should be gentle with you, and don't let yourself be completely worried and stressed out or it will probably seem more painful. Don't be afraid of it.
2007-06-30 13:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by IndiHippi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't hurt a guy (damn the fates!). But it does hurt the girl to a certain degree at first. Level of pain differs I think. Some girls say it hurted a lot, and some say only slightly. Depends on you and the level of comfortability. I think if you're uncomfrotable then it will hurt since there won't b much lubrication being produced by you cuz ur thinking so much about it. Actual pleasure varies also. Some women claim to have never had an orgasm...while others have one even without having sex (lol...maybe the last statement isn't true!) but HOPE THIS HELPS!!!
2007-06-30 13:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by Juli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it does not hurt a guy and yes sometimes it can hurt a girl the first couple of times , it will get better....and if u are doing it right u will get pleasure out of it..
2007-06-30 13:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's your first time i don't think u will get any pleasure out of it and yes, it will probably be uncomfortable. As for the guy, it does not hurt him and most likely he doesn't care if it hurts you. He's only concerned about one thing and that's not making you feel good but making himself feel good so, don't believe all his **** about how he loves you and keep your virginity until your married to someone you know loves you. You will never regret it i promise you!!!!
2007-06-30 13:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by circle_of_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee will you all get it right!
OK, for the guy, it only hurts if they are made to wait and then they get "Blue Balls"
For the girls- yes it does hurt the first few times, and it also hurts if you have not had it in a while.
Example- my hubby went away for 2 months and when he returned and wanted it, I bled like I was having a period. It hurt, honestly.
If you use a condom, and KY and YOU get on top...then you can control the whole thing and it may not hurt as bad.
Just put it in slow and gentle and take your time.
That said, I am outta here!
BLESSINGS
2007-06-30 13:12:20 · answer #5 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by the questions I take it that u r very young. So, to answer your question from a females perspective I want you to take you fingure and try to force it into your ear.Not to the point where u r bleeding but just enough to feel a little pain on your finger and and in your ear. Notice that your finger is dry and u probably have a little pain due to pressure and your ear hurts from your finger being so dry and unable to fit properly. This how sex feels when u r inexperienced, too young, and dry. Don't have sex until u r responsible to do so.Good luck.........
2007-06-30 13:10:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't hurt really mostly anyone. It shouldn't hurt anyone. The first time a girl "does it" it may hurt and even bleed a little if you have never put a tampon in. But if you have put a tampon in before it shouldn't hurt! Most of the time it isn't painful, and mostly pleasurable.
PLEASE BE CAREFUL!
2007-06-30 13:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by linguinipasta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely hurts the girl wayy more than it hurts the guy
2007-06-30 13:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by lbabygirl08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurts the guy when she walks out on him.
2007-06-30 13:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by tweed801 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no it dosnt hurt guys and it feel good for both
2007-06-30 13:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by Chaos_angel0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋