i have been dating a guy for a couple months and last weekend he kinda got super distant (i had to call him)and told me that he was broke worried he was going to lose his house and was doing horrible at work but he wanted to see me, he said he would call me right back and didnt. it has been about a week..I havent called again. I shouldnt right?
he does realty and his website is down also that he runs his business off of..i figured he didnt pay the bill
2007-06-30 12:48:19 · 10 answers · asked by Kelly K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't call him. Instead, go to him directly and see if he is alright.
2007-06-30 12:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would call him either, he obviously has some issues going on, thats just me. If he wanted to contact you-believe me- he would have. Don't take this to heart either. You cannot sit around heartbroken. Go out with your friends, keep yourself busy. When and if he does call, be kind and supportive, but let him know how you feel. Good luck!
2007-06-30 19:55:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic. If things really are bad, then he might need some time to get things back in order. Since his site is down, im guessing he's not lying. Give him another day or so, then call. Depending on the status of y'alls relationship, you might need to just call it quits, or dig deeper to make sure hes really okay.
2007-06-30 19:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jo*Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just not that in to you right now. If you were a priority in his life he would have called. Sounds like he has some things he needs to work out. Do not call. He may realize he misses you and decide to call, if not it is his loss. Sorry.
2007-06-30 19:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by Smarter than the average bear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm sounds like he has a girl or is married or found someone else and maybe running from the cops! not a cop you typical looser dude that you don't need !
2007-06-30 19:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call and see what is going on. At least this will put your mind at ease.
2007-06-30 19:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u want to be with someone who is broke! and is lazy and can't keep a job rather then a house!!
2007-06-30 19:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should see if you could help him in someway... maybe that would make your relationship with him more stronger... just call him and tell him you would like to help in anyway you can...
2007-06-30 19:53:21 · answer #8 · answered by im... a.... tool..? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has issues and if you want these issues call him. if you dont want his issues, baggage, problems, bills, etc. then dont.
2007-06-30 19:52:34 · answer #9 · answered by Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should b concern.
2007-06-30 19:52:16 · answer #10 · answered by A* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋