Family & Relationships - 30 June 2007

In January I found my wife with another man, since then we've been seperated and are indeed getting a divorce. I've been kind of moping around these past few months, but I've found a woman I really care about and do want to be in a relationship but I'm afraid of getting hurt again. I really think we could have something. My question is, should I go for her or is it too soon?

2007-06-30 14:43:51 · 6 answers · asked by Matt 2 in Singles & Dating

We are planning a budget wedding (5k) and I'm not the least bit ashamed of it. Our families are split between Ohio and Texas and we are having the wedding in Ohio, the grooms hometown. First my family gripes because they can't afford to travel to Ohio. I know they can, but fine. We send out invites for a post-wedding reception in Texas for those that couldn't travel where a wedding video will be shown. Very informal at my grandpa's farm where my mom was married. Everybody accepts.

We can't afford to cater two receptions so the second informal reception is going to be potluck. When half my family found out it wasn't catered they have announced they won't attend since HTB's family got free food and it wasn't fair. The first reception will be getting very simple, cheap food, most homeade.

I wanted to vent and see if anybody else has a smiliar situation.

2007-06-30 14:40:13 · 18 answers · asked by pspoptart 6 in Weddings

bowling or
minigolf

2007-06-30 14:40:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i hate homework can somone do it for me cuz it suxks and ill pay them or something

2007-06-30 14:39:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Here are the facts or statements made and after hearing them you decide. My girlfriend and I have a child together. She has been divorced for 4 years and has 2 kids from this previous marraige. Here are the things that are done or said.
1. I just realized (after our child is born) that I am not over the pain I felt from him leaving me and taking my family away with out warning, but i am over him.
2. I never loved him or felt anything close to the feelings I have with you.
3. I cant marry you right now until I fix some things in my life and get them right with God.
4. I dont know why I cant stop this resentment toward his new wife.

Facts.
She moved in with me when I got a job change but moved out less than 2 months later "because she chouldnt be so far frm her kids" Funny that is what was forced on me when she moved. Know, I know how I feel, its just that she insists that she wants to be with me forever and her dream is to be married to me someday, just not now. U decide

2007-06-30 14:37:00 · 16 answers · asked by drbrian247 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Like if someone ignores you, u should ignore them back

vice versa?

unhealthy game, but hey, what goes around, comes around....

thanks for Input.

2007-06-30 14:33:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous 3 in Singles & Dating

With out puttin to much detail into it I was abused by my father for 16 years when i turned 16 i finally got the courage to tell someone my whole family turned against me I had to face him in court without any support from my mother the judge gave him 8 years in prison he just got out and my mother wants me to forgive him well i cant i am afraid to face him i am 25 now and still have nightmares this man ruin my life i got heavy into drugs and achol to try to push the pain away well i have been clan now for 7 years but my question is should i forgive him is it ok for me still to hate him

2007-06-30 14:33:21 · 12 answers · asked by sara24 2 in Family

Okay so basically my life sucks right now. i just found out im transferring schools, my dad hates me ( i dont live with him), my moms going through menopaus and she actscrazy, all my friends from my elementary school are acting like bitches to me, my supposed "best friend" talks **** about me, im fat, and im afraid im never going to get a boyfriend. i dont know what to do anymore. everytime i try to be the "funny" one to cover up my physical flaws (the fatness) with my personality my "friend" taylor says im not funny. I am the oldest of 3 on my my moms side and i just found out my dad had ANOTHER kid. (my mom and dad are divorced). nobody takes me seriously when i say that i am reallly depressed because i was always the "funny" one and i have always kept that persona. I try to keep the humor going so no one can see what i am like on the inside. my dad is a total *** hole, and hes always telling me to lose weight- which only makes me eat more (im a compulsive over eater). someone help!

2007-06-30 14:33:05 · 7 answers · asked by sheishere 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Marriage to me has be traumatic...it’s like a bad evil word and I don't like having that label anymore.

Can I go see the judge and say..."look dude, I don't want a divorce because well, that sucks...but maybe a downgrade of some sort so I'm no longer married...that'd be greeeat"

Just like that.

Then I think I’d be happy...no more marriage label or silly rules.

Thanks.

2007-06-30 14:28:22 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

at all???

2007-06-30 14:28:20 · 2 answers · asked by lalala 2 in Singles & Dating

ok ladies lets say you like a guy at school and you stare at him everyday but yall dont really talk. After about 3 months of not seeing him, do you still like him? (this is a shy girl)

2007-06-30 14:26:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a 13 year old who wants to move on with life.....i want to meet new people not stay with the old....i dont know how to tell that to my best friends....we've been friends since 2nd grade....i want too have lots of friends instead of just 2....what can i do?

2007-06-30 14:24:59 · 10 answers · asked by Gabby 1 in Friends

My son lives in Miss. He has a daughter that is 9. He has been paying child support and has not seen his daughter in 6 months. When he calls to get to see his daughter, the ex will not let him.He even has to pull teeth to get to talk to her. The daughter tells my son she loves him and wants to see him. This leaves my son crying and heart broken. The divorce papers say that my son gets his daughter every other weekend.

What are the steps that he can take to get to see his daughter and to make sure she follows the divorce decree.
Seems like she is in contempt to me.

ANYONE KNOW THE LAWS IN MISSISSIPPI?

2007-06-30 14:24:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't live with my mom, but I live with my step-mom and father. My father will be getting out of the military soon, so we have to move out of military residence. I am not sure about what college I'll be going to yet because we don't know where we're moving. I don't start college until September 2008, and my mother is bugging me day after day after day about what college I want to go to. How do I get her to stop? I've told her repeatedly that I don't know right now. What would you do in this situation? (Rude comments will be ignored.)

2007-06-30 14:20:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my byfrnds daughter is 2yrs 4 mo's old. she can speak very well. i try to keep in touch with her by talking to her on the phone but would rather not have to talk to her mother/the exwife too much.
if i am nice and social she goes in to issues of money/jobs/etc and complains about her life to me.
i don't want to be rude but i would prefer to just talk to the child and say a quick hi and bye to mom.

what's a nice way to say i'll pass on hearing about your issues

2007-06-30 14:20:39 · 3 answers · asked by nataliexoxo 7 in Family

He is my best friend but I have only known him for a year. I already told him that I like him, in fact he was the first one to know. He said he was cool with it, but at the time he had a girlfriend. They broke up and I asked him if he likes me but he said that he thinks I have a great personality but would rather us be friends. His friend said that he likes me but when I ask him who he likes he says this girl named Veronica. I really want to ask him out, but I am afraid of him rejecting me or that it will ruin our friendship. What should I do???

2007-06-30 14:20:35 · 5 answers · asked by kitkatgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I was at my bf's house and i got a phone call that i had to take in the middle of foreplay...it was not possible for me not to pick up..so anyways..the phone call got me really upset..but i continued with sex for him and because i thought itll make me feel better..
so anyways..in the middle of sex i made him stop because i wasnt feeling it and because i was rlly upset..
so he stopped..finished up so he wont get blue balls and by the time he was done i was crying so he came and cuddled up and told me he understands and all..

I feel happy that our relationship is strong enough and that im comfortable enough to tell him to stop half way and he'd understand...but i feel really bad..

not sure what the question is but i just dont wanna talk to someone who knows me personally.
anybody knows what I should do to feel better/make it up for him?

2007-06-30 14:19:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No way...my whole entire life am I going to last through the marriage curse.

I've barely made it 10 years....thats enough punishment i think.

To get married for life...sounds like you commited some kind of dreadful crime and have to be sentenced "for life".

2007-06-30 14:14:52 · 24 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

and you could only save one. Would you save your spouse or child?

2007-06-30 14:13:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

less than a year after you broke up?

2007-06-30 14:11:30 · 21 answers · asked by Janice 4 in Marriage & Divorce

And when your kids got older did it seem too late to have the fun (partying hanging out with friends) that you skipped?

2007-06-30 14:09:49 · 10 answers · asked by lindseygirl 3 in Family

This guy texted me and told me his week really sucked!, and I replied back to him and said, "Well I am sending you a big hug and smile". Do you think he knows that I like him by my text.

2007-06-30 14:05:29 · 17 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating

Would you considered relationships scared in this day and age, with all that you see and hear? Or is everything a wild toss up? Personally, I don't were that deep.So i'd say toss up. THOUGHTS?

2007-06-30 14:03:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

In fact, its America's favorite pastime...better than baseball....and its a game.

but then after marriage...everybody gets all bent out of shape like its the end of the world?

Why is it such a big deal where you go to get your freak on after marriage?

It's like the priest puts a spell on the promiscous wemen to make them get upset x100 if the husband gets some side action because she got booorriiing.

2007-06-30 13:59:38 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my ex boyfriend broke up after a year and a half dating. We broke up because we had a fight about whether i deserved someone better. It started off being a joke but then he continued it and got really mad. I love him so much. We broke up a month ago today and I cannot stop thinking about him. Hes all I dream about, and everything reminds me of him somehow. I dont know what to do. I cant see him try and hook up with this girl that hes "best friends" with since we broke up. She is only 15. and he is going to be 18. I know shes the rebound girl but I want him back so badly. I know that he wants to too. A week ago he came over and said all these things like how did I ever leave you? and i love you so much...and i miss you. But know hes got this tough guy attitude towards me. like he wants to hide his feelings. I want him back.please help me. give me some advice.

2007-06-30 13:57:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The usual thing teens go through so dont think I dont know.I like this guy and everyone thinks he likes me back.Well that was the theory till I noticed he was hanging with some other girl more than me (but my bff says hes still flirtin with me)and that girl he hangs with has a sister, and she told me that she told her that she likes the guy I like.What the hell do I do??

2007-06-30 13:57:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I bought these toasting glasses for our wedding but they are not very "wedding like". Our colors are white and black and everything is very elegant and romantic. What do you think of these glasses?

http://s207.photobucket.com/albums/bb200/anna_sfa/?action=view¤t=ToastingGlasses002.jpg

http://s207.photobucket.com/albums/bb200/anna_sfa/?action=view¤t=ToastingGlasses001.jpg

2007-06-30 13:55:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

he doesnt think I can stay sober for 9 months. What do I do? How do I convince him I can be a good mother?

2007-06-30 13:43:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-30 13:42:58 · 33 answers · asked by kittymom28 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been with this boy for three years we have two kids together we were not together the first time i got pregnant but i slept with somebody else and hedoes not know til this day my conception date was the 14 of may i slept with boyfriend on may7and8 and friend on the 17 do u think i should tell him and trying to figure who baby daddy is but son look like the friend a little bit to me but everybody else says he look like his daddy

2007-06-30 13:41:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships