Me and my ex boyfriend broke up after a year and a half dating. We broke up because we had a fight about whether i deserved someone better. It started off being a joke but then he continued it and got really mad. I love him so much. We broke up a month ago today and I cannot stop thinking about him. Hes all I dream about, and everything reminds me of him somehow. I dont know what to do. I cant see him try and hook up with this girl that hes "best friends" with since we broke up. She is only 15. and he is going to be 18. I know shes the rebound girl but I want him back so badly. I know that he wants to too. A week ago he came over and said all these things like how did I ever leave you? and i love you so much...and i miss you. But know hes got this tough guy attitude towards me. like he wants to hide his feelings. I want him back.please help me. give me some advice.
2007-06-30 13:57:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would speak to him in person and let him know of how you feel for him and that you want to be together and that being apart is tearing you apart, hopefully he will feel the same way. It sounds like he already does.....you should have a happy ending.
2007-06-30 14:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by shellybear0925 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem, it's horrible sweetie, i know... Call him up and say 'do you want me back or no?' It's now or never and if he says 'no' then forget it. As hard as it may be Ignore him. Cut off any contact with him. He's just playing games with you- he probably just wanted to use you. Have one good night alone and think about everything thats happened all you want, cry about it, laugh about it but after that night just push it out of your mind....Go out with the girls and forget about him!!! Read some good books to get your mind off of it- I found that that helps out too.
2007-06-30 21:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah C- Equine Help 101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly what you just told us. tell him honestly how you feel. if you don't then maybe you two are playing hard. tell him that it was all over a misunderstanding that starred out as a joke and you never meant anything by it and you apologize for even mentioning it. At least if he walks away you've at least given him something to think about when he thinks of you...and you know he thinks of you too. Good Luck.
2007-06-30 21:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by lamonross80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One way to get him back and if you do it right then he will come back to you. Find some guy to go out with and make sure you and this guy go around people your ex knows so it will get back to him.Don't worry it will get back and if you no where he is going to be make sure you take this guy with you.One more thing get a guy that will go along with this because you don't want to hurt someone the way you are hurting right now. If you can't find someone to go along then go out with different guys that way no one will be hurt.Give this about 2 weeks maybe less and watch how he starts to come around you .
2007-06-30 21:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah young love....
Call him and simply ask him if will meet you somewhere to talk. Try to work things out. If they don't well let him have his space and try not to think about the other people he gets involved with.
2007-06-30 21:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by i_b_winkn_at_u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Score some weed and listen to some New Wave music. That usually helps.
2007-06-30 21:03:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I just discovered a book called "Co-Dependent No More." this book will help you. It helped me a lot. Good luck. Find it on Amazon.com
2007-06-30 21:02:07 · answer #7 · answered by Fartbuster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are ya sure she's the "rebound" girl? Or is the argument and break up so he could be with her?
2007-06-30 21:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by Elt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn kids...move on it will not last in the long run anyway
2007-06-30 21:04:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋