i feel so bad!?

Question

I was at my bf's house and i got a phone call that i had to take in the middle of foreplay...it was not possible for me not to pick up..so anyways..the phone call got me really upset..but i continued with sex for him and because i thought itll make me feel better..
so anyways..in the middle of sex i made him stop because i wasnt feeling it and because i was rlly upset..
so he stopped..finished up so he wont get blue balls and by the time he was done i was crying so he came and cuddled up and told me he understands and all..

I feel happy that our relationship is strong enough and that im comfortable enough to tell him to stop half way and he'd understand...but i feel really bad..

not sure what the question is but i just dont wanna talk to someone who knows me personally.
anybody knows what I should do to feel better/make it up for him?

Answer 1

You owe your boyfriend an explanation for your behavior.It was clear the phone call did upset you; however.,you don't make love to feel better.Intimacy or making love is the ultimate in expressing our love for another person who we consider special.Although you did not ask a question, it is apparent you also know that the incident was not normal. Hence, I will suggest the following course of action for you.1) Never answer your phone in the midst of intimate moments with your partner. If the call is important, take care of it before or after but not during.2)To the extent that you can, explain the call to him --who, why, etc and why you were so troubled3) Tell him that you're sorry, thank him for being so caring and understanding.4)Tell him how much you love and admire him.Finally, continue to build on and enjoy what is evidently a terrific relationship. This is to wish you both all the best. Please let us know how you are doing.

Answer 2

Victoria, I am sorry to hear that there is a bit of disrespect in your house---but a 33 year old will never move out if mom is dottering and spoiling him---why should he go?? trouble is he will never learn how to peacefully co-exist with a woman on a mature level...what a shame. You are also witnessing a bit of crude disrespectful behavior that comes from being family and living together all these years. To an outsider this all sounds terrible--to you and your brother it is just day to day living. So say no if you have to--he won't explode or turn blue. Relax, be cool, be nice, and good luck-----SMILE

Answer 3

This too has happened to me....i am sure if your man was understanding about the situation then everything is fine between the both of you but i know you want to make it up to him so just plan a romantic dinner for him and go from there because you know best of all what turns your man on so you just go from there. That should make you feel loads better. Hope your conscious gets healed from this ordeal because that is definitely what is going on in this situation....a guilty conscious.

Answer 4

dont treat him like this. thats how guys think they all that and thats how they break hearts