My son lives in Miss. He has a daughter that is 9. He has been paying child support and has not seen his daughter in 6 months. When he calls to get to see his daughter, the ex will not let him.He even has to pull teeth to get to talk to her. The daughter tells my son she loves him and wants to see him. This leaves my son crying and heart broken. The divorce papers say that my son gets his daughter every other weekend.
What are the steps that he can take to get to see his daughter and to make sure she follows the divorce decree.
Seems like she is in contempt to me.
ANYONE KNOW THE LAWS IN MISSISSIPPI?
2007-06-30
14:24:50
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My son and his daughter live in Miss. He has tried for 6 months to call and get to see his daughter. The ex wife will not let him see her and there is a boyfriend in the house that is part of the problem. He argues with my son and will not let my son talk to his daughter even tho he hears her asking to speak to my son.
2007-06-30
14:53:30 ·
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Well, if he is in the same state that his daughter is in, then why doesnt he go and see her every other weekend?
Divorce is an ugly affair, and it hurts the child the most, as the Mother turns the child away from the Father, (because she has the most influence on her, being she is with her 24/7), and the Father gets the shaft every time, if its his fault or not!!
Go back to Court and get the Court to have them enforce the divorce decree, and you can even get them to give him phone privledges if he cant make it...(make sure its in writing, or she doesnt have to abide by it, and if she refuses, then she will be in contempt of court and maybe he can get his daughter if enough violations occur.
I wish you well...
Jesse
2007-06-30 14:35:24
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answered by x 7
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Regardless he should be able to see her. What he should do is have the divorce papers in the car when he go's to see her , when the Ex starts that crap then he should call the police and show them the papers and tell them she refuses to let him exercise his parental rights of visitation. She'll have to let him take her. Mississippi or not!! If his living in another state then he just about has to move there to get the right actions done. If she moved there with her daughter after the divorce he might can force her to move back, some states won't allow the custodian parent to move away because the other parent can't exercise his visitations. He should check into it. If he moved then he'll have to go visit her there but get the police involve if necessary.
2007-06-30 14:36:54
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answered by Countrygirl 5
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I think you should see a lawyer and find out what can be done about this situation.
However, I'd also try to find out why this is happening. You have heard one side of the story- your son's- and there are always two sides to one. Perhaps your son has done something to anger or upset his ex wife,and she feels she has to protect the child.
No one really knows what goes on inside a marriage- not even the parents of the people involved.....Good luck!
2007-06-30 14:29:46
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answered by Anonymous
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Please give up typing in caps - it’s comparable to yelling, and it’s no longer mandatory. For starters kinfolk courtroom is person friendly. In my area the universal public of human beings are actually not represented by ability of information. After that - you haven't any longer have been given any legal rights right here. Your husband has the rights, and he needs to exercising them. How? He is going to courtroom, gets a visitation order (oftentimes observed by ability of a help order), and if the toddler’s mom does not comply her records a action to hold her in contempt. She can not legally withhold the toddler from him (back, you haven't any longer have been given any legal status) except he (or his difficulty) is achieveable to the toddler emotionally or bodily. Your previous marital historic previous is incomprehensible. in actuality, bringing it up in courtroom can bypass one among 2 techniques - how did you're making this variety of undesirable determination the 1st time around, why and how long did you reside interior the marriage OR journey made you smarter. Now the strictly legal answer is a case can not in basic terms be pushed aside particularly once you're REPRESENTED by ability of information (see, now I’m yelling) devoid of explanation. somebody interior the legal equipment has to report a discontinuance or a choose has to push aside it, and workplace work follows the two difficulty with a view to incredibly close the courtroom report. the two your legal expert isn’t telling you something he/she could desire to tell you or it isn’t pushed aside. At this point if i've got faith you your legal expert has dedicated an distinctly severe act of malpractice. Your legal expert works for you, is in charge to you - call for the small print. I additionally don’t comprehend the restraining order except the calling replaced into intense, threats have been in touch, something else took place. Courts do no longer randomly hand out restraining orders in keeping with no longer something. IF the mum have been given a restraining order that extends to the toddler, sure, this all is sensible - your husband is courtroom ordered to stay removed from the two the mum and the toddler. i could additionally drop your strategies-set - something is the two no longer suggested right here or you don’t comprehend what took place or you're venting. and that i did study the “freaking” question. the region, as you describe it, is opposite to how the regulation works in those concerns. Why?
2016-10-19 01:19:33
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answered by ? 4
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The Child support office has nothing to do with this. He needs to take her to court. Child support and visitation are seperate issues. She is in contempt, but nothing can be done until he takes her to court.
2007-06-30 14:39:35
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answered by MIKEnJAPAN 5
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Maybe if he takes some effort and drives down there she will let him. He has to try. The exwife is not going to bring the daughter over to cater to him. He needs to do his part.
2007-06-30 14:36:09
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answered by Anonymous
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it is sad when relationships brake and they divorce their children. the child is the one who will suffer in the long run. i tihnk your son should go to his town family court and expose his case. you can't do much being only the grandmother, but you can serve as a witness in the case is needed.
2007-07-01 08:19:28
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answered by COOKIE 6
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speaking for delaware...
here you can bring your pprs showing when you have visitation and an officer can escort you to the location of the child to get them for the visit.
if she violates the order you need to notify the courts and keep detailed records of each violation.
2007-06-30 14:35:05
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answered by nataliexoxo 7
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WELL YOU NEED TO CONTACT THE CHILDSUPPORT OFFICE AND TELL THEM WHAT IS GONING ON. AND THEY WILL GET YOU A COURT DATE. AND YOU NEED TO FILE A CONTEMPT ON HER BEHALF AND TELL THEM SHE IS NOT ALLOWING YOU TO SEE YOUR CHILD. ONCE YOU FILE A ORDER THEY WILL CONTACT YOU. BUT I MUST WARN YOU MS IS VERY SLOW ABOUT GETTING THINGS DONE I GUESS BECAUSE I LIVE HERE IN INDIANAPOLIS
2007-06-30 14:31:22
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answered by bonitamarie@sbcglobal.net 1
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that is some bs. call the cops and have your divorce papers with you, they will escort him to enforce the divorce decree.
2007-06-30 14:57:21
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answered by Anonymous
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