Family & Relationships - 30 June 2007

its a very long story but my boyfriend of 8 months has been cheating on me for 3 months now... so he was doing all this behind my back and when I find out is when I was at his house and he gets a phone call and its her... so I steal the phone from him and ask the girl whats going on and she says "Oh, well we have been dating for 3 months now... so I guess he forgot to breakup with you" and then I go on vacation and I thought I would call and say I'm sorry for yelling and leaving the house like that... well I call and his new girlfriend picks up and says that he never wants to see my face again. How do I get over this horrible nightmare???? Has this ever happened to anyone??? And how did you get over it cause I cant sleep or anything!!!

2007-06-30 16:22:32 · 6 answers · asked by Brittney_McA 2 in Singles & Dating

I am having serious trust issues with my spouse. We have been married for over a decade and have several children together. I have not felt like this in the past. In the past 9 months, I have seen some changes in my spouse. I have confronted him about lying, texts and phone calls to a certain female co-worker, conversations regarding meeting females with his friends, and pornography. All of these events have been isolated and have been discussed after each event. I believe the trust between us has been broken. After discussions regarding each event, he swears that he loves me and our family and would never do anything to ruin it. I know he adores my children, but I am unsure about his loyalty to me. I considered a legal separation a few months ago, but then things seemed to be getting better again. He states that I have always been suspicious of his activities and I am just a jealous person. Any thoughts....

2007-06-30 16:22:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We been married for more than 30yrs I found out last Nov that he has been calling her and her call him on his cell phone He told me they were just friend But Told him friends don;t call each other three and four times a day and keep it a secreat. He would go out side to have cig. and talk to her on the phone . Because we desided no smoking in the house any more. I confronted him about it told him he had to stop. well it hasn't and I don't know what to do. He says he loves me but I don't know any more. Need some to talk to Help

2007-06-30 16:13:24 · 13 answers · asked by mint7426 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to sound conceited or anything, but I have been told that I am really beautiful because I have a really nice figure. I take after my dad's side of the family. Anyway... my sister is a bit older than me , and she is really pretty, but she takes after my moms side of the family so she is a bit overweight. She tries so hard to wear clothes that make her look sexy, but really they just make her emphasize her weight, and I try to tell her what looks good, and what doesn't.. but she doesn't take my advice.

She and my mom both are trying to lose weight, but since obesity is in their blood it's very hard for them. Sometimes I get the feeling that they are jealous that I am skinny because of the way they look at me. It makes me feel really bad... to the point where I wish I could gain a lot of weight.. and sometimes it makes me really depressed.
I am also the only one in my family who has ever attended college... and I am really happy about the way my life is going.. but ...

2007-06-30 16:12:29 · 31 answers · asked by Mimi 4 in Family

I dated this guy back in 2004 summer, we got really close. We went to colleges at opposite ends of the state. i went to see him on a break. at first it was good, then he told me we should be just friends because of the distance. I heard from him off and on for the next year.. talked on the internet... Hadnt seen him at all for two years. He called me in May and wanted to hang out.. He came over to watch a movie.. and it was like picking up where we left off. He was very sweet and hugs and kisses...... We have seen each other several times.... My biggest question is this.. after not seeing me for two years would he suddenly call, come see me, share some hugs and kisses if he wasnt still interested. I have been burned several times by guys and dont want to assume too much and get burned again. I havent met anyone i like as well as i like him.I know that if he has dated at college there has been nothing serious... what do you think?

2007-06-30 16:11:01 · 12 answers · asked by Baby cakes 2 in Singles & Dating

...but I really don't want to now. I'm almost 17, and my parents have given me permission to go because there aren't going to be any parents there. I don't want to go because I found out that they're bringing tons of alcohol and drugs but I obviously don't want to tell them that's the reason for cancelling. Can anyone help me think of an excuse to tell them why I can't go?

2007-06-30 16:10:39 · 34 answers · asked by tulip987654321 2 in Friends

my bf of 6 months has shown me just how scary his drinking is, he always does a "you dont love me, i hate you, i love you to death etc" tantrums when he drinks which is alot, he is drunk probably 5 days a week. sometimes hes cool and calm then goes to bed but lately he has been getting pretty rowdy....he hit me once but it was more like a "light ***** slap" lol it know it sounds funny but kinda freaked me out. so im wondering if anyone could give advice on how to let him know what he needs to do to fix this before it goes too far.

2007-06-30 16:07:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-30 16:04:24 · 10 answers · asked by Heather64 1 in Family

Im in a relationship or what ever you call it getting no where fast her father pays the rent I spend every dollar I make try to keep her happy she has no job were always broke she is 29 going on 17, says she loves me one day and hates the next says were really not compatable, but we do alot have fun sometimes but when she drinks shes a different person she drinks every day blames it on me treat me like shi# loves me in the moring and says what she wants out her mouth to me. I'm in love or just stuck with no were to go except out of town at my cousins house I have kids in this state, i love being a father I just wanted something to work feel like a jerk scared to be alone its easy to say go the hard part is doing it how can i leave or should i.................

2007-06-30 16:01:19 · 20 answers · asked by CJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Fathers are men and they know how men think, so that is why most of them are so over protective of their daughters. They know how they use to manipulate girls and try to get them into bed (well not all of them, but most of them). So girls thats the hidden secret... If anyone things i'm wrong, you can comment.

2007-06-30 16:00:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my dad doesnt have any problems with them or anything but he never lets me go to his house..why

i ask my mom and she lets me go.... then when he sees me leaving he asks me where im going then i tell him .....he then says he wont let me go,.... then he tells me to go inside and he hits me with a cane...

he doesnt even ask if my mom let me go

if i try to tell him my mom let me..he says that i am lieing and he wont even ask my mom if its true

why???any advice

i cant talk to him cuz he always with his freinds drinking beer and he tells me no to everything and tells me to go inside

im 13 years old

2007-06-30 16:00:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We broke up about four years ago, when I was pregnant with our son. Since then, we have both dated other people, but we still end up having sex with each other. He keeps telling me that he doesn't want to get back together, but he won't just move on and leave me alone. I still love him, and it's very hard to get over him with him coming around(and when I say come around, I mean to see me). Every time that I talk to another guy and he finds out, he gets jealous, and every time I try to cut him out of my life(I only want him out of my life as far as my personal life; as far as our son is conerned, that is a different matter), I turn around and he's still there, like he's not taking me seriously. Is it that he still wants me but is afraid to admit to it, or is he playing games with me?

2007-06-30 15:59:32 · 6 answers · asked by camiasia2000 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Its like everytime a girl tells me I'm cute or something I never say nothing back really except thanks. Then when I see a girl that I like or whatever I never have the courage to approach them and make conversation. I am 15 now and I want to fix this issue right now because I don't want my friends and everyone else think I'm scared of girls. When I be wanting to talk to girls at my school I get really nervous. Please help.

2007-06-30 15:58:12 · 16 answers · asked by Tommy R 1 in Singles & Dating

hey one of my friend is a shy but very decent guy...he always wants a best gal for him but due to his shy nature he always failed to find one...can u tell me why galz don like him?

2007-06-30 15:55:58 · 35 answers · asked by yasir k 1 in Singles & Dating

I am going to visit with an aunt of mine whom is really just a very dear close friend of the family's for as long as i can remember. She has been fighting lung cancer for 2 vyears now and im waiting her approval to go and visit with her. Im very excited yet dreading the trip as well. I haven't sen her in 10 years however we have talked. Just these past 2 years we havent cause shes been sickly. Im just wondering what sort of conversations to talk about? Im afraid ill just be a bucket of tears, yet she dosn't want to be treated as if she is ill.

2007-06-30 15:55:53 · 12 answers · asked by cc 1 in Friends

After we had our 3rd child my wife asked me to have a vasectomy, which I did. She's now pregnant with our fourth. She says somehow my vasectomy didn't work. Everyone else I know says she's been running around. I feel like a Jerry Springer guest.
She refuses to have a paternity test. I have to say in her defense that she hardly has time with 3 young kids to cheat. Threatening to leave in not realistic- I want to be with my kids so I ain't going anywhere?
I'd like some advice- what shoudl I do? No wise guy answers please.

2007-06-30 15:54:05 · 17 answers · asked by stains 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i knew this guy through a friend and ages ago we met up and it was aweful. . . . it was the worst meeting ever. it was soo bad that when he said ill call you later i was close to saying no please dont. anyway he got a gf since then and as soon as he got a gf he started calling me every saturday to see what im doing. . . . im really wondering why he is calling me and why his gf isnt with him on the saturday. he is extremely hot but im not one to get involved in a guy thats already with someone. i dont understand him?

2007-06-30 15:53:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-30 15:51:11 · 15 answers · asked by vermilion 1 in Singles & Dating

want him badly and he was willing also. Would him being married stop you?

2007-06-30 15:47:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this boy for 1 whole year, and i was scare to talk to him. So i didn't talk to him for the whole year. And now school over. I don't know what to do?Then one of my friend told me that. He like me, but i not sure.So i don't know what to do? Should i just tell him? (i am 13, and i am chinese)

2007-06-30 15:47:00 · 5 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Singles & Dating

I can't just stop seeing her, but she makes me so upset my stomache ends up in knots. I want to find a way to transend her bitterness and feel calm inside, to protect myself. Any suggestions?

2007-06-30 15:43:02 · 5 answers · asked by augustus 1 in Family

Well i dont even know where to start. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and two months but we have been friends for over 5 years. I love him with all my heart but i'm begining to feel like he doesnt care anymore. I kno he loves me but he doesnt act like it anymore. Whenever he talks to me he says oh he has to call me back but then never calls back for over 10 hours.(yes i have counted) He always leaves me waiting. He'll tell me that he is coming to see me then wont show up for hours. But whenever i try to talk to him about it he gets upset then makes me feel like im making a big deal out of nothing... AM I???. I just dont know what to do. It really hurts me. I could see if it happened once or twice but everyday i just cant deal. HE JUST DOESNT GET IT... when i ask him what happened he either says he fell asleep or before i even say something he'll say i know your mad and im sorry. I dont know if its me or is it him can someone please just help me.

2007-06-30 15:42:59 · 25 answers · asked by Alaina S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay. im 14. Goin into high shool with a bunch of my freinds from my middle school. I have glasses. I kindve like them.. I need them. But im rly confused. I dont know how my freinds will react. I heard stories of people who are mocked becuz of them. Also i no girls arnt big on them. I dont have great other fetures eather. Im freaked out about hi school to begin with. This rly scares me. I need all the help I can get. PLEASE HELP. Ps i had glasses for a few years. none of my freinds know) And PLEASE just dont schold me (UR VISION WILL GET WORSE! U ONLY HAVE 2 EYES! THEN THEYRE NOT TRUE FREINDS) PLZ REAL ANSWERS

2007-06-30 15:41:57 · 8 answers · asked by amorre456 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dunno what to do my old ex moved away a little while ago to halifax for about a year and i got over her and she came back down for 2 weeks and still likes me and shes changed alott and i wants to hook up but the thing is that my buddy brad has liked her for a long time even when we went out for 2 years and thought this could be his chance to hook up with her and is pissed that i did first what should i do save a friendship and forget her , or lose a friend to keep her?

2007-06-30 15:41:39 · 2 answers · asked by pantallica21 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

why women like a guy who is agrassive and mistreat them than a guy who is nice who is prefer as the B word

2007-06-30 15:40:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How did that work for you?

2007-06-30 15:39:47 · 6 answers · asked by Still*Perfect 4 in Singles & Dating

This is my wedding cake topper, I need pictures of cakes that would compliment the topper. I don't like the white frosting with it, it looks weird. I need some new ideas.

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2007-06-30 15:39:05 · 12 answers · asked by I heart pineapple soda 3 in Weddings

ok complicated situation: one of my best guy friends asked me out about a year ago, but back then, i only liked him as a friend so i had to turn him down and i felt terrible about it. And now i like him as more than a friend but he's going out with another girl.... I think he still likes me but im not sure. Do i say anything to him? what do you think i should do? thanks

2007-06-30 15:38:47 · 25 answers · asked by .... 2 in Friends

I've been in relationships time and time again they just dont work i stayed only to hope things would work out the abuise i take mentaley is suprising to me Why cant i just leave some situations alone im old enough know to no right from wrong even other people have told me but it seem like i just dont get it ive have tried but when ever i get put out i come right back to deal with the bull shi? i have a child with this person not my first if over why wont i leave..................

2007-06-30 15:38:35 · 6 answers · asked by CJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf father is n the hospital and he's dieing what should i do, i want to give him great advice, he's feelin sad and dont want to tell his mom how he feel and he's losing hope of his father living cause he had a heart attack tuesday morning,he's sad 4 his mom also, what could i say or do all i can do is listen but other than that i want 2 give him great advice.

2007-06-30 15:37:09 · 2 answers · asked by Tamika B 2 in Family