its a very long story but my boyfriend of 8 months has been cheating on me for 3 months now... so he was doing all this behind my back and when I find out is when I was at his house and he gets a phone call and its her... so I steal the phone from him and ask the girl whats going on and she says "Oh, well we have been dating for 3 months now... so I guess he forgot to breakup with you" and then I go on vacation and I thought I would call and say I'm sorry for yelling and leaving the house like that... well I call and his new girlfriend picks up and says that he never wants to see my face again. How do I get over this horrible nightmare???? Has this ever happened to anyone??? And how did you get over it cause I cant sleep or anything!!!
2007-06-30 16:22:32 · 6 answers · asked by Brittney_McA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be grateful your 'relationship' was still kind of new when you found out he's a turd bucket. Sorry to hear it. I suppose you are probably a really cool woman and a lot of guys would love to know you but you are somehow magically attracted to poop so you end up with that guy. Well, you should probably be angry at the guy and also at yourself maybe just a little for being with the wrong guy. Only you can prevent bad relationships. Don't count on the other half to do it especially when you can't count on them to be honest. Good luck hang in there.
2007-06-30 16:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by eldude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I think almost every girl in today's society has been cheated on. I was in a similar situation years ago, so I can empathize with you. He's horrible. He's just the lowest of the low, and frankly, so is his new girlfriend because she seems to have known about the situation all along.
It's not going to be easy to get over this and you're going to be in pain for a long while, I hate to say. But you will get over it. I'm sure you're going to wonder why he did this and what you could have done to prevent it, but the fact of the matter is that he's just a jerk. The best thing for you would be to occupy yourself. Try your best to keep your mind off of him and your relationship. Hang out with friends, take up a new hobby, listen to music, paint your room. Do whatever it takes to distract you from the pain. It will go away, I promise. But it will take some time. A really good way to look at it is to find out what you can learn from your experience. Everything happens for a reason. Since you can't change the stupid things that he did, find out what you can learn from it. Become better and stronger by turning a bad situation into something positive. Take care and I hope you feel better really soon!
2007-06-30 16:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by karenc17psu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sister/woman- you are worth so much more than his treatment of you! You must look in the mirror and see your worth and believe in it or you will allow this to happen again.
You were trying to apologize for what when you called him? Being angry? Standing up for yourself? He will probably do it to her, too. Poor girl, she doesn't see her own worth either.
Most of us have been hurt by someone we cared about. Instead of obsessing about the things you miss about him, be angry about his treatment of you. Put away his picture, delete him from you phone and email and hide any gifts he gave you- or throw them out! Decide how you want to be treated and don't settle for less- and make sure you treat your future partner with the same consideration you want.
It will fade in time and but you will not forget. Use the knowledge to create better future relationships!
2007-06-30 16:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i actually had the same thing happen to me. only time heals it, im sorry it happened to you but he will get his karma back, just dont think too much about it. the only thing i can say is go out be around people who makes you laugh. and if it helps throw the things out that remind you of him. also please dont listen to SLOW sad love songs, break up songs anything it makes it worse.
2007-06-30 16:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by missaizarockstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him..i KN0oW its hard but in 3 months you will get over yourself. you crying IS NOT bringing him back. sorry but that is the truth..
2007-06-30 16:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by .. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwwwww....dats horrible !!!
face fact that he have a new gf now...and u have to deal with it
he;s not worth it...find someone who really loves u !!
cheer up and gud luck !
2007-06-30 16:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by Sidu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋