I dated this guy back in 2004 summer, we got really close. We went to colleges at opposite ends of the state. i went to see him on a break. at first it was good, then he told me we should be just friends because of the distance. I heard from him off and on for the next year.. talked on the internet... Hadnt seen him at all for two years. He called me in May and wanted to hang out.. He came over to watch a movie.. and it was like picking up where we left off. He was very sweet and hugs and kisses...... We have seen each other several times.... My biggest question is this.. after not seeing me for two years would he suddenly call, come see me, share some hugs and kisses if he wasnt still interested. I have been burned several times by guys and dont want to assume too much and get burned again. I havent met anyone i like as well as i like him.I know that if he has dated at college there has been nothing serious... what do you think?
2007-06-30 16:11:01 · 12 answers · asked by Baby cakes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is reaching out to you.. you made an impression on him and he cant forget you. the distance is making it hard because neither one of you know how the relationship could work.. but both of you seem to want it :) good luck
2007-06-30 16:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not interested in you, he's got some funny ways of expressing friendship. Think about it like this. Would you go up and kiss one of your friends for the heck of it? I wouldn't. Not unless I wanted him to think that I wanted to date him. He is obviously trying to get your attention. Talk to him about it. If he likes you still, then maybe you all can give it a try. There isn't a reason why you can't give the relationship a chance. You already said you are still attached to him emotionally. He acts the same way. Talk to him and see how it goes. Be honest with him and get him to be honest with you. Remind him that you two have a past and there is no reason to hide feelings if they are there.
2007-07-08 21:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are still interested then go for it but this time just don't put your everything into it all at once,be mindful of all the things that you have been through already and do not make the same mistakes. This time around let him make all the first moves that way you do not expect so much and get your feelings hurt when or if he does meet your expectations.
2007-06-30 23:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by Talithea H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, Rather a fire that burns consistantly than a flash flame that burns out quickly. "I haven't met anyone I like better" doesn't say much for any real interest on your part.
Why don't cha just sit on the porch (someplace where you are comfortable), ask him his intentions. I know it sounds funny, but I'm 56 and still go through the same stuff. But don't just "settle" Sugar. You are better off on your own than that.
2007-07-08 22:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two have the basis for a serious relationship, so why not simply ask him what's up? That way you don't have to guess, or ask us. ASK HIM! He seems to respect you enough to not want to lead you on. I think that's why he was honest with you and let you know that the long distance thing wasn't going to work for him. Just ask him. He'll probably be honest now.
2007-07-08 18:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um. Unless he is out of college now, he is intrested to start back where you all were before. And be with you for real. But on the other hand, he might be playing you because he doesn't have anyone else to play. My advice to you is, be wise, very wise.
2007-07-08 20:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by Noelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will tell my dear take it slowly dont get to excited about the situation wait and see his reaction does he call you more often? and want to be with you or he has no girl right now and trying to see if he make up back with you just dont rush this before you get hurt again..
2007-07-08 21:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its kinda sweet how he just out-of-the-blew called you...i might be reading into it wrong but if some guy i hadn't seen in forever called me i would think that he must have been thinking of me alot...i would say take a chance on him...but don't let your guard down and be careful, he could suddenly be back in your life for lots of different reasons (not all of them being good reasons)....good luck!
2007-06-30 23:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by :P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a heartache waiting to happen...you're the easiest way for him not to find a working relationship. Your caution is your heart telling you he's trouble...listen to your heart.
2007-07-08 23:08:22 · answer #9 · answered by Chicken Dude..Vinster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he wanted to pursue his college courses. i would continue to be friends with him. if you two are not seriously
dating someone else, go for it.
2007-07-08 20:51:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋