why women like a guy who is agrassive and mistreat them than a guy who is nice who is prefer as the B word
2007-06-30 15:40:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i bet half the women on here that are saying they like a nice guy... and were right now with a nice guy......if a " bad guy" came along.....theyd wipe that "nice guy" right out of here.....trust me
2007-07-02 15:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ladies who tell you they 'like nice guys' are ... not 'liars,' but are feeding the fantasy that paints 'nice' guys into a corner.
See, I -am- a nice guy--incredibly nice--but you don't see me cruising with a backseat-full of ladies. That's because--being nice--I would feel like I had to take care of each of them; and I don't want that responsibility yet.
You could say ladies' bad-boy lust is genetic, from back when the bad cavemen would have all the food because they would beat up any nice guys that tried to get it.
Also, the 'bad boy unless I get what I want'-moral carries over into other areas of the bad boys' lives. Ladies figure, "He'll be a powerful nice-guy if I give him what he wants," and they're usually right.
2007-06-30 22:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by Uncle MythMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, girls like bad boys, not women. A girl who is iggnorant, immature, and whose biggest concern is enjoying life are attracted to bad boys. A bad boy means excitement and thrill, a good guy is just a nice guy who will be nice to you, but he's not the most exciting thing she'll meet.
Women, who have grown up, want a guy who will treat them well. They have gotten over their bad boy fetish and realize that they need more than just a bad ***.
2007-06-30 22:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION. And being nice doesn't make a woman choose you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, but get over it. Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want
2007-06-30 22:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by madden pro 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because the bad boys radiate confidence, independence, dominance, power, and laughs. most of them just don't know they do. It's possible for a good guy to take on these traits without mistreating them. Above all though, humor is the strongest trait to use to attract someone.
2007-06-30 22:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by Cory W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Psychologically speaking, a bad boy fits the type of protection that women look for in men.A bad boy seems like a men that's strong, unlike the good-hearted nice guy.
I also think, it's primarily in that we think that we can change them when they fall in love with us.Which is not always true.
2007-06-30 22:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by Marla 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not that we just like bad boys.. and that we don't like a nice guy.. every girl likes a nice guy, don't get me wrong.. but
if you're too nice then a girl would get sick of you because you don't have her coming back. boys that are more of a flirty tease is much better than some suck up boy that's telling you that your gorgeous every second.
take my boyfriend for instance, he knows to say things at the right time to make me feel good about myself, but he can also be a complete turd licker. but that's what attracts me to him.. is that he can be himself, treat me good, but also be someone that keeps me coming back so i dont get sick of him... but it's not worth it if hes just going to break your heart and make you cry over him.. those are usually the relationships with the stupid guys. or the" aggressive" ones.
usually you go through that stage when your younger and a teenage girl.. than when your getting settled down with a guy your going to spend the rest of your life with.
it's just a phase that a girl goes through i guess.
2007-06-30 22:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by ;asjhdf. =] 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women ONLY like these bad boys when they're ovulating. Which is dumb, you'd think they'd want the other men to father their children but nope.
The rest of the cycle they want the guy who is financially stable, would be a good father, treats them with respect, etc.
I don't know why but this is true. I studied this stuff.
2007-06-30 22:44:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They're kind of fun, risque and exciting because they are daring and often a challenge, but when it really comes down to it, they make very bad marriage material! :-)
But when women get older, busier and have more responsibilities and life experience, they usually don't tolerate those kinds of little relationship games; nor do the men.
2007-06-30 22:43:59 · answer #9 · answered by americansneedtowakeup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those arent women my friend for the most part they are girls and very young ladies. I havent met many women over 30 who is still in that phase. Its just a part of life.....
2007-06-30 22:44:07 · answer #10 · answered by SS4 Elby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋