Girls, i need guy help!?

Question

ok complicated situation: one of my best guy friends asked me out about a year ago, but back then, i only liked him as a friend so i had to turn him down and i felt terrible about it. And now i like him as more than a friend but he's going out with another girl.... I think he still likes me but im not sure. Do i say anything to him? what do you think i should do? thanks

Answer 1

ask him

Answer 2

Well depends on how srtong your feelings are. If you are pretty serious and have deep feelings I would invite him to meet for lunch. Then do it in person. Let him know that you totally love his friendship and never would want to loose it. Tell him that you really admore how when he asked you out last year he was able to maintain the friendship without any weirdness. And then say how you feel your able to have the same mauturity as he had before if he denies your question. Then ask him if he still has those feelings or has he completley moved on. If he asks why, tell him you want an answer first. Then he answers and you take it from there. Dont make a big deal out of it. Just say you werent ready to date him back then and now you feel up to it, but if he isnt interested you totally understand because you had his chance but you are just very grateful for his friendship! Best of luck girl!!! Make sure you work it and look super hot!!!! You go girl! Keep us posted on what happened. I would love to know. Add me as your contact!

Answer 3

Since your asking girls for thier opinion I hope that I can help in this little matter from a guys stand point. There has been alot of issues such as yourself having feelings with your friend. Its only normal happens all the time. What I am getting at is that when friends become more than just friends it really messes with their mind and heart. Not knowing what to say or how to react when someone you knew for so long just confesses. Wiether its from a boy or a girl. In your case you did not do wrong, just did not know what to say or feel at that time. Now that time has gone by you have started to develop feelings for him. In his case, when he asked you out and you did not accept, well that really ended his motivation towards you and so moved on to another girl. Now its his time in a relationship to see if his girlfriend is going to work out or not. Problem is-----is that no one has the right to interfear in someone eleses relationship. I know you would feel that same way too if someone tried to butt in? So with that said if you still want to tell him how you feel then do it like your still best friends. Just ad how you feel about him and that your not going to interfear with his relationship and that you hope that someday things might work out with the both of you. LOL don't make it sound like your confessing all your feelings on him do it in a normal way ok you might make him feel uncomfrontable. Their is still a 50/50 chance that he might get mad at you or he may not, but in life you have to take your chances, becuase if you don't then someday you will be looking back saying man if I only told him. Well I leave the matter in your hands. Love is not a game it can make you happy or brake your heart in an instant. Well you can always play it safe and see how things work out between them. But hell life is short lol take the bull by the horns if you got the balls to do it lol take care.

Answer 4

yeah you should. Say something along the lines of "Remember when you asked me out? Since we know each other so well I think it could work. I know you have a girlfriend now but I just wanted to let you know" and he can respond and agree or he might be over you. Be sure to include if you dont feel the same way I still want use to remain friends. Good luck

Answer 5

well you know how they say slow you blow that what happen in your case. Now ask yourself would you like if the shoe was on the other foot and it was you that was talking to another and an guy that you just like as a friend just realize that he like you more then a friend and he step up then said to you i am feeling you a little bit more then just a friend but YOU are feeling the GUY you are talking TO NOW....JUST THINK ABOUT. how would you feel????

Answer 6

No, you should not tell him as he is with someone else. That was a long time ago and he has moved on since asking you a year ago. If he breaks up with the new girl, and the timing is right, you can then tell him.

Answer 7

Wait until he breaks up with the girl eventually then take advantage and be there all the time to comfort him. He will associate you with comfort and will grow a liking to you. Plus if he asked you out before there has got to be something special he liked about you and that most likely hasn't gone away.

Answer 8

do 1 thing.u just dont talk 2 him.u do somethink 2 attract him 2 u.i mean were sexy clothes.if they r going outside or anywere u just b an detective n listen what they talk,where they r planning 2 go.if they r going somewhere then u talk a boy with u n go behind them.n stay with that boy always n then also he is not coming 2 u then finally tell him"I LOVE U" n kiss him.

best of luck!

Answer 9

If the girl he is going out with is one of your friends dont say ne thing...but if she is just some girl i would say something if u really have feelings for him and you think he still likes you make a move sista =] lol

Answer 10

tell him how u feel but once u do the feelings will prolly go away. like one person already said, u want what u cant have. be careful depending on how much of a friend he is, it might ruin ur friendship. its all a little too risky but then again ppls feelings r on the line here.

Answer 11

You should talk to him, but be ready to accept either answer. Usually if a guy likes you early on, he continues to have irrepressible feelings for you, even though he doesn't act on them. But then, everyone is different. The only way to know is to leap.