Family & Relationships - 30 June 2007

2007-06-30 03:13:34 · 5 answers · asked by ari-pup 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Right so i have started to talk to Emily more as a friend and not a lost lover. I went out with Jerri last week and things went ok. I got a slight inclin she may like me. But i dont want to keep texting and calling her because my mate Luke who liked her before was always calling her and Jerri used to tell me that Luke was getting too 'clingy', and idont want to make that same mistake. What do i do next

2007-06-30 03:13:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I believe she was born in Mt. Holly NJ 08060, on January 7th or very close to that day in 1972. Her name is Bonnie Jean Williams by birth, but I believe her name was changed due to an adoption by her stepfather. It could have possibly been Fenimore. Her mothers name was Joann Flemming. I think she grew up in the Burlington County NJ area. I would greatly appreciate any free help. Thank you!

2007-06-30 03:12:27 · 4 answers · asked by mexnirish 1 in Family

im 21 and this guy i know is 23. we started hooking up maybe 2 months ago. we have had sex maybe 3 times.

he knows i have/had a boyfriend during this time. he calls me randomly to hang out, but also tells me to call him too (which i never do). whenever we hang out we have sex.

last time i saw him he came to visit me at my home. i told him i didn't want sex that night. he seemed ok about it, he kept smiling and told me it was fine. he was worried he offended me.

so does he like me or just like sex?

2007-06-30 03:01:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Back about 6 1/2 yrs. ago when I was single, I had an affair with a married man for about 6 months. At that point I was selfish and wasn't thinking about how wrong what I was doing was, I was only concerned with what I wanted. I knew his wife, though we were not friends, we just all hung out with the same people. I know that she heard lots of rumors about us, and at one point someone sent her an annonomous letter to her work telling her about the affair, though her husband kept denying it. I know however that she knew about him and I. They split up about 2 months before he and I stopped seeing each other because I knew it wasn't going anywhere between us because he was too busy trying to get with any woman he could find. Since then I have felt really guilty about what I let happen with this man, and always said that if I ever ran into his now ex-wife, I owed her an apology. I have ran across her Myspace profile. Should I send her a message apologizing to her for what happened?

2007-06-30 02:59:07 · 37 answers · asked by Pink Cowgirl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Its Saturday im free to do as i please. Trying to think of something to do to broaden my horizons through the net. Like new friendships any ideas.

2007-06-30 02:57:21 · 13 answers · asked by rain_b_ow 1 in Friends

its been 3 weeks so far. should i call him to see if he died?

2007-06-30 02:56:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is a good guy - one of the few left

2007-06-30 02:46:50 · 19 answers · asked by Brown'n 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Don't you see feelings are only feelings, it doesn't mean you should act on them or they're correct. If a woman in an abusive relationship is convinced her man loves her, do her feelings not betray her? And if here feelings can betray her, why can't your's betray you?
Furthermore, I see guys who play on this, teling women all the things they want to hear(oh, you're so beautiful, you're the only one); just toying with your emotions to manipulate you for sex. And they got 5 more just like you, but that's Ok, because you feel he really loves you? Yeah, right.
I'm very disappointed with the whole relationship lie of our society if you can't tell.

2007-06-30 02:43:59 · 8 answers · asked by guy o 3 in Singles & Dating

My best friend has asked me to take her to see a male friend from school she bumped into by chance two weeks ago after she had not seen him for 30 years. He re-married two days after their chance meeting but they have been in contact by telephone every day since meeting up. I am not sure of his intentions, but my friend is certainly enjoying the attention she is recieving! My friend has been married for 24 years and has 6 kids from 23 - 15 years old. She does not have a driving licence, meaning she cannot go to meet him independantly of her husband. So she has asked me to take her. She says her husband would not understand and would not want her to see her friend again as he is rather possessive. She is my best friend and has helped me after the death of my Mum. But I am also friends with her husband and family, although not as closely. What should I do?

2007-06-30 02:38:16 · 40 answers · asked by rose 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok. i'm a very sexual person. not promiscuous, gay, infact no intercourse till marriage. i don't know if this is weird or what, but i keep a journal, really private, about my U KNOW WHAT measurements each month, and whenever i get real hard, i right about it. give your thoughts

2007-06-30 02:35:44 · 9 answers · asked by chizldbod 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My MIL is an alcholic and doesnt call or come around until she is liquored up. I have expressed my dislike to my new hubby and to her. All that happens is she gets mad and stays away which upsets my hubby. I have kids from previous marriage and they have never been around anyone like her. How can I keep her at a distance and keep my hubby happy also? She has put him through he** as a child but he still wants her around. When she is around, I get physically sick. My hubby says"thats just my mom" and I say she doenst respect you or our household and I could care less if she EVER saw us again. Hubby understands where I am coming from but says he still loves his mom and wants us to get along.I can not get along with anyone who disrespects him. Please send some advice my way! Thanks

2007-06-30 02:35:29 · 15 answers · asked by dee4rad 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this boy named steven kang. he's smart and good at math ( i need a math tutor). although he isn't very popular or athletic, i need to use him to help me in math.

he doesnt seem to talk to girls much, and we've always had kind of a rivalry between who can study more and do better in school.

now i need his help in math and i don't know how to ask him

2007-06-30 02:29:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was always gonna end up with 1 of them. Although I only ever see the other guy at events of other mutual friends, I have thought about him every day for the last 15 years since I left school and gradually lost touch. He was part of my close circle of friends but we were both shy and never really got it together. My husband was outside my circle at friends but we became best friends and still love each other dearly. We now have children. It has not always been easy, and he cheated on me 7 years ago. We put it behind us and things are ok, I'm not unhappy with my husband . 6 years ago met up with this guy again at a function. My friend had never met him before but she said she could see the sparks fly. He has been with a girl for about 10 years on/off they don't have any real commitment don't live together or anything. Whenever we meet we have a quiet moment agree to keep in touch but it never happens. I know he feels the same. Seeing him always screws me up for months. What do I do?

2007-06-30 02:24:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Lets say your bf is handsome and has a head full of hair, and one day you suddenly discover he is very much bald and has been wearing a wig. And his bald thinning look is not very appealing. Would you
1. Break up because of his physical unattractiveness.
2. Break up because he is so insecure about a trivial hair thing and has been covering it up.
3. continue to be his gf.

2007-06-30 02:14:38 · 18 answers · asked by Kannan J 2 in Singles & Dating

he is a very descent guy.He told me tat he loves me and i came to know that his love is very deep.but i see him as a very good friend of mine.Even i already have an affair.i have told this to him earlier itself.Now he says that he cant live without me.He is so sensitive.i am afraid whether he will attempt a suicide.please suggest me a way what i should do..please

2007-06-30 02:10:05 · 13 answers · asked by kavya 1 in Singles & Dating

well it just got worse i thought that she would stay loyal to an agreed separation but one month to the day on my daughters b/day my two kids saw my wife in bed with another man how deverstating is that she swore blind last wednesday that nothing was going on trust me and like an idiot i did my kids hate it my wife is trying to get the kids to like this man and they dont want to know
when i saw my wife this morning she said nothing to me what so ever some advice would be nice its killing me !!!!!!!!

2007-06-30 01:59:17 · 19 answers · asked by yamadori4u 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when i was 13 (im 16 now) this kid who was the same age as me kissed me and touched me innappropriatley.... he had done this four times and he told me that i wasnt pretty and stuff... was this molestation or sexual harrassment? i didnt like what he was doing but i couldnt stop him because he was bigger than me and he wouldnt let me go... i havent told my mom but my current boyfriend knows... so i have two questions actually, one: was i molested? and two: how do i tell my mom please help me!!

2007-06-30 01:56:00 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my partner works with a bloke who is addicted to internet porn, and mastrubating when he feels, to the extreme where he wont go anywhere with his wife and kids, stays in and watches porn, drinks up to 15 cans of beer a night and is voilent and has broken his wifes nose only a month ago, he also is unfaithfull and is not choosy, he drove 150miles to have sex with a woman he met when he was working away oh and not to mention the old granny round the corner!, he works in a team of about 4 men and is often found slying of to the van telling the other lads he's going to sharpen something!, they know this as he steams up the windows and the van starts rocking! He constantly drinks and start's talking about his sexual fantasies and things he has done (even to his boss on a works night out) flicking **** under the bed for later investigations!!after anal sex with the wife, and all the details! SURELY THIS MAN NEEDS HELP, WHAT DO YOU THINK?

2007-06-30 01:54:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married for 14 years (3 kids). A few days ago I came home from work and got a strange phone call from a girl who said my hubby was cheating on me with her. She said "Can I speak to Cindy? (that's me) I'm sorry to tell you this but Greg has been cheating on you with me for 6 months now. I just found out about you. I can't take this anymore." Then she hung up before I could say anything.
I just sat there in shock. About 2 minuits later the phone rang again and a girl (the same one i'm pretty sure said," I'm sorry but my sister just prank called you. She got your number from the phone book."Then she said, " You guys, that was really mean." and hung up. Here is the strange part. My first name is not listed in the phone book, only my husbands is, but she used Cindy when asking for me? If it was a random prank call how did she know my name? I confrunted my husband and he denies everything tooth and nail. Her phone # showed on caller ID as "private number".

2007-06-30 01:49:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what should i do to make them both enjoy the night?

and her best friend is also a girl

2007-06-30 01:43:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i are both 20, and we've been dating for a year, although we might as well have been dating for like 3 years now. its a serious long term, gonna get married in like 4 years relationship. i dont wann do clothes, and he doesnt like jewelry, and i want it to be special and under $60
any ideas??

2007-06-30 01:36:39 · 2 answers · asked by Blondie131 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Bars and pubs seem to be the best place for meeting single girls. But I don't drink. I don't like either the smell, taste or the after effects of alcohol. I tried red wine because some s*ker lied it was non alcoholic but discovered it was alcoholic as well, and had a hard time gulping it down. Also in bars and pubs the drinks are so expensive.
I go alone to bars, cause I don't have similar minded friends lookin for girls. It would look very awkward if a guy sits alone without drinking (though it won't look awkward if a guy in a group ain't drinking). What do you suggest? I really wish there were better places than bars where singles socialize.

2007-06-30 01:36:29 · 17 answers · asked by Kannan J 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you like them clean shaven or a bit stubbly?
I go for the rough and ready look!!

2007-06-30 01:31:39 · 22 answers · asked by ωєℓѕн 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-30 01:29:00 · 1 answers · asked by TONY L 1 in Singles & Dating

there's this person i really,truely loved and he just didnt care so i really need to get over him but i cant find the best way to!

2007-06-30 01:16:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-30 01:09:28 · 23 answers · asked by shilo1510 1 in Marriage & Divorce

seriously it gets annoying, I always hear girls talking about bf's & ex-bf's in public & everywhere all the time, for example, when a girl has a boyfriend, she makes it so obvious, but when a guy has a girlfriend, he doesn't make it obvious, like I never hear guys talk about girlfriends the way girls about boyfriends, like girls are always discussing their relationship status & what's going on in it, because I've heard the word "boyfriend", more often in my life than the word "girlfriend", why do girls always ***** & complain about boys?, like throughout high school & currently in college I always heard girls always saying, "I hung out with my bf this weekend", stuff like that, I never hear us guys saying that, it's like girls show the whole world about their dating life. Like when a girl breaks up or gets back together with her bf/ex-bf, she tells all her friends & blurts it out in public, but for guys, they only bring it up if someone asks them.

2007-06-30 01:07:34 · 17 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Singles & Dating

im a guy. you just won. and im at your feet.

embarrasing huh?

2007-06-30 01:05:20 · 3 answers · asked by Hilary D 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to massage my freidns feet, how do i go about asking without acting weird. If anyone has asked a freind to massage there feet how did they do so without looking weird.

Also i ask my freind can i massage her feet she is like "my feet dont hurt" She wants her feet massaged when they hurt and not otherwise any were of massaging her feet. We are close also her feet were hurting but sadly i wasnt there to massage her feet. This was last week

p.s i have a foot fetish

thanks

2007-06-30 01:04:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating