Girls, if you find that your bf wears a wig would you break up?

Question

Lets say your bf is handsome and has a head full of hair, and one day you suddenly discover he is very much bald and has been wearing a wig. And his bald thinning look is not very appealing. Would you
1. Break up because of his physical unattractiveness.
2. Break up because he is so insecure about a trivial hair thing and has been covering it up.
3. continue to be his gf.

Answer 1

i would continue to be his girlfriend.

he did this im guessing because he was afraid of what i'd think and that if i found out he was balding, he would lose me. if i went for him because of his looks then thats my badluck and his chance to find someone who would respect him for who he really is. but being me, I only go into a relationship if I trust myself enough to love them and so to leave them because of something so trivial as to wearing a wig would be at my expense. It wouldn’t be unconditional love and it would prove to him that I really didn’t love him. He was afraid to show his true self and the day I find out is the day my true self is revealed.. whether im willing to accept him and help him work through his fear together and develop a stronger love through understanding his feelings and mine.. or to leave and say, well that’s all folks. I mean, it’s the same with girls right? We wear makeup and sometimes certain types of clothes just to attract guys and for them to see that we are “beautiful” but one day they might wake up to us looking horrible in the morning and it’s then do we know if they really love us for who we are or if they really only liked the shell which covered us up..

I think love is unconditional and u should always love someone from the inside out.. no matter how they look, nothing is more beautiful than a person’s personality.. if they are scared, don’t back away, that isn’t what they want.. that’s the reason why they clam up in the first place, because they know that they will lose people if they know.. it’s the ones that stay in the end no matter what which are worth keeping and truly loyal to their loved ones. =)

Answer 2

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Answer 3

4. Get over it and start worrying about things that actually matter.

It seems like you're the insecure one here. Give him a break--if you were bald wouldn't you put a wig on too?

In all seriousness, if it really bothers you that bad I'd talk to him about it. You can't have been dating long otherwise you would know about his balding. I'd just talk to him first and ask him why he lied about the hair. If you can't deal with that then break up.

Answer 4

If you're concerned with his wig, then you can't really care about him. Obviously he's embarrassed by his baldness. So have some compassion and find out why he couldn't come to you first and tell you. But maybe because you're so ready to dump him for something so trivial, is really why he didn't. If you care about someone, truly care, their appearance is of little importance. If he's still good-looking with a wig, who cares. I mean, geez, women do a lot to change their looks for the better every day.

Answer 5

You said he was handsome, so if he has a nice head then just shave it & throw out the wig.

It could possibly be because he has or has had in the past some sort of medical condition which caused him to lose his hair.

Don't be so shallow, you're dating HIM, not his hair nor his wig.

Answer 6

Well, i guess that all depends on how much you care for him. I can understand insecurities but he should have been honest with you about it and if you love him, why ask if you would break up, and if he loves you then he needs to trust you more and be more open about things that bother him. No one else knows, just act like you dont. Hope this helps!

Answer 7

If you truly love him, you would stay with him. The true question you should ask yourself is: If someone was cracking a joke about his "wig," would you instantly stick up for him or would you laugh with them? If you love him, you'll stick up for him and love him for who he is. If you'd laugh at it, you obviously don't care for him very much and can consider moving on if it bothers you that much. Think though... most men lose their hair eventually. It's only a matter of time.

Answer 8

If I were a woman and would break up with him, it wouldn't be for any of the reasons you state. It would be because he was dishonest. If I am going to be committed to this lad, then I would need to know, from him, that he was bald, then it would be my decision, based on this, to decide whether I wanted to be with him, or not. Under the circumstances he was misrepresenting himself.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

If I liked him before, I'd date him without his wig. I'd probably try to convince him to give up the wig. A good looking man is a good looking man, with or without hair.