Family & Relationships - 30 June 2007

2007-06-30 04:29:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a person cheats and the fling is very very romantic and highly sexual but the partner is absolutely devasted - was it worth it?
If the partner on taking them back goes on and on about the cheating - was it worth it?

2007-06-30 04:29:13 · 31 answers · asked by Judybaby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Any suggestions on reception music? In particular, first dance, mother/son, father/daughter, wedding party, etc. No religious or country music please and nothing too common. There is no theme for the wedding. The couple, families, wedding party and friends are not necessarily formal or traditional. Music tastes are pretty eclectic. Of course, song selection would have to mean something to the couple, but all suggestions will be listened to, considered and appreciated. Thanks

2007-06-30 04:27:49 · 10 answers · asked by Amanda G 2 in Weddings

what do girls prefer??? and why? always wondered this

2007-06-30 04:26:25 · 11 answers · asked by me luv u longtimmmmme 1 in Singles & Dating

and nothin slushy...just pure real love

2007-06-30 04:25:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My first wife enjoyed oral sex and was passionate about sex, but we didn't get along outside the bedroom. I get along great with my current wife and we are like best friends, but I don't feel like she is my lover. She doesn't get into sex at all. It is impossible to please her. During sex she looks disinterested no matter what I try (and I have tried many things).

2007-06-30 04:24:29 · 24 answers · asked by Willy 444444 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please answer if only from India

2007-06-30 04:24:09 · 7 answers · asked by chin 1 in Friends

I was in a relationship for a year with a boy who told me we would be together forever I used to do almost everything for him and he would do everything for me you could call it young love then all of a sudden he got a new girl and stopped calling me like he used to. We started breaking up and getting back together then one day he promised me that it would never happen again. The next year he told me to get rid of his number and that same year he called me saying I want you to know you make me happy. I was speechless and forgetting about all that happened realized how easy it was for me to fall back in love with him. I would get back into the habit of calling him everyday and talking to him late at night for hours and now he's back to ignoring my phone calls I'm so confused with emotions for him what should I do.

2007-06-30 04:23:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my ex broke up with me and even before he broke up with me he has these ways of being really disrespectful towards me if he wants to spite me..... like the night he broke up with me he brought the one girl he knows I don't like over to our mutual friends house cuz he knew I'd show up there. He's done NUMEROUS other things, such as SLEEP with that same girl after her flaunting her another time and quite frankly I was sick of him always being so cruel to me........

so I slept with his "best friend". I knew I made a mistake when I did it, and I knew he'd eventually find out. I'm prepared to apologize profusely, and I know he will hold a grudge for a LONG time, he may even try to get revenge on me (that's how he is)..... but how would you react???

Take in to account that we were not together and there were no emotions involved with his friend, just simply the sex, thats it.

2007-06-30 04:18:43 · 18 answers · asked by Katia 3 in Singles & Dating

should i call him to see if he died?

2007-06-30 04:18:09 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I volunteer at a pool over the summer and theres this guy that I can tell has been interested in me for a while... Finally yesterday while I was helping out sitting at the edge of the pool he made his move and sat next to me to talk... He asked if after swimming lessons were done we could hang out at the pool. I didn't want to and hesitated, but finally agreed. I tried making it obvious that I'm not interested by not looking at him too much and acting bored, and interested in what other people say to me other than what he says; but he didn't get the hint. Then he takes me away to some secluded spot at the pool, and more awkward conversation, and he asked me out on a movie date.. I declined saying that it was my dad's weekend (which was true lol)...then my younger cousin calls me out from the pool (on purpose because he could see my disinterest), and he comes out with me and asks for my number.. I have never been good at saying no to nice guys so I gave it to him.. then I tell him my

2007-06-30 04:15:37 · 13 answers · asked by Nina 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-30 04:13:35 · 7 answers · asked by Oracle 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I am a stay at home mom. I have two kids (3 counting the boyfriend). I go to school online, take care of my 6 month olds every little whim (bless his little adorable self =), keep track of my 8 yr old running in and out of the house, when there is school that he is doing his work. I cook, do laundry and clean. The part I am most upset with is I clean one room, move on to the next, only to find the clean room is no longer clean. Think it is my children? Partially, but add into the mix my boyfriend who thinks all he has to do is work. I may not be working but if I am going to be a 24 hr a day maid that caters to him, I want pocket money. My job doesn't end at 5pm. Then he gets mad cuz I am "b**hing. Well, do I go to his job and screw up his parts and say oh well, I am done for the day, let's screw up all you worked hard at? I contribute my part, but my part gets disrespected. Time to strike? Nope, doesn't help, neithr does talking to him. Just venting, you can too!

2007-06-30 04:13:33 · 3 answers · asked by ohmom2 2 in Family

My cousin has recently started to secretly date a 14 year old boy I found out as i saw them kissing in my local shop but do you think the age gap is too much?

2007-06-30 04:13:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-30 04:12:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what should i be aware of to know if they're fake or not?

2007-06-30 04:11:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We've been together for 8 years and have a son. Everything has been fine but I started working full time at the beginning of the year and things have been strained. He thinks I've met someone else.
Since I met him I knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him and have not looked at anyone else. I am so not interested in anyone but he doesn't believe that! I have changed since working full time I know that, but it doesn't mean I want to go with anyone else. I had a myspace and he doesn't like things like that so I didn't really know what to say when he found out about it. It was only coz my work friends were on there. I got rid of it but he still doesn't trust me. He goes through my phone aswell. I have a go about it because of the principle even though I've got nothing to hide.
How do I prove that I haven't met or am interested in anyone other than him? Please help.

2007-06-30 04:09:38 · 21 answers · asked by caw 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Out of curiosity...

2007-06-30 04:08:14 · 4 answers · asked by missesmoo236 2 in Family

i am fwb (friends with benifits) with my best friends brother. i like him and he likes me but we dont wanna date. so we are fwb. but when im with him it feels weird.and my friend doesnt know that we are fwb. so i donno if i shoul tell him i cant be fwb with him or just leave it the way it is?

2007-06-30 04:06:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im sure my step dads messing about with things but he died in august last year!!!!!

2007-06-30 04:03:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

how do you handle a difficult daughter / wife / hubby /parents in a suttle way before it worsen the situation and relationship? No matter how crazy u go to find a solution to the situation/problem it still drive u nuts and evry single day u try it keeps falling apart? Brilliant advice anyone?TQ

2007-06-30 04:03:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay i have been married for 3 years. I love my husband and we have a beautiful 10 month old daughter together. We both graduated from high school and i am continuing my education. I got married at 18 years old and now i feel like i missed out on something. I am only 21 but i feel like an old person. My husband wants to go out every once and a while and I feel like i am being a bad person if i every go out. I have only been away from my daughter for 3 nights since the day she was born and that was because i was in the hospital with pneumonia why do i feel so bad for wanting to be with her all the time and yet i want to go out but i am scared to let anyone care for her. And my werid guilty feelings are putting strain on me and my husbands relationship. He says i dont spend any time with him how do i balance out the wife/mother relationships.

P.S. I got married at 18 cause me and my husband had been dating 2 years and he was leaving for iraq.

2007-06-30 04:01:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My stepmom invited my brothers ex wife, her new husband and their baby to my stepsisters birthday party and she did not invite my brother because she really doesn't care for him. They have done this before and they do not tell my brother. They know how much this would hurt him. I don't know what to do. I really don't want to go, but I don't want to punish Molly for her mother's ignorance. Can you please give me advice on how to talk with my dad and his wife to help them to see how this is wrong.

2007-06-30 03:59:39 · 3 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family

2007-06-30 03:58:03 · 30 answers · asked by Gracie W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 23 year old single mom. I met this great guy online last September. We have kept in contact and have even exchanged phone numbers. We have become really close and pretty much talk about anything. The problem is that I feel like he is too young. He is a father of two lil one from different moms and both children were conceived in a period of 6 months. He says that being in Iraq, he has realized many things and has even volunteer to help with both childrens and has bought them a plane ticket to have them come to CA from TX to visit. Now that he came back from Iraq, he insists for us to finally meet in person. He says he wants for us to meet and that he is looking for a serious relationship. His family and even one of his ex's are all excited to meet me? should I take a chance and go for it or should I just make it clear that friendship is all that I want?

2007-06-30 03:57:46 · 11 answers · asked by csprincess2000 1 in Singles & Dating

Heres the deal...in high school i broke my parents trust and then gained it back....my mom was like in college u will have many more freedoms...like having lunch w guy friends...so the other day i had lunch w one and my mom was like i dont think thats a good idea...the other thing is im muslim and dont date outside the religion and thats how i broke her trust but personally i dont want to do that anymore ...so why wont she let me hang w guys in a public place surrounded by100's of people? What do i do? I dont want to have to sneak and lie just so i can hang out with friends...and i want to be honest with her..i mean this is college for goodness sakes ....i dont go to parties bc they're all about drinking and things i just dont do...so now i cant have an innocent lunch ? HELP!!!

2007-06-30 03:56:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Was good? Do you would kiss him/her again??
Hehehe!

2007-06-30 03:51:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my mom dearly. She's a great person. My little brother takes advantage of her kindness and runs over her. I used to give my mom money, in an effort to show her my love and also so she could buy herself something nice. Unfortunatly, my little brother would end up with something nice. He plays her and ends up taking my money away from her. So I stopped giving her money. I don't know what to buy her, cause she seems to have everything. I have been sending her emails, reminding her of how she has been such a positive influence on my life and to let her know that she's the best. My question is.....are the emails enough? Should I also try to buy her a gift? I don't want my brother to benefit. I love my brother dearly, as well. But my hard earned money is not meant to go to him.

2007-06-30 03:49:09 · 12 answers · asked by laid back brainstormer 2 in Family

KENDRICK THOMAS IS BROWN SKIN AND HE IS 22. GOES 2 GEORGIA TECH AND MAYB LIVIN AT JONESBORO OR ATLANTA. HE IS DOIN LAW AT THE COLLEGE. HE HAS A BABY AND I WANT MY BABY 2 HAve a FATHER. HE DOES KNO THAT HE HAS A SON. ANDI KNO IF A PERSON DNT WANNA BE AROUND 2 BE A FATHER LET HIM GO HE NOT A REAL PERSON. BUT IS HARD 4 A MOTHER AND KNOWIN DAT UR BABY DNT HAVE A FATHER AROUND.HURTS.AND IM NOT SAYIN IM GOIN BE LOOKIN FOR HIM A LIFE TIME.BUT RITE NOW I JUS GOTTA KEEP LOOKIN. BUT ANY SMALL INFOMATION YOU FIND OR TELL ME WOULD BE A REALLY GOOD HELP. THANKS EVERYONE.

2007-06-30 03:43:47 · 4 answers · asked by GAWA 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am getting married next year to a man who is in his middle thirties and is the only child. Just from conversations he and I have back and forth, it sounds like his mom is hard to please with the girls he dates. Basically like no one is good enough for her son. I am in my early thirties, never married but do have a daughter who is 8 years old. Her father is not in her picture and never has been. I am a great person, have a great job for never going to college and etc, but have struggle for many years on making ends meet for me and my daughter. My credit is horrible and we do are best to get by. He has no kids, has a college degree in computers and etc. I have only met his mom once and that was at this past Christmas. Going by female intution, I just have this funny feeling that she is not crazy about me. What do I do?

2007-06-30 03:42:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family