Family & Relationships - 30 June 2007

i messed up badly i took something off a mate thinking it was a fake and it wasnt and it ****** me up and i thought i was going to die and i told my parents who didn't shout at me but they think im a ******** which in some ways is worse and because i took it in school i had to tell the school who are trying to force me to tell them who gave me it and everyone is judging me calling me a drug addict and stuff but they dont get that i did it to try and prove to him it was fake not cause i wanted to get high i dont want to get my mate that gave me it in trouble but i want the school to leave me alone cause all the teacher and everything know and are hassling me all the time about it and judging me i want everyone to leave me alone i just dont have anyone to talk to about it and i just dont know what to do now i seriously cant cope and i know its my own fault but if any one has some advice it would be nice thanks

2007-06-30 08:21:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-30 08:20:49 · 26 answers · asked by DANITYCANE4 1 in Singles & Dating

Lindsay Jerianna Reichenbach

2007-06-30 08:19:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She lives with the guy she left me for and he doesn't work. (Writing this down I beleive I need help LOL)

2007-06-30 08:16:58 · 28 answers · asked by paisley1910 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom is very old-fashioned and it clashes with my modern yet traditional views.

- she thinks girls can't be good friends with guys unless they're going out
- if a girl is out with a boy alone, it's suggestive that they're together so I can't get hang out with just a guy friend b/c ppl will think "otherwise"
- she takes pictures of me and my best friend (guy) and hides it or puts it last in the photo album intead of keeping it in the front.
- she disagrees with people going out at night...since we're girls, she doesn't understand why we have to go out when it's dark...we should be home by then

this is driving me nuts!! the older i'm getting, the more it's getting under my skin...how do i deal with this??

2007-06-30 08:16:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How comee most boys never seem to notice me. I mean ... I'm not ugly, not fat, shoulder length blonde hair and blue green eyes. I'm atheletic and I'm nice to everyone. I mean they don't talk to me usuallyy. How comee?

2007-06-30 08:16:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm about 30 yrs old, good looking, easy going, graduated from a top-MBA program and have a dream job lined up after school. But I have trouble meeting girls and sustaining their interest. I have always been concious about the slight stutter in my speech - when I speak to people, I get the feeling that some of them mistake this for nervousness (true in some cases, but totally not in other cases). Sometimes, I can visibly tell that people are "trying to figure me out" and wondering what's wrong with me if I'm not able to pronounce certain words right. This happens on dates as well. My last relationship lasted about 3 years, but I broke up with the girl because I realized that I wasn't crazy about her. I want to meet someone that's a load of fun to be, genuine, passionate and hot. But most of these types of girls are taken already and I'm not meeting girls that I'm excited to go on dates with. So, #1: girls, would you date a stutterer? and #2: what's a good place to meet girls?

2007-06-30 08:15:27 · 20 answers · asked by riddler 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you know if your boyfriend really means it when he says 'i love you'. and dont tell me just trust him bc i already do that

2007-06-30 08:13:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-30 08:13:17 · 3 answers · asked by Yana Y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok guys. If you see a really attrative girl do you go up to her, or just look at her and give her looks? Because it really bugs me when guys just give me looks and whistle, why do you guys whistle?

And how do you show a girl your intrested?

Thanks guys your awesome!

2007-06-30 08:09:45 · 7 answers · asked by TexAss 2 in Singles & Dating

Marriage is different than a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, where if one is always not in the mood or is doing a crappy job at pleasing the other, they can end the relationship.

But in a marriage... well it's supposed to be until death. What incentive is there for the guy to keep working out and staying in shape or for the woman to not baloon up and gain 50 lbs (ie stop being attractive to each other) when they're married for life . Does the sex cease to be satisficatory. Do married couples stop finding each other attractive?

2007-06-30 08:07:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Athens myself!

2007-06-30 08:06:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What Body Shape Do You prefer ?? And Why ??

2007-06-30 08:05:49 · 9 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

i am a senior in high school and have been hanging out with this girl for a while now and we both like each other and i have heard through my friends and her friends that she wants to date me...i need advice on how to ask her..if i should just ask. in person/on the phone. i just don't know the best way...any help is great thanks

2007-06-30 08:04:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner says that male/female relationships are 95% sex and 5% money. I don't think it's that way. What do you think?

Here are some elements that I feel are in relationships. Can you put a percentage to the ones you think are included? Do you have any to add to the list? Or is he correct?

Conversation
Personal Services (massages, haircuts)
Shared or Admired Hobbies
Emotional connection
Looks
Talents (playing piano, fixing things)
Tastes in music, art, decorating
Supportiveness
Tolerance
Kindness
Sense of Humor
Tenderness
Level of Romance
Point of View
Intelligence Level
Spending Habits
Values
Reality/Fantasy Meter
Athletic Level
Physical Energy Level
Health
Lovability
Popularity
Extrovert/Introvert Level
Patience

2007-06-30 08:03:45 · 2 answers · asked by nora22000 7 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when a guy u like tells u r a flirt.

2007-06-30 08:01:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are separated, not divorced yet (we have a baby). I just found out he has plans to marry some girl in a little over a month. He told her we are divorced and we are NOT! She contacted me and I spilled the beans about us still being married, not knowing anything of her before this conversation. He is continuing to tell her we are divorced even though this isn't true. How would I find out if he married her before we are divorced? Is it public knowledge?

2007-06-30 07:57:42 · 9 answers · asked by Leigh 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am very concerned about my uncle. ever since he got out of the navy he has been "hanging out" or "dating" a woman that i consider to be a detriment to him. she bugged him until he finally said yes to dating her. now he is doing drugs ( she has been doing them for a while) and he is so skinny its not funny. she writes and says stuff about me that is not true. she thinks she is more important than his family. she spends every second of her time with him, gave up her kids to be with him and has no job. they fight all the time about things that are really childish. i don't like her and i have let my uncle know this. i feel she has something up her selve. he tells me to try to be nice to her because she basically lives here with my grandfather, my uncle and myself but, they sleep, eat and basically spend all their time out in a broken down van. i am so worried about what this is doing to my uncle's health i just don't know what to do.

2007-06-30 07:56:05 · 4 answers · asked by *~green eyez~* 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife has been visiting her parents for the past week and will be coming home a couple of days after The 4th.

What is something I can do that is special/romantic for her return. I just want to show her how much I missed her and let her know how special she is to me.

2007-06-30 07:55:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-30 07:51:34 · 30 answers · asked by rocccj 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy Ive known for a while, weve been "friends" but ive always liked him and recently it was obvious he liked me too. I called him and asked him to go to the cinema on Monday, and he said yes. Now I feel wierd though. Do guys think badly of or treat girls worse when they make the first move? Evereyone says the woman should wait and so be the one in control but hes really shy and i dont think hed ever ask me.

2007-06-30 07:48:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is there always such a battle of wills when it comes to mother in laws? And I know it isn't just me who has this problem. Is there like some pshychological stuff going into the eternal battle between mother in laws and daughter in laws?

2007-06-30 07:48:01 · 6 answers · asked by Laurisa D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i know love is the most important thing in choosing your mate but what would you think is hotter?


a doctor? in his scrubs?
a fireman? in all of all of his gear?
a bussiness? man in a nice suite?
a car wash attendant ? in his short shorts?
a cowboy? with a lasso and chaps?

2007-06-30 07:45:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or you my true love if so where have you been and get home lol

2007-06-30 07:44:56 · 4 answers · asked by samb2468 1 in Singles & Dating

if you get back with an ex. even though he has changed for the better. he isn't the man he used to be

2007-06-30 07:42:51 · 12 answers · asked by auroa26 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-30 07:42:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-30 07:41:03 · 31 answers · asked by miss tara 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my birthday party is on july 23rd. im gonna invite 4 of my best friends and idk wat 2 do. i was thinking bout a pool party but that seems kinda boring. please help!!!

2007-06-30 07:39:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have this friend who is a girl. we are great friends, and we do have a physical relationship too. but she always is using me, and lying to me time after time. im the shoulder to cry on, and the guy to call when everyone else is busy all everything else you can think of. now i know i love her and vice versa, but i dont want to be in this anymore. im tired of being used, waiting by the phone, getting lied to, and basically only having a purely physical thing with her. we dont go out, or eat out or anything. its only the sex and ill see you at work. thats the ONLY time. what do i say w/out being mean or rude to her to get out of this. thanks

2007-06-30 07:37:59 · 23 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-30 07:36:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating