How comee most boys never seem to notice me. I mean ... I'm not ugly, not fat, shoulder length blonde hair and blue green eyes. I'm atheletic and I'm nice to everyone. I mean they don't talk to me usuallyy. How comee?
2007-06-30 08:16:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I bet they do notice you, you just dont notice them! I don't see any reason why boys wouldnt notice you, especially if you're nice to everyone. Keep on being your loveley self and dont worry about boys (who generally are clueless, especially if they're 13 or 14). Do try to pay more attention though, I bet loads of boys notice you and you jus don't realise :)
2007-07-08 05:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by Goldenfield 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, most 13 and 14 year olds are clueless when it comes to relationships. When guys and girls are that age, they don't know how to approach the opposite sex because they are usually nervous. Give the guys a chance and just live your life. Be a kid because you are stil very young. You will have plenty of time for guys later in your life. Also, if you want a guy to come to you, why don't you take the chance and go up to him.
2007-06-30 08:27:00 · answer #2 · answered by One Odd Duck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are clueless, at your age, you do not need to impress any boys, if they like you they will find a way to talk to you and get to know you. Perhaps you are unaware that someone IS interested in you as you are not mature enough yourself to recognize the signs. Most boys are interested in anything in skirts from a distance only at that age. They talk about you behind your back when they are interested in you, and do not know any more than you about approaching you for a relationship.
2007-07-08 08:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because boys are stupid that's why lol. Though i'm hatin on my own gender but it's true. My friend says that boys are all jerks. I mean it's somewhat true but not all.
Anywayz yea it's just you need to talk to more guys maybe w/o dating like every single one and besides your still young. You still have a lot going for you. Just keep doing that and somebody is bound to notice you even if it does take a while. Patience pays off.
2007-06-30 08:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to them when i was 14 (im 15 now btw) i loved girls and even loved a girl and they dont just care about friends it bullshit if you say what you are most of them probably like you and are to shy to talk YOU approach THEM and become friends and then they will talk to you when they see you. if youve got msn or something add them and talk on that they will talk to you in school more often still. AND BOYS ARE NOT CLUELESS like half of them are pricks but the other half are just trying to stay with there friends and not get picked on for being nice to a girl. all i gotta say
2007-06-30 08:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about them. Your have a lot of time for them to notice you. And when they do, they will still be clueless only older. I think if you ask your mom she will tell you the same thing. My daughter is 11 and she talks with me about boys and when I tell her to take a good look and her older brother and her dad, she says, "Oh my God they do stay stupid." Ha ha ha
2007-07-08 06:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by Laura B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your being too shallow. Personality matters with guys to, you know.
I'm sorry, but from the way you wrote that, I'm not surprised that you don't have a boyfriend. They're not clueless, you seem to be.
Clueless.....God, I hate that movie.
2007-07-07 01:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by elithemicrowave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because they haven't discovered girls yet! They are still busy playing games and this and that. Just give them a little time. The smart ones will come calling first, they always first the cute ones first.
2007-07-08 04:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 and 14 year old boys are at the age where they could care less about girls.
Or they don't want to make the first move.
It's hard to say because I don't know you.
You're still so young.
Guys WILL notice you.
Ask this question again when you're 21 and then I'll be worried.
2007-06-30 08:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie_ is_ bomb. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps they are not into girls yet. Girls mature faster than boys mentally. But watch out when they do notice girls, they will be like a living hormone who walks. Why don't you seek out the boys who are friendly and cordial to you or others, who are already noticing girls.
2007-06-30 08:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by suespie471 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋