There is this guy Ive known for a while, weve been "friends" but ive always liked him and recently it was obvious he liked me too. I called him and asked him to go to the cinema on Monday, and he said yes. Now I feel wierd though. Do guys think badly of or treat girls worse when they make the first move? Evereyone says the woman should wait and so be the one in control but hes really shy and i dont think hed ever ask me.
2007-06-30 07:48:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you did the right thing someone needs to make the first move! & you probably went by your instinks as you felt you both liked each other!. It would have been worse if you didn't do anything & you missed your chance, sometimes you have to take risks in life.As you also said he's shy & he could have taken ages to make the first move, hope your date goes well.
2007-06-30 07:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by on-point 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong, and some guys are so afraid of rejection, hurting that male ego that they won't ask. You just helped show that there is a mutual feeling, kind of broke the ice. Go out have a great time, and let him now take the lead.
2007-06-30 07:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, those are just old fashioned mindsets. Lots of guys will appreciate that you asked them first, cause they're too shy to do it. I mean, my boyfriend and I emailed all last summer after I told him that I liked him, and it took him two months after school started for him to ask me. I think it's great that you asked him out first!
2007-06-30 07:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh please go to the cinema. If he makes a move cool if he does not and the signals are ther for you to make a move cool. if nothing happens then at least you have been ouot with a friend to see a movie
2007-06-30 08:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. Sometimes its nice for girls to take the lead. It takes the stress of the guy
2007-06-30 08:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by _ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on, this is the 21st century. most guys like a girl to do their share too. have mercy on the poor shy guy and ask him out.
2007-06-30 07:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he won't think that of u badly.he's shy so im sure he wanted 2 ask u out but was 2 shy to do it himself.so stop feeling weird since this is what u wanted all along.
2007-06-30 07:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the 21st century! Go for it and suggest a date - thats taking control! :-D
2007-06-30 08:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by Mel T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no this is the 21st century.....women should be able to make the first move....besides if he's shy maybe he just didn't really know how to ask you
2007-06-30 07:53:46 · answer #9 · answered by Kit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah.. just follow your instinct. You gotta do what you gotta do or else you'll regret it that you didn't do the first move - when you look back later on. You're fine! : )
2007-06-30 07:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by vijay888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋