I was in a relationship for a year with a boy who told me we would be together forever I used to do almost everything for him and he would do everything for me you could call it young love then all of a sudden he got a new girl and stopped calling me like he used to. We started breaking up and getting back together then one day he promised me that it would never happen again. The next year he told me to get rid of his number and that same year he called me saying I want you to know you make me happy. I was speechless and forgetting about all that happened realized how easy it was for me to fall back in love with him. I would get back into the habit of calling him everyday and talking to him late at night for hours and now he's back to ignoring my phone calls I'm so confused with emotions for him what should I do.
2007-06-30 04:23:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are back up and nothing more.Why does he treat you like this?Because you LET him treat you like this.Ignore his calls from now on.He would rather have you than no one, BUT if someone "prettier" comes along then you get dumped.This has been his plan all along and will continue to be his plan.Be glad you do not have children with him.For the record,all guys aren't like this.
2007-06-30 04:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, it sounds like he's using you as a fallback. I know that it sucks to say this, because its happened to me, but you have to move on with your life without him as a part of it. I know its going to hurt and its going to be lonely, and Im not wishing that on you, but you really will be better off in the long run. At the very least, take a break from him to clear your head and figure out what you want to do. Good luck and hope this helps :)
2007-06-30 04:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he's either confused or a game player. Did you guys sleep together? Cuz sometimes guys will say anything you want to hear to sleep with ya......unfortunate but true.
It doesn't sound like you can depend on him. It sounds like you are an option for him, not a choice. Find someone that really likes you and wants to be with and doesn't play with your emotions.
Also...maybe ask a guy. They know what goes on in their messed up heads. lol
2007-06-30 04:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by Shellie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET ABOUT HIM. He is using you. He is just gonna keep stringing you along while he waits for someone better. He doesn't really want you but he doesn't want anyone else to have you either. He is afraid to be alone, but he is afraid of commitment at the same time. HE IS A LOSER. You can do better. Good luck.
2007-06-30 04:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person is very fickle (changes alot) and he keeps calling you when he doesn't have a gf but when he gets one he gets rid of you he is just keeping an extra around...Move on and find someone else, think if you two got married like this what kind of problems can you imagin him creating?
hope this helps :)
_Moose
2007-06-30 04:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by Moose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let him know that you are not going to be there waiting on him every time he leave you. You need to go on with your life and find the person that is really want to make you happy and not just for the moment when it is convenience for him.
2007-06-30 04:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you get out of grade school he should settle down a bit.
2007-06-30 04:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes using you and playing with ur heart...move on and get a guy that will really love and respect you
2007-06-30 04:33:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. Hes a piece of sh1t! Don't waste your time.
2007-06-30 04:29:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't care about him anymore
maybe a few years down the road, u will be laughing at how stupid you are to kept thinking of him.
if he really wants to be with you, u better advise him to THINK HARD.
2007-06-30 04:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by jieying 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋