So my ex broke up with me and even before he broke up with me he has these ways of being really disrespectful towards me if he wants to spite me..... like the night he broke up with me he brought the one girl he knows I don't like over to our mutual friends house cuz he knew I'd show up there. He's done NUMEROUS other things, such as SLEEP with that same girl after her flaunting her another time and quite frankly I was sick of him always being so cruel to me........
so I slept with his "best friend". I knew I made a mistake when I did it, and I knew he'd eventually find out. I'm prepared to apologize profusely, and I know he will hold a grudge for a LONG time, he may even try to get revenge on me (that's how he is)..... but how would you react???
Take in to account that we were not together and there were no emotions involved with his friend, just simply the sex, thats it.
2007-06-30 04:18:43 · 18 answers · asked by Katia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't matter what he thinks. Your relationship is over. You shouldn't be hung up on him anymore. You should find out what the best freind feels like - used piece of meat?
2007-06-30 04:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look...you and him are not good together. 2 wrongs don't make a right. You both slept with other people so you are both guiily of cheating. It doesn't matter if he did it first or not. You still slept with someone else. That still doesn't make it right. It would have been better had you NOT slept with that other guy. You're just feeling guilty because you slept with that other guy, that's why you want to apolgize.
You got tired of him anyways being disrespectful to you. He was propably trying to piss you off. You might have to let him go and move on. You even said yourself that he's done "NUMEROUS things " already. That's a clear sign to you. There is always plenty of other fish in the sea. Go find you someone who loves you for and won't waste your time. Good luck
2007-06-30 11:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by Warrior Guardian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was involved in a relationship similar top this when I was younger. She cheated on me, so I cheated on her to pay her back. Well, needless to say that doesn't work very well. The relationship was a bad one. I think it sounds like the 2 of you don't belong together because the relationship isn't about giving and caring, it's more about who can outdo the other. It's toxic. I think you should try to find a guy who will treat you with respect and dignity and not play with your head and your feelings all the time. The best revenge is to be happy and successful without the other person. Move on and learn from this so it won't happen again.
2007-06-30 11:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you both 10 years old! For God's sake, grow up. If he does things to hurt you and make you hate him, and you do things to hurt him and make him hate you, then you both are wasting a lot of time and effort on someone neither one of you loves at all. Stop playing these Soap Opera games and just leave each other alone, move on and go to the Wizard of Oz, I hear he's still giving out brains.
2007-06-30 11:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by mainah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda sounds to me like you want to get back with him and you hoped sleeping with his friend would make him jealous and come running back to you.
I'm not saying that you were 'right' to sleep with this guy, but why should you feel the need to apologize? Your ex as in 'ex', is no longer your concern, or shouldn't be, so don't stress over it.
2007-06-30 11:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by Don A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth makes the world blind and toothless... I would cut my losses and be done their is no need for all this revenge stuff it get time consumming and life is too short for that...
-Moose
2007-06-30 11:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by Moose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously this guy is going to act like a little kid no matter what you do. Be proud of your decisions. Let him do what he wants. Don't let him affect you. Try to find something to occupy your mind. (Like God) Soon you will forget all about him
2007-06-30 11:38:02 · answer #7 · answered by dejavu20212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he deserved it. period!!!!!!!!!!!!! i say, great move. he is a pig but now that u guys have broken up i think u should just let it be. thats the best move u can make. other people are probably gonna say two wrongs dont make it right but i say . fack it*. oh yeah dont apologise!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 theres no need to. he didnt apologise after treating u like shite*. it will probably look to him like u want him back then he wont take u back but will boast over it.
2007-06-30 11:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by crazybonita24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex. Who cares what he thinks. You regret what you did because you let someone have your body who didn't care about you. You don't owe your ex an apology or anything else.
2007-06-30 11:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by The Naughty Librarian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care? You aren't even together. IF you were looking to get back together forget it. You will never trust each other.
2007-06-30 11:24:30 · answer #10 · answered by littletricky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋