he is a very descent guy.He told me tat he loves me and i came to know that his love is very deep.but i see him as a very good friend of mine.Even i already have an affair.i have told this to him earlier itself.Now he says that he cant live without me.He is so sensitive.i am afraid whether he will attempt a suicide.please suggest me a way what i should do..please
2007-06-30 02:10:05 · 13 answers · asked by kavya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Catch a little misunderstanding before it snowballs. A little extra attention to what's being said, how they're reacting and even body language makes it easy to spot and easy to handle.
2007-06-30 02:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for a time where you are with him just the two of you. Then tell him what you really feel, tell him that it makes you feel really nice to know that he loves you, but that you don't love him back and you just see him as a great friend. Then tell him how great of a person he is, and remind him that there are still a lot of girls that would love to have someone like him. You have to let him know this soon, if you keep waiting it will just hurt him more. So talk to him, and good luck!
2007-06-30 02:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by Foryou42 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, maybe try to let him realise that he should find someone else.
Instead of saying something like - I don't love you like that, I only see you as a friend, maybe try asking him questions, and let him come to the answer himself.
Go through stuff you've done together as friends, and let him see how great the friendship is, and maybe he will realise that you are better off as friends.
But it's only effective if you let him come to the conclusion, otherwise he may not be pursuaded....
2007-06-30 02:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that you need to tell him and then move on. I mean people have a tendency to say one thing but act another way. And you may be doing this and not Even know it. If you have told him that you do not like him in that way and he is not excepting that then you need to break all ties because maybe in his mind he is thinking that you hanging around him he still has a chance.
2007-06-30 02:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by sandy h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is better that he knows how you feel then for you to lead him on and then for him to find out the truth. But tell him just that. Tell him what you think of him-that he is a very decent guy and I'm sure you do love him, but you don't love him in the same way as he does for you.
2007-06-30 02:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by Linds 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Level with the guy. Tell him you like him as a friend and that is as far as the relationship goes on your side.
2007-06-30 02:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by don n 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well b normal with him..just like u wud b with any other frnd of urs..!!! let him know dat u care about him but not in the way he does.. u think about him just as a frnd .. and dat as ur frnd u expect him to b understanding and supportive of ur feelings too.. if he is ur good frnd as u said he is..then i m sure he wil understand
2007-06-30 02:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by aqua 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask for help from someone that helps people with depression and tell him that you just want to be friends
2007-06-30 02:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth n if he really luvz u he' ll surely undrstand
aftr all luv izz all abt givin not takin
2007-06-30 02:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by gia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi! i had gone to the same problems recently...but i sorted them...now wat i did was i kinda tried to show how bad i was to that guy...but he retreated...so i then started to kinda ignore him...then when he asked me y i explained him all ...and finally said-IF U had LOVEd ME ....u wouldve understood...FInally he said sorry and that he would understand and would be just frnds...he even said tht i was free to go to him anytime i wanted as he would always LOVE me! so it is ok now and we r gr8 frnds...i even got him a gf,...so BEST OF LUCK!!!
2007-06-30 02:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋