Why do I have the fear of being alone?

Question

I've been in relationships time and time again they just dont work i stayed only to hope things would work out the abuise i take mentaley is suprising to me Why cant i just leave some situations alone im old enough know to no right from wrong even other people have told me but it seem like i just dont get it ive have tried but when ever i get put out i come right back to deal with the bull shi? i have a child with this person not my first if over why wont i leave..................

Answer 1

Try read these sites an find other that have your same situation. Best to find a support group an talk with others. That will help you get confidence in yourself.Best of luck.

Answer 2

You base your relationships on your fear of being alone instead of genuinely loving yourself and others. Never let fear be the determining factor in any choice! Start loving yourself enough to make choices that are kind to you. Your confidence will grow and so will your ability to enjoy life.

Answer 3

The fear of being alone is clearly a lack of self confidence. just remember NO-ONE can make you happy other than yourself! Others will enhance your happiness, that's all, not completing it. If you follow this, you will be fine on your own, as others may come and go, but you will always be happy.

Answer 4

I probably sound like a broken record tonight but before you get in another relationship....get some counseling to find out why you keep setting yourself up to be hurt.

Answer 5

Your codependant look it up on google. You need to love yourself and that could take time. Then you will know what you want from a partner. good luck and don't ignore the"red flags" while dating.

Answer 6

Once you get youst to it you will love it.......