Family & Relationships - 30 June 2007

my b/f and i have been together for over 6 years. he moved in with me 7 months into our relationship. so it feels like we're practically married. i can't imagine caring for another person as much as i do for him. we do everything for each other and love each other more and more everyday. but he says he doesn't want to get married for a few more years. it just feels funny to think that by the time we get married we'll have been together for like 10 years! even our families want us to get married and have babies already. his gma is getting old and i want her to be able to see our children. i am open for any thoughts on this!

2007-06-30 18:55:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

like all my friends have a bf but i dont & i now feel left out

2007-06-30 18:50:35 · 2 answers · asked by jessie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for almost four years. I love my husband, but his ex and kids are awful and really make me miserable. I have tried everything to work this out and gone to counseling. I just can't see myself here foerver. I have health problems and alot of stress and this is not helping. I just don't know what to do. I didn't get married to run out , but this situation is almost too hard.

2007-06-30 18:43:49 · 10 answers · asked by socalgal 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i had 3 boyfriends they where realy nice but one day i asked thim what do they like a bout me the most they said...m..m..my boobs.(T-T they didn't loved me 4 who i am they loved me 4 my boobs)T_T how could i know if my bf will love me for who i am ???
PLEASE ANYBODY!!!

2007-06-30 18:40:56 · 7 answers · asked by One $hot to your $oul 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm only in my early twenties but i feel so different compared to my friends. I'm not like your typical college student who just wants to party, go clubbing, and get drunk all the time. I'm sooo focused on just getting my degree really bad. I want to make something out of myself. My friends tell me to cute loose b/c i'm "young" but if i keep on tract and graduate, by then, i'll STILL be "young". I just feel that the party scene is just "stupid" and I don't want anything to do with it until later...when i'm settled as far as my job and as a person. They'll say "school is important" but it's pretty "even" for them...the thing is, you're in college now...i don't want to end up those people that are in college forever and just switches majors just to get "done" with school. I see myself (hopefully) graduated out of my major in 2 years and that's when i'll "celebrate"...i feel like that's when it's really worth partying. My older cousins have such an influence on me. They've told me that the "21" phase is expensive and gets old quickly. I'm in the phase where all my friends are turning 21 and it's the "coolest thing" in the world. I know i'm not 21 yet but i look at them as such morons...it reminds me of when we were all in high school and it was a big deal turning 16 b/c that was when you got your license.

What's wrong with me? Why am i like this?

2007-06-30 18:34:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

still go to your daughter/son wedding even if they didn't marry the person u chose?

2007-06-30 18:33:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A man answered a question stating that all grown men know where the clitoris is on a woman. I don't think so.For the record, how many of us grown women have gone to bed with a grown man that
a) clearly did not know where the clit was or how to stimulate it
b) obviously had no clue how to get a woman off.

would you say most men know or they don't?

Judging by my experience they usually need help when they are in their twenties, after thirty, some get better. However I don't sleep around so my experience is limited, Ladies, what do you think?

2007-06-30 18:32:54 · 9 answers · asked by sage 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been together for a little over four years now, a year and a half of which we have been married. Towards the end of February this year I expressed my increasing unhappiness with our relationship. I had to keep reminding him of this. The second week of March he was diagnosed with a genetic disorder that may require surgeries and a serious amount of convalescence. I have been there for him while encouraging him to work on his own personal issues as well as our own. But I just don't see us making any progress and I'm upset that I'll either stay with him and just deal with it or leave and be accused by our family/friends of leaving him because I didn't want to take care of him. That's the problem, I am ALWAYS having to take care of him, remind him of things any adult should know to do and then ...aghjghg! I just am very frustrated and at the end of my rope here. I don't know what to do. I would appreciate an honest, sincere opinion. I'm tired in every way...

2007-06-30 18:32:00 · 34 answers · asked by Valrosa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-30 18:30:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You have a job, you feel you have your stuff together do you share your life with a dog whom will love you no matter what or do you try once again to find compaionship with another person.

2007-06-30 18:28:17 · 15 answers · asked by stilesking 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-30 18:27:22 · 8 answers · asked by FearDragons 3 in Singles & Dating

I got this sticker once...
My ex husband came round and saw it, he then phoned me up, I wasnt at home at the time, and he said:
" Haha, very funny.... mind you, when I first read it I thought you were talking about Elvis"
????!!!!!

2007-06-30 18:25:59 · 21 answers · asked by angi zefi 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-30 18:24:27 · 18 answers · asked by bear 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-30 18:23:57 · 12 answers · asked by topacia_61892 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright I have a friend who I care for A LOT, I mean I have always wanted to date her. She just got out of a bad relationship and she doesnt trust any guys now and anything I say to her that is nice she says is not true. The reason she doesnt trust any other guys is because her last bf told her one thing but he was the opposite she told him. Now I am someone who is the nice guy, who wants to help everyone, always caring and will always be by their side. She doesnt realize how much I care for her, right now I am trying to make her realize that not all guys are like him. Am I doing what is right?

2007-06-30 18:21:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-30 18:18:58 · 2 answers · asked by That Guy Drew 6 in Marriage & Divorce

what do i do...i dont know what is making me so sad but i feel it at night the most...

2007-06-30 18:17:30 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like this guy, and I want him to notice me. I am going to a pool party and he is going and I want him to notice me. How can I get him to notice me? Also, how can l look great for the party? Like bathing suit, accessories...?

2007-06-30 18:13:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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for my sociology class, i need to have thirty people view a pic of me and tell me what they think...solely based on my picture and nothing else...so go for it [10 pts to closest answer]! Things to consider are age, rich or poor, city or suburbs, smart or dumb, siblings, where do i shop, boyfriend or not, one close friend or lots of friends, naughty or nice, shy or outgoing, job or not, etc...basically just tell me what you think i'm like...it'll realy help me out for my paper!!! Thanks so Much for your time!!!!
- Monica

2007-06-30 18:08:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And now she's into the whole avoiding/denial/indifference approach. There's this guy in our class who she has been really close with (he even cried in front of her!) and lately she feels that
she's always there for him as a friend, but he isn't. So she thinks its a crumby deal.....HELP Does she keep avoiding him or just talk to him (which she has tried) Any other suggestions?

2007-06-30 18:05:16 · 5 answers · asked by :: tomi :: 4 in Friends

Ok i am 25 years old and i am married..The thing is i dont love him. we have 3 kids together.I dont know how to tell him that i dont love him any more.I know he still loves me but i dont feel the same way..We got married when i was 17.He trys to tell me what to do and where i can go..I need help on the best way to tell him i dont love him and i want to leave.I dont want to be mean to him..Plz help

2007-06-30 18:03:37 · 13 answers · asked by beautifulred 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I wanted to something different then taking her to dinner like do every year.

2007-06-30 18:03:24 · 3 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Friends

I dated this guy 3 months. He broke up with me with some bs excuse a month ago and I found out he cheated on me while away. We work together and I could easily ignore him bc it is different dpts but he has tried talking to me. I know he said he wanted to be friends but why would I want a friend like that? Am I wrong for avoiding him as much as possible and barely speaking to him

2007-06-30 17:59:18 · 29 answers · asked by annonymus 1 in Singles & Dating

My exhusband and i have been separated for 2 years, divorce for one year. He left me for a woman he only know a week. we were having problems. anyway two years later he continue to call me everytime he has a problem rather it be with a current gf or ex gf. he has had 6 to 8 gf in the 2 years I am worried about our son who is six years because we had joint custody and it 50/50 my ex is very involved with our son, i am lucky there. but what i worried about is that my ex is dating a married cowork and his ex gf is pregnant that was a week ago now he back with is pregnant gf who he has 1/4 chance being the father, and she moving back in How do i help my son grow up to think that is not normal? I do try to remain friend with ex or at least be polite, but sometimes he make it hard especailly becuase he has been known to interfere with my relationship with my boyfriend of almost 1yr by calling me to tell me about his problems I could really just use some advice

2007-06-30 17:57:11 · 11 answers · asked by singlemom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is a funny personable guy. People like him. He's a great dad, but a lousy husband. We have been married for 15 years. I can honestly say I've never loved him. We dated a couple weeks and one night had too much to drink. We had sex. I got pregnant. I was 30 and wanted to be responsible and do the right thing. We both said let's make it work and we got married. We tried. We had 2 more kids. People think we're happy but truthfully we're not. We fight, and I'm so lonely. I come from a divorced family and I don't want to put my kids through that. Together we have provided a nice home and we give our kids a lot. But we give nothing to each other. We sleep in separate rooms, there is no love. There is no intimacy. The separate sleeping started when the kids were little and it was easy to let the kids sleep with me and have him sleep down the hall. Now it's become our life. I have no desire for him, but I have deep desires for a man. I have needs. He must too. What do I do? I'm sad.

2007-06-30 17:56:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-06-30 17:56:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy calls me a lot, and i call him back...he some times doesnt call me back when he says he will and that bugs me soo bad cuz some of my friends do that to ALL THE TIME!!! i told he forgot to call me back one time and now he always calls me back... and makes sure i notice it... he says he used to like me but gave up cuz i'm not allowed to date until i'm 16... but all my freinds say he still likes me... but he says he doesnt... i kinda believe the guy but i want to be 100% sure.. so does he like me still or not???

2007-06-30 17:52:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-30 17:36:36 · 13 answers · asked by scissorwizard05 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband's Father is getting married tomorrow for the 3rd time. How much should we give him? First of all I think he shouldnt be taking money from us bc its his child and we recently had a baby but if we have to give a gift I was just wondering what everyone thinks is a good amount.

2007-06-30 17:33:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My girlfriend wants to get married at the beginning of next year, but I want to wait until the fall so that I can have enough money saved up because right now I really don't have much saved($20,000). I love this girl with all of my heart, so should I keep her waiting or marry her when she wants?

2007-06-30 17:33:19 · 22 answers · asked by gododjgjodjod 1 in Marriage & Divorce