Would you do...?

Question

still go to your daughter/son wedding even if they didn't marry the person u chose?

Answer 1

Yes, Because as a parent I am supposed to be there for my children and love them no matter what. I am also supposed to keep my nose out of their business. I have no right to choose whom they need to marry. I know that because they were raised properly that their choice will be a good one even if I don't agree.

Answer 2

It isn't your decision who they marry. You want to go to support your daughter/son because you love them and want them to be happy. Try to make the best of their spouse if you don't care for them. The dislike between the two of you could weigh heavily on their marriage and cause a divorce. If it truely is a mistake, you have to let your son/daughter fall on their face sometimes, even if it means they have to have a divorce. Support and love your family, through good times and bad, even if you don't agree with what they're doing. Now, if they're hurting themselves or someone else, obviously say something to them. But in this situation, be the bigger person and stand next to your child and be there for them.

Answer 3

Here is a few question for you to ask yourself.

How close are you to this person? Do you feel that it is out of place for you to tell them how you feel? Why is it that you don't feel that they shouldn't marry each other? Do they seem happy and head over hills in love? Are you controlling and just dont know when to let go?

Are you so wrapped up in your own selfish thoughts and feelings that you cant be happy for this person?

Put your own feeling aside go to the wedding and try to enjoy the happiest day of this persons life.

goodluck to you

Answer 4

Yes... because you will regret it for years to come. Maybe have a talk with your daughter or son... saying you're not happy about the choice you made, but you'll do your best to get to know their chosen one. Maybe that's all you need, is time. How soon are they getting married? & What is it you don't like?
Back to my initial reaction... you'll regret it, if you do not participate in the wedding.

Answer 5

OF COURSE YOU GO! You have to remember that your son/daughter is not you.. and they have a reason for loving the person that they do... it is really not your choice of who and who they cannot love.. and love is different for every person. Maybe ask your son/daughter why they love that person..and maybe try and see it through thier eyes.. Marriage is something so special i do not think you would want to regret missing the memories of for the rest of your life.. Support your child.. that is really all you can do..

Answer 6

First of all, I would not and did not choose who my son married and I would not and did not choose who my daughter married. I want them both to be happy. If I had chosen someone for them I might have chosen the wrong one.

Answer 7

Yes you need to go and support her. Be there for her, she is your daughter. We may not like the person our kids chose but if you do not support her if something happens later who will she have to turn to?

Answer 8

umm yes. You chose them because your son or daughter did. Otherwise your son or daughter wont choose you.

Answer 9

yes because no matter what they are still goin to marry each other.. they already know that you dont approve of them but if you dont go its gonna make them stronger and give them a reason to stay together to prove you wrong. who knows maybe you might still end up like the person they married to.

Answer 10

Yes. People can marry whoever they want. Why would you want to upset her?

You aren't marrying the person so it's not your choice.