Women only please...I have to ask this because of another question...?

Question

A man answered a question stating that all grown men know where the clitoris is on a woman. I don't think so.For the record, how many of us grown women have gone to bed with a grown man that
a) clearly did not know where the clit was or how to stimulate it
b) obviously had no clue how to get a woman off.

would you say most men know or they don't?

Judging by my experience they usually need help when they are in their twenties, after thirty, some get better. However I don't sleep around so my experience is limited, Ladies, what do you think?

Lucky you, Justbeingher, I'll admit I've had two partners who had the "touch" they also claimed to just pay attention to the reactions they were getting, but I think they both did some research at some point, too, lol

For the man that answered the WOMEN ONLY question...
Actually there are many books available that have instructions.

Next!

Answer 1

Bottom line is that the man has to really enjoy pleasing his woman. Then he takes the time and interest to find what makes her feel good. The better he makes her feel, the more often they will have physical relations!
I am 45 and have had ** partners. Half realllllyy were in it for both of us to feel good and knew how to read me. A few were in the relationship to strictly get laid- and didn't last long! The others had the idea of what parts were what but not what to do with them and were not comfortable with me making suggestions.

If we were all more comfortable talking about our bodies I think it would be a whole lot more successful when it came time to share them! Just my opinion ;-)

Answer 2

I would say that I have faith in males enough to know that most of them (in my experience) KNOW where the clitoris is.
NOW what to do with it from there can be touch and go, but if the partner is thoughtful...they won't mind a bit of direction either.
Thankfully...I found a husband who KNOWS where my clitoris and and how to make me squirm :)

Answer 3

in the teen years and 20's, no they didn't seem to know. i have no idea what men are up to these days. you would think that with all the info out there they would take the time to learn something. my hubby knows me but that is from years of experience together. since every woman is different i think we should cut the guys some slack and give credit for their attemps. what works for me may not work for you!

Answer 4

Saw this Q as I was going to bed... LOL.. had to stop and answer. Well, in my limited experience, the man I was with knew where it was, and had an idea of what to do, but until I showed him (and helped) several times, I can't say he really knew what to do.

Answer 5

my ex is a doctor. I think he knows where it is, but not really how to deal with it - especially oral.

I don't know HOW my present bf became such a wizard at touching it. He can put me into the next solar system. I asked him how he knows what to do and he said he just reads me and does what makes me more visibly excited. He's a paramedic.

Answer 6

Oh whoa!

You people don't come with instructions. I mean our talley whacker just sits out there for the world to see. You folks hide it away.

It would help if you women types would guide us. Yes I can make my wife's legs shake and make her squirm and squirt! However it is a learned technique that comes with practice and guidance. And I was a virgin when I got married. She wasn't.

SO THERE!

Answer 7

I've never got around either but I did have one man who didn't know a damn thing about female stimulation.

Answer 8

since I can remember,like you I don't have lots of experience but with my past relationship,even what I called husband,they never know where it is,even where the hole is,I have to guide him just to get in, so don't feel bad,there's a few out there that didn't know what they're doing............

Answer 9

My EX knew all the right places.