I really like this guy, and I want him to notice me. I am going to a pool party and he is going and I want him to notice me. How can I get him to notice me? Also, how can l look great for the party? Like bathing suit, accessories...?
2007-06-30 18:13:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen, here is where you girls make your biggest mistake: if you wear a bikini and act sexy, the signal you're sending out is that you want him to like you because of your body, which is up for grabs. If you really want to know if he likes you for just being "you", and not for what he thinks you're advertising is available, then walk up to him, touch his shoulder and say "hi". If you let your hand linger there for a second or two, the signal is you're interested, but not that you're ready to get into bed with him. If you come off cheap, he'll treat you cheap. If he likes you he probably won't remember what clothes you were wearing anyway. What we remember is how the girl made us "feel" and how she "looked at us." Girls spend so much on clothes, make-up, accessories...and it's for other girls, not for the guys...trust me, we really don't care if you showed up in a burlap sack. If we like you, we like you. If we don't like you but think you're easy, we'll go for it, but it won't be what you want. Be yourself, touch him lightly with your fingers once in awhile, and trust me, if he likes you, you'll know it soon enough.
2007-07-08 15:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose a bathing suit that you will feel really comfortable in so you won't be tugging on it all the time. Choose a color or print that you love and matches your personality.
Be yourself. Think about how you will look after getting wet. Too much makeup or a fancy hairdo can be "not a pretty picture" when you add water.
Keep the accessories very basic, like a bracelet and gold stud earrings. Show you have some class.
Smile a lot and tease him...don't come on all hot & sexy...that could scare him off. Be playful and have a great time!!
2007-07-08 23:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by jbug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. dress simple.. but pretty.. just wear a hot pink strapless bikini.. and start a conversation with him.. try not to put any make up.. it won't look nice when it get all wet!! Good Luck.. Tell me the result.. Maybe a few years down the road.. u will be posting questions on pregnancy!!
2007-07-01 01:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by Chocolategal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys totally arent interested in a swim suit or accessories; only in the girl (hopefully).
2007-07-08 21:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by Cinnamon girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wear a bikini and then go up 2 him an start a conversation
2007-07-08 21:34:29 · answer #5 · answered by Britt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kathy more important that what you wear is wearing a great smile and and lovely personality just be your self girl go up to him introduce your self breaking the ice after that every thing will go fine best of luck dear
2007-07-08 22:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear a pretty little bikini and fix ur hair so pretty i know u are going swimming but wen u are in the pool some girls hair gets all nasty and it gets ugly so hope things work out
2007-07-01 01:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by DesiraeBby(: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear as little clothes as possible. Seriously, that is how guys notice gals. Hopefully you don't have too much competition out there poolside. Good luck!
2007-07-01 01:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by danny23 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
By purchasing the baddest swim suit that no other chick will have
2007-07-01 01:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by stilesking 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ware a bathing suit that will show off your great figure.
2007-07-08 20:40:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋