I dated this guy 3 months. He broke up with me with some bs excuse a month ago and I found out he cheated on me while away. We work together and I could easily ignore him bc it is different dpts but he has tried talking to me. I know he said he wanted to be friends but why would I want a friend like that? Am I wrong for avoiding him as much as possible and barely speaking to him
2007-06-30 17:59:18 · 29 answers · asked by annonymus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Then I look like the bad person bc he appears sad at work and people ask me about it..I wasnt wrong here
2007-06-30 18:02:41 · update #1
oh hes tried calling me to which i completely ignore the call
2007-06-30 18:05:53 · update #2
nope you're not wrong ^^ he deserves to be ignored after cheating on youuu
2007-06-30 18:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by ms.curious 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never burn your bridges! Theres no reason the two of you cant be friends even now. Put the past behind you and show some maturity. 3 months isnt a long time, and his cheating on you isnt exactly acceptable, but he seems to be making an attempt to remain at least freinds, so go for it.
2007-07-08 15:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you even have to ask this question??? You said he broke up with you over BS, and cheated. That doesn't sound like qualities for a boyfriend......or friend. Respect yourself and set your standards a little higher. Why do woman think they have to settle for bad behavior from men???? They're are so many great guys out there....stop wasting time with the losers.
2007-06-30 18:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello he found out the grass isn't greener on the other side so hes back. poor little boy telling all the co-workers your dirty little laundry. hell no don't feel bad, I was married to a abusive man and ya know what he told me? The first time is the hardest, he left once it just gets easier
THINK BACK GIRL TO WHEN HE CHEATED
2007-06-30 18:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by leah j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why when guys **** up they want to try the friends bullshit. Is it because they know they are wrong or because they are sure that they want to keep you in their back pockets. You are not wrong by a long shot. Why give him the satisfaction of knowing you forgive him when he was the one who didn't give a damn about you. I say NO! Just make sure that you can let go so it won't be built up inside of you!
2007-06-30 18:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by from_me_to_you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can u handle the "Just Friends" thing? You may still be hurt with him. If its too hard to talk to him without getting upset then tell him you need some space u dont want your personal life interfering with you're work.
2007-07-08 16:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sh00ting_St@r! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, you're not wrong for avoiding him. He cheated so you have good enough reason. That's up to you if you two still wanna be friends. I couldn't. Not for a l o n g long time
2007-07-08 15:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Ink Corporate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cheated on you.. chances are he will keep doing it if you take him back. i think you should just tell everyone he did you wrong and they need to realize he is the wrong one.. explain to them what he did.. and if they still say you are wrong..then ignore them. you shouldnt care what they think... tell him that he messed up & he should regret it.. if you really like him wait like a couple of weeks.. try talkin to him again but dont rush into anything & then see if he still has feelings for you without making it noticeable.., if he had true feelings then they are most likely still there & he will try and apologize.. if not.. then hes just a true jerk...
2007-07-08 11:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by italiangirlx0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree that you don't need friends like that. and it's definently a plus that he works in a different department than you. i know you want to ignore him and away from work you should. but i think even if you have to fake it at work to keep everyone else's morale up you should. don't let his bad behavior affect you at work. just smile and go on your way. don't go out of your way to talk to him, but if he says something, acknowledge it. off the clock though... being witchy is fair game
2007-06-30 18:05:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always been "taboo" to date someone that you work with. I am sure now you will agree !!! Don't pay him anymore attention, your time is way too precious for him. He cheated on you, there is no reason to stay friends. It's that simple, don't question yourself for doing the right thing.
2007-06-30 19:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by always51787 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating is only dating. if he broke up and wants to see other people okay, your appearing to be holding a grudge. i think maybe you two should go out for lunch, and hash things out. come back smiling to work. who wants all those rumors going around the work office anyway?
2007-07-08 14:00:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋