i knew this guy through a friend and ages ago we met up and it was aweful. . . . it was the worst meeting ever. it was soo bad that when he said ill call you later i was close to saying no please dont. anyway he got a gf since then and as soon as he got a gf he started calling me every saturday to see what im doing. . . . im really wondering why he is calling me and why his gf isnt with him on the saturday. he is extremely hot but im not one to get involved in a guy thats already with someone. i dont understand him?
2007-06-30 15:53:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I change my mind. He is checking to see if you are still available because he isn't sure that this girlfriend is the one for him. Cause if it doesn't work out and you start dating someone else, then he could lose you, (forever)
2007-06-30 15:56:08 · answer #1 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him what his deal is with this? He obviously thinks that chics desire a guy more if he already has a girlfriend. If you really feel that strongly about him having a girlfriend, then you need to stop talking to him. The more you keep talking to him, the more he knows that you like him and want him even though he has a girlfriend. It was all probably a test to see if he can have his cake and eat it too. The more you talk to him, the more he'll think he can do just that. You need to make it clear to him and cut him off if you seriously have a problem with the girlfriend's existence. Otherwise, he'll just keep plugging away at you until he gets you where he wants you...as his COTS: his Chic On The Side.
2007-06-30 23:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Nuveau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an jerk...I say just tell him not to call anymore and you don't have any respect for a person who would come on to someone else while they have a girlfriend.
2007-06-30 22:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by sketch_mylife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player- plain and simple. It doesn't matter where his girlfriend is when he's calling you- you know he has one. Tell him to leave you alone- you deserve so much better!
2007-06-30 22:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you think and ask him why he's doing this. I'm with you~this is strange and he should explain himself.
2007-06-30 22:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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well mabye you should ask him whose his girlfriend and stuff.
Mabye he was jsut doing that to get you jelouse!
2007-06-30 22:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to get laid more often.
2007-06-30 22:56:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably has feelings for u
2007-06-30 22:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by eldude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋