ive been with this boy for three years we have two kids together we were not together the first time i got pregnant but i slept with somebody else and hedoes not know til this day my conception date was the 14 of may i slept with boyfriend on may7and8 and friend on the 17 do u think i should tell him and trying to figure who baby daddy is but son look like the friend a little bit to me but everybody else says he look like his daddy
2007-06-30 13:41:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Time to go star on Maury Povich!
2007-06-30 13:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your peace of mind I thick you should tell him, and also for the child when he grows up. this child has a right to know who is birth father is and if you tell your boyfriend now you are not going to have his reaction on top of your sons especially if he does turn out to be your friends baby, telling your son is unavoidable, so I guess in a way so is telling your boyfriend and anyway if you were not together when you slept with some one else how can he be mad at you for that? The only reason he has to get mad at you now is for holding it back so long, but that might have to be a risk you take. It has risks either way you go after all What is worse a lie that brings a smile? Or a truth that brings a tear? On the whole I think a truth that brings a tear because tears that come before a smile don't last as long as tears taht come after one.
2007-06-30 20:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are paternity tests that you can take at home (you can find sites on Google that sell these tests for as little as $99). So, as long as the "friend" is willing to check to see if he may be the father, then you can find out without your boyfriend knowing. However, I don't know how accurate they are, since I've never purchased one.
There are other places to go for paternity testing, though. What you do with the information, then, is entirely up to you. Personally, I wouldn't say anything until I found out if the other guy is, indeed, the father. Then, I would definitely speak up if your boyfriend is not the father of the first baby... the child would need to know health information about his biological parents.
2007-06-30 20:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by mommy again 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to face it some day, some way. What if something happened with your baby's health. Then the bloodwork would show whether or not your b/f is the father. Either be honest with him and work things out together or he will find out somehow down the road. Be gentle and thoughtful about how you tell him. Good luck.
2007-06-30 21:37:06 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh you are something else. i mean you know hes nt the dad well you need to tell him and get on with life and find the father and decide him or child support and stop lying ot the really good guy
2007-07-03 23:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better tell him, cause it's not fair to your child if they have a daddy other than the one who's been providing for them.....better now than later, or you will really catch hell!!
2007-06-30 20:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by heymrdj1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DNA testing. Do the right thing. Find out who the father is.
2007-06-30 21:24:09 · answer #7 · answered by Suz123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him, because it will be in the best interest of the child
2007-06-30 21:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by socasoccer@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sooner the betyter or it'll haunt you for the rest of your life
2007-06-30 20:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Knowitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry I don't talk to cheating women.
2007-06-30 20:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋