okay so i have an AWESOME boyfriend and i love him. But my best guy ffriend who i used to like asked me out and whenever i talk to either of them i get the same feeling. My bf doesn't know that Adam (the guy who asked me out) asked me out!! SO Cody (my bf) has no idea that i kinda like adam!!
SO CONFUSING!!!
please give me advice!!
THANKS
xoxo, ME
2007-06-30 13:08:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but the thing is I really like adam. It's not just for attention or some crap like that i just don't know what to do. Migod. YOu all act like i'm so immuture it's just i like them about even and i can't decide at least just be serious
2007-06-30 13:26:40 · update #1
Okay here's some advice, u have to make up Ur mind who's the one u really want to be with, u said u LOVE your boyfriend( Cody) and that the other guy( Adam) is the guy u USED to LIKE, but u feel the same way about both of them whenever you talk to either. SO CONFUSING!!!
How can that be? lets weigh this out
CODY (The Boyfriend)
1. U "LOVE" him, he's AWESOME
ADAM( The Best Guy Friend)
1.U USED to "LIKE" him-
By the way u do realize that because Cody knows nothing of u being friends with Adam that Ur cheating,I know it sounds weird and even if Ur not sleeping with Adam, u r keeping him a secert and that my dear is a form of cheating.
So which one do u have stronger feelings for? Cody ( your awesome boyfriend whom u say u love. OR Adam your best guy friend who u USED to like.
I mean if u love Cody like u say then why are u worried about going with with a guy u say is a best friend? nothing is gonna happen ( right) and if nothing is gonna happen maybe u should let Cody met Ur best friend and u all can go out and enjoy.
2007-06-30 14:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one. I've been there done that before, and if you don't pick one, it won't work out with either. So just get some one on one time with both of them and really think about everything that went on afterwards. Also, do NOT keep him a total secret from your boyfriend...hang out with them together at some point to see how you are with both of them. it wouldn't really be fir to either of them to not mention that your interested in someone else..but be VERY careful about it...I don't know either of these guys or your exact situation, so I can't give you anything much clearer then that...another thing is test who YOU think likes you more..and ask some friends who know the both of them about it
2007-06-30 20:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right. So I'm guessing you don't really love your boyfriend or you wouldn't feel the same way toward both of them.
Why don't you admit that you aren't in love with either and just getting a thrill out of the relationship.
I would say grow up, but I'm guessing you have no control over that. At least stop writing in. There are people who have real problems.
2007-06-30 20:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by William D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number One word of advice is that i hope those aren't their real names. Number two, it's never cool to creep. If U feel like U have 2 keep this a secret from your boyfriend then it most not be cool. How would U feel if he was doing the same thing 2x U?
2007-06-30 20:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by RealTruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u already liked him and nothing happened u moved on and now since u have a man and now he asks u out that is his problem he should have before when he had the chance and if u are happy and love ur bf then stay with him and stay friends with the other guy,....seems like u are loveing the attention...lol
2007-06-30 20:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your present b/f is so awesome and you love him so much why would you think about going out with another guy? It sounds like you need to do a lot of thinking about how much you love Cody.
2007-06-30 20:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by ctryhnny04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your going to have to make a choice eventually! its not fair to your boyfriend to drag him along if you do like adam..however if you still like cody..maybe you just like the idea of having two guys after you more than actually liking adam in which case it isn't fair to drag him along either..so make up your mind before either guy gets hurt
2007-06-30 20:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by CSann2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with your BF and tell the other guy that asking you out was inappropriate and put you in a difficult position.
2007-06-30 20:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by Jas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See which boy is better,so that you can see who do you stay with,when you find out which guy you like you can tell the other guy that its over.(but in a nice way)
2007-06-30 20:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by corina m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean look, if you trust you bf then just tell him how you feel and he should understand. that is if he loves you! if you break up ( i hope not ) go out with Adam
2007-06-30 20:18:42 · answer #10 · answered by Galina P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋