TOTALLY in love with her............MOST of the time it's reciprocated............but from time to time I wake up and she is DRASTICALLY different. I mean, LOVES me........then doesn't care if I live or die type of thing. When I ask WTf? ......No solid answer. Okay chicks are different..........we are all different, but.............it is SO extreme!! She is always the one who pushes me away for whatever the excuse is of the day and I deal with it. I'm just afraid as a man that one of these days I'm gonna say enough is enough...........but I "KNOW" she's the one. When is too much too much??
2007-06-30 23:14:36 · 11 answers · asked by vacmag 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only you can decide when enough is enough....your starting to ask the question,so your closer than you realize. She sounds like she may have mental issues....does she?? If what you describe is accurate.....it's not normal to experience such mood swings on a regular basis. Take a good look....this is what your future will be filled with. Maybe for you the good out weights the bad.....maybe it doesn't. It's your decision....just don't fool yourself into thinking it will be different than what it is. It won't be.
2007-06-30 23:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do you know she's the one? I'm sorry, but I have a really hard time with the notion that there is only ONE person out there for you. You must have a very low opinion of yourself to accept such wishy-washy behavior from this woman you are in love with. Perhaps she needs to see a doctor to discuss the possibility of bi-polar disorder...or maybe she's just not that into you. When is it too much? It was too much a long time ago. Demand change or get out of this toxic relationship.
2007-06-30 23:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by Candii JoJo is a groovy chick. 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She cold be bi-polar...or more likely she could be having hormonal problems. I had a friend and her drastic mood swings were caused my a hormone deficiency. Just think of it as PMS on overdrive. Is there a way you could talk to her on her loving days and get her to see a doctor. If it is not physical, it could be mental. Something in her past could have scarred her and she is fighting it. Either way, try to get her some help so you two can move forward in your relationship.
2007-06-30 23:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by tired 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl, and I was just in that type of situation...and I kept pushing my boyfriend away..with different excuses..and always kinda being a ***** to him..(not myself) ....I finally broke up with him cause I really in a way can't stand him. Me and him just dont have enough in common. (I think) He thinks other wise and that were a perfect couple. ...
I dont know what she thinks about you and stuff..but I told you how I thought about my ex, and I was doing the same thing to him as she is to you.
2007-06-30 23:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by vals21187 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible to talk to her about this in a serious way..like maybe take her out to dinner and then explain to her how you feel in a calm comfortable way. Sometimes people don't know they are doing something unless it is brought to their attention.
2007-06-30 23:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by atin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her first about your situation. This could be a medical situation.
2007-06-30 23:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by DR. Care 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think really hard about this....does it usually happen about once a month for about five days?..... cause i do a freak out very similar...about once a month!
2007-06-30 23:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by gone fishing! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you get tired of washing the foorprints off your clothes
2007-06-30 23:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by cheri h 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
shes playing hard-to-get
2007-06-30 23:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
PMS
2007-06-30 23:20:16 · answer #10 · answered by Gina C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋