About a year ago, I dated a girl for a while. It didn't really work out, but we finished and became good friends. Me, her, and a male friend started hanging out together. Lately, I've noticed that her body language suggests she fancies the male friend, and I made a joke out of it in private to her the other night, and she said she did. They do kind of flirt with each other, but whether the male friend would do something with it, I don't know. She wants to all meet up at the weekend, but I feel like a bit stuck in the middle, and like 3's a bit of a crowd now because they kind of ignore me! I find it all a bit strange, and I don't know why! What would be the best thing to do?
2007-06-30 23:02:17 · 4 answers · asked by ralf_ny65rj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It isn't really weird.. More weird if you stick around too much and make the couple feel awkward.. They probably already know how each other feels and just don't want to make it strange for you. Ask the guy if he digs the girl. If yes, and he wants to do something about it, then let him. Maybe he is keeping himself from going for her because of you being there and he wants to be a decent guy rather than a jerk. If they want to be together, then let them. She is not your girlfriend anymore and you do not have an excuse to keep her for yourself. You can still hang out with them here and there... but maybe just not ALL the time anymore... because things could just get awkward if you know what I mean. Besides if you have no interest in being her boyfriend again then you should let yourself be open to new people.
2007-06-30 23:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get out of there and find a real seet hot chick ! Prove with her that ya're not a useless man !!!
2007-06-30 23:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by crystal_heart100 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite a fourth person.
2007-06-30 23:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay home
2007-07-04 00:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋