I had been married for many years and was getting boring with my marriage, the main problem i'm facing is that i'm not enjoying sex life with my wife, i had try to find out the reason but was not successful, need to know you guys also facing such problem? i was thinking whether to get a divorce it seem like a only way to me...
2007-06-30 21:02:09 · 13 answers · asked by denyeese 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So it seems that sex is all you expected out of marriage is that all you loved all this years? I dont get it!
Rotten sex with the wife life is boring, when then go out and have some fun, what else could you do right
2007-06-30 21:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Did you communicate with your wife on this issue? Both of you must be frank on such issue and not divorce just becoz you can't enjoy sex with your wife. This is very unfair to her. Go and think over carefully coz I feel that marriage is not just only sex only but also love and care for your spouse
2007-06-30 21:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have kids? People often make BIG sacrifices to keep a family together. Have you talked to your wife in a non confrontational manner. Boredom is not a reason for divorce. Marriage is so hard sometimes. I'm not one to advocate extra marital relationships, but don't throw in the towel on the marriage. Get your sex somewhere else and keep working on things with your wife. Never have unprotected sex. Why hurt her health because you are bored.
2007-06-30 21:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by econgal 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Begin by seriously considering therapy. Either individual therapy for you or couples therapy for you and your spouse. This doesn't mean that therapy will make a bad marriage work...in fact, therapy is designed to help people lead their own lives in a comfortable manner. This may mean staying married, may mean splitting. But at least you will come to an understanding of what you really want and whether it is possible to find it in this marriage or in some other relationship.
2007-06-30 21:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times being with someone for a long time , people get bored of the same thing everyday. maybe you guys need time alone to observe things outside from of the box..
Seek out the qualities of your mate and concentrate on them
and don't think about the negative qualities and see the good qualities manifest more..?? try something , hey divorce gets ugly and gets uglier with kids envolved ,,
I KNOW, I'M A SINGLE DAD??
"Life is what you make of it, and marraige follows the same philosphy "
2007-06-30 21:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by Iam4knwealthy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is not enjoying it you may be at fault!!!! Women like to be treated nice all the time not just at bed time & you guys think that if you suddenly kiss & cuddle etc in bed she will feel loved! WRONG if you have been harsh & ignoring her out of bed she will feel unloved & will not want sex at bedtime unless you have said sorry or are real loving & treat her like you love her to bits all the time so just think about all that & see what you can do
or she may have a lover or she has a health problem
2007-06-30 21:12:47 · answer #6 · answered by ausblue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
come on u just need a change go to some new place try new things in ur sex life divorce is not the only solution
2007-06-30 21:05:32 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet girl 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Let your wife get out of the house and go out and get some action. Then you'll be jealous and attracted to her again.
2007-06-30 21:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by marie s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't ruin your marriage, make your life beautiful. Divorce is nightmare, don't think about that. Be happy
2007-06-30 21:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you married not for sex d love making did you?
some say "marriage is like a gamble . . . no one knows how it'lll end" or its a game that take a lifetime to master . . .
2007-07-01 00:02:56 · answer #10 · answered by Lucy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋