ok so my friend kandi likes one of my better friends (wouldnt say best). but earlier this year kandi had sex twice. well kandi and my friend were getting ready to date. my friend was unaware that she had done this. and i didnt think kandi would tell him because she says its a mistake she made. but my friend was asking about her personal life. and i being one of kandis best friends would tell him some things. well he brought up the question of if i knew how far kandi had been. and part of me wanted to hide this from him but i couldnt. but he is a trustworthy person. so i told him about kandi having sex. he was shocked. but he promised that he wouldnt tell anyone that i told him. even kandi. and he has not (to my knowledge) so they dated for a week and then they broke up. not sure why. well now theyre getting ready to date again. and my friend is considering going all the way. but kandi doesnt know this. im just gonna ask you people should i tell her this or not. im very confused! HELP!!
2007-06-30 21:11:11 · 6 answers · asked by jlmash93 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so my friend kandi is about to date on of my friends zach. ok so ive known zach longer but i talk to kandi more. in january they were about to date and zach was asking me all these questions about kandi. then he asked how far she had been. and kandi had sex twice but she thought it was a mistake and stopped. well im caught between them. and well i didnt think it was my place to tell him. but i felt he had the right to know. so i told him. i was afraid kandi wouldnt tell him because she cover it up. so they dated and broke up. well now they want to date again. well im feeling guilty because shes really into him. she told me she wouldnt tell him about her having sex and would only have sex with him if he was ready. im not sure if i should tell kandi that he knows. im afraid things are blow up in my face either way. what should i do im so confused?
2007-06-30 21:35:25 · update #1
JUST KEEP QUIET!!!!!!!!!!
I'm not here to judge you, what's done is done. Don't say anything else, you might complicate matters further.
2007-06-30 21:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've already said too much. However since you have started spilling the beans it is only fair that kandi knows everything too. So yes, you should tell her. From now on, stay out of it, unless someone is getting hurt.
2007-07-01 04:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by sage 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off its none of your business who she slept with let alone tell anyone thought you were Kandi's friend not Joe blo.whats done is done because you have your nose so deep in the sh**t yes I guess you better fess up to Kandi before she makes it #3 forewarned if it were me I don't know I would be able to talk to you again,
2007-07-01 04:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by leah j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if kandi is a better friends of yours you should let her know.. because you other friend might be dating her to have sex with her because he might think she's easy to get.. coz she's done it before..i hope you know what i mean! i think you should tell her! All the best!
2007-07-01 04:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by rocker_girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How is it any of your business what happens? What is your interest in this whole thing? Isn't someone's sex life personal to that person? If they chose to share information with you, you really should check with them before passing on that information.
2007-07-01 04:16:23 · answer #5 · answered by judgebill 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how freakin old are you kids?
She had sex twice and this is like a deal breaker?
Stay out of it...
2007-07-01 04:16:47 · answer #6 · answered by Alicia F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋