please, please, please help...?

Question

Please help me. My head is really spinning now because of this. I'm in my senior year in high school, and I fell in love with one of my batchmates. I've noticed her since the end of our sophomore year, and said to myself that I really wanted to know this girl. I finally got the chance during junior year, and since then, we have been text-messaging each other, but recently, we haven't texted each other since. Now, my problem is how do I tell her that I love her? She already knows that I like her, and she only thinks it's just a crush. When we're in school, we don't usually see each other, but we occasionally say hi when we bump to each other. The thing is, I can't really get that near her because 1) her homeroom is on another floor, 2) She's the most beautiful girl in the school, and 3) there's a guy that's being paired up with her, and I think she also likes him. Oh, and one more thing. I don't know if she likes me back. Please help me. Thanks for your help, and God Bless! :D

Answer 1

Text her and let her know how you feel, if she feels the same she will let you know. Then you can both find somewhere to meet. Alternatively ask her to meet you somewhere 'away' from the usual places and let her know how you feel on the date.
If you don't speak out she will never know and may think you only 'like her as a friend'. Life is about taking chances and this is one of those times.
Good luck.

Answer 2

Do whatever you need to do to find out. Don't let her homeroom, her beauty, or the other guy get in the way.

Be respectful, and wait for an opportunity. You still have her text number or IM or whatever it was you used? Just text her, asking to meet her at some discreet place.

If she agrees, just think carefully about what you would say to her. Just make it pretty clear to her how strong your feelings are. If writing things down would help, do that.

There are times in life when you just have to seize the day. Just go for it, who knows what might happen?

Answer 3

Tell her!
Or, if you don't want to seem like you just fell from the sky in front of her, maybe try to get talking again...and THEN tell her.

Just make sure your feelings get across. If she doesn't like you, then that's HER loss. If she does, that's great! You never know if you don't try. Don't let that other guy beat you. If you never tell her, you'll be the one who's left in the dust. Pretend it doesn't turn out well...At least you know you went down after she knows how you feel. And besides, if you confess and she says no, then you'll kind of have that inner peace of mind that SHE rejected you and you can get over her..instead of never saying anything and kill yourself with asking the "what if.." questions to yourself.

Or worse, find out that she liked you before but you never grabbed the chance, and now she's with someone else or something (Hollywood, i know..)

So you never know until you try, mate.

Answer 4

if you're not dating her, it's probably not a good idea to tell her you love her. I don't think she loves you back, sorry to say.
uh I don't know what to tell you...maybe if you stop thinking she's god's gift to the world and start acting like she's a regular human being (which she is) then you can feel more comfortable around her and she'll feel more comfortable around you.
You would think that a girl would want someone to think so highly of them when in fact it backfires on you because your expectations of her are too high and she will think that she can't meet them and in the end will hurt you (which will probably happen). so treat chicks like normal people, it works a lot better.

Answer 5

I was in the same situation as you last year ...i was a senior in high school.. and id been best friends with a guy for 3 years... and i was like desperately in love with him.. and had no idea if he loved me back after so long. we also were shy around eachother.. it worked out for me.. because me being the girl was way too shy to ask him, so after prom, he asked me to be his gf.. ... so to answer your question, i think you should initiate liek a date or something.. even if its with a group of friends....thats the only way ur goign to find out if she likes you.. because I would never ever have told him that i was into him... so u never know, she might like u secretly too

Answer 6

alright this is bigg my friend. you talk to her and she knows u like her or at least hav a crush so ur past the hard part trust me.. now instead of texting jus call her and tell her tat u were wondering if she was free sumtime this week so you two can get togeather and hangout. and if she says yes then your doin good. take her out to the movies or to a restaurant for sum food. and get to know her and be yourself cuzz if u try to be sum 1 ur not it wnt help. and if tat goes well ask her if she wouldnt mind doin it again and if she says yes then she likes you. but dnt tell here you love her cuzz she might not like it. so when ur on the 2nd or 3rd date then you can tell her you love her and you would like to date her. and see where tat takes you. and as for the guy she likes tats tough but the only advie i can say for tat is u better call her tommorow and tell her if she wants to go out with you.

goodluck my friend godbless and again be yourself and if ur shy dnt worry..

if u need any help send me and e-mail...

Answer 7

Sometimes you love silently while the other person is unaware!
Sounds like your case here!
Try text messaging her about school things and see if she replies, then take it from there!
Can you join any of the same clubs or activities so you can bump into her more?

Answer 8

first thing you have made the first mistake that you didnt tell her about your feelings. now forget the past and try to make the best reltion with her and try to give her the best time, and ofcourse give her better and more time than that guy use to give her.remember if she likes your company she will be more closer to you. and then only you can say her about your feelings.
but yes now this is not the right time to say her about your feelings to her.so wait for the right time, and go ahead and make her come closer to you....

Answer 9

Hey man this is just the case of two man one woman.

you have to sort it out with her b/f first . Make him know that you are her first choice and he will decide if he is worth the salt , either to fight with you and challenge you or disappear without telling her, If he is week knee guy. you are king.

then you talk to her directly . about your fascination for her. she will also give you chance or she will refuse you . in any case you will be unburdened from this puzzle

Answer 10

just to let you know:83% of girls want the guy to make the first move
70% of girls will wait years for that speacial one.
95%of girl just want to hear "i love you"
90% of girls will be crushed if you don't call them.
68%girls will not say anything but just look down at the ground if they like you or think your hot the first couple of days.