i am 25 yrs capricorn female married to a scorpio.our marriage didn'nt work out we are planning to divorce.

Question

first two months of our marriage were gr8.after that problems started my husband started to put unreasonable restrictions on me.he started tapping my phone.actually now icame to know that he is a womaniser.ialso resigned from my job to remove his suspicion but it did'nt worked out.

Answer 1

Nothing to do with your horoscope, the fact your marriage never worked out you are on the divorce spree. But you have to wait for at least for one year from the date of your marriage before you can even go ahead for divorce by mutual consent at least in India. In case you want such a divorce before this time period then you have to get this time period condoned by the family court for the reason that the case is one of exceptional hardship suffered by the petitioner or of exceptional depravity on the part of the respondent. The family court will also try for the conciliatory proceedings between both of you incase this marriage can be saved. In any case getting divorce will take at least 6 to 8 months if it’s on the basis of mutual consent, otherwise any other contested divorce can take many years to decide. This is the brief about divorce in India.

Answer 2

Well, if he has no reason to be suspicious of you, I guess he is not a trusting person. Look honestly at yourself to see if you have any responsibility for his actions. Because if you do, even if it happened prior to your marriage, you need to take responsibility and try to work things out so he isn't left believing he's crazy or unreasonable; or at least be honest with yourself and correct your behavior in the future with a new mate. Otherwise, if you have no love or trust left in the marriage and counseling isn't an option or didn't help, then maybe you 2 rushed into marriage without really knowing each other and that can be very difficult to deal with.

Answer 3

Dear Sister,

Now a days this world "divorce" has been used very much among family. Tolerance level of the people has gone down to grass root level. In your case some of the points are not linking. After 2 months why he started putting restrictions. Does he have any reason to suspect you? I mean even if there is nothing from your part, anything like your mingling with colleagues or anyone? Or you are haging on telephone with somebody? Or Somebody from your office visited you frequently? If so he has his own reasons. If it is not, you two have to sit in front of a clinical psychologist or a counselor. If it is true as you said that he was a womaniser, his intellect is stained with a red image about women and eventually he started doubting you.

Now try your best to move on without going for a divorce. Just try to have a last (not least) attempt by taking him with you to a counselor. Try to have maximum tolerance. See I am here in U.A.E and my wife is there in Kerala. Whenever I am going for vacation (Once in a year), she will not allow me to take another mobile SIM card, but will give her phone to me. I also will take my U.A.E Phone with me and till I am coming back the same will be in her custody. Like that if you does not have anything to be afraid of, just give your telephone to him and say, keep it with you. See not only body is sharing in a married life. But everything. There is not mine and yours/his.

To get into a relationship is very very easy. But to maintain the same is very hard, unless you have a high degree of mutual understanding and tolerance. Don't go to the past. Past is past. Try to resolve it in the best possible way. And be understood that there is nothing to do with zidiac signs. This is called blind faith. Did anybody make this statement to you that both of your zodiac signs will conflict. Please don't listen to that kind of superstitions.

Wish you all the best.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

I think you told that he is chatting with a girl over net. You did a mistake of resigning from your job. If you are working, you are occupied and think in a better way. Anyway gone is gone. As I mentioned in your previous question, try to sort out the problem through a family counsellor

Answer 6

Manya, this marraige thing has nothing to do with Zodiac signs. It is about two human beings who are mature enough to adjust, accept each other's limitations/weaknesses, build on strengths and most of all respect each other. Your so called husband is a skunk if he suspects you, is a womaniser himself and tries to control your life. Just get out of this sham marriage. Wish you goodluck. Find yourself a good guy. Also remember, there is no Mr Right and Ms Right. You have to make it right.

Answer 7

Well whatever your name is, I am also a Capri. I know the traits of a Capri well. You can control the worst of beasts by your patience. Your control will keep on growing stronger day by day. However, the best match would have been a Capri with a Capri. That can be total love or total loss. If you are seriously planning for a divorce, let me know if we can be together. You can email me at [e-mail]
God Bless you.

Answer 8

You first regain your confidence. If you both are at one point for departing once for all through divorce. Consult and share your views openly with your parents and his parents. Now don't to see the compatibility having got married. Good or Bad face it boldly and shape him into a good guy. Meanwhile don't go for children at any cost until and unless things have really shaped what you perceive. God bless you. The society is going to where.....big nude question. We just pray GOD. Spirituality would springs back the Society, our culture back. Hoping. Be brave.

Answer 9

His restrictive behavior toward you was a reflex reaction to the things that he knew that he was doing! In order to justify his behavior, he had to create a problem that he could focus on where you were concerned. This type of behavior is kin to chaos. Nothing you ever do will make sense of it. I have no doubt that your an extremely wonderful & sexy woman, but this cheating scorpion will be the loser in this scenario!!!

Answer 10

I'm married to a Scorpio also and they are pretty controlling if you let them be. My sister is also Scorpio as my daughter. My dad was too. But my dad was great. But my sister was such a liar and is so demanding as my husband. But I'm used to it. He can't lie to me because I see through it and confront him. I put my husband straight about his suspicions. I told him he needed to take all the energy that he used to convince himself that I was cheating and use it to convince himself that I wasn't. Never heard another word! I think most scorpion men want to control but like it when a women don't take the crap off them.