ok, once again I'm not getting the answer I really need. Although some of them have been helpful. I've been "seeing" a guy since May, and I'm starting to like him. But I dont know how to approach it without being pushy or scaring him off. I just need to know if I should leave things the way they are for now and just see him on occasions like we have been or take a chance and see if he wants to really date.(I do like what were doing but at the same time I like him and wonder if there could be more by he way he acts). We've only been on two dates since we've met and see eachother about twice a week sometimes less if our schds from work are messed up. But reguardless he always calls after the fact and when we are together he holds my hand, and does the "couple" thing.But then there's times where we go 3 days without talking over the phone for whatever reason. I don't know, help? Guys only please on this one.
2007-06-30 22:02:02 · 8 answers · asked by countrydreamerrm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can't seem pushy or scare him off because you been with him for a while but you can seem needy which is a turn off. if you ever plan on getting married and it doesn't have to be this guy you should take the relationship a step further but slowly.
i know you can get more without anything negative
just keep it slow because you both work.
2007-06-30 22:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not go to far yet, I am having this problem . Stay low as now. If things get too fast all will not end so well.Sometimes we have to face reality because it is very cruel ( if you can see through I think you are okay with it)Mean that date him not too often . Use phone contact every free time you have . Before sleep have a sweet lover chat. This is wat i think best for the relationship.
2007-07-01 05:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by Bren C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's holding ur hand, i think he's making the moves and you should reciprocate and if u wont he mite think you're not interested.
Since both of you work, remember dayz mite go without talking even if u land up in a relationship ,be ready for that.
I wouldn't hold a girlz hand if i didnt really like her a lot.
2007-07-01 05:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by protocol96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slowly but surely get closer and see eachother more.Never push a relaitionship with a man wait and just slowely push the relaitionship forward and it will happen. A chemistry will build.
2007-07-01 05:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, if the guy wants you, he'll come and get you. If you force it, it's gonna be harder to make it all happen. Stay cool and keep your options open.
2007-07-01 05:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by jazzncocktails 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he could like you, but, atleast as i can see, it's no definate answer. give it a try, and if it doesn't work, it doesn't work. good luckk on that one.
2007-07-01 05:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take the man!!! He'll wake up!!!
2007-07-01 05:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for him
2007-07-01 05:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋