Family & Relationships - 1 July 2007

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yourlocalbarista
S What does it mean when someone describes their relationship as something?
I have a friend who has martial problems. He and his wife has filed for divorce last year and then when it was almost finalized decided to get back together. They have one child a 3, almost 4, year old. He and I talk regularly. I asked him recently how is relationship was going, knowing that he has problems. He said that they are something? I was like something? He said yeah, there's no other way to describe us, but as something. He also admits they still have issues.

They were originally divorcing, because she has been cheating with multiple men during their whole entire relationship. She decided to end the divorce after she had filed.

2007-07-01 04:42:57 · 16 answers · asked by yourlocalbarista 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im so confused lol my husband says my name is already changed because of marriage? what do I have to do?

2007-07-01 04:42:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how u supposed 2?

2007-07-01 04:40:42 · 7 answers · asked by brandinalexis 1 in Friends

i really love this guy we were soo close it was easy him being my friends brother but hes really popular and has alot of mates what would think him a loser for liking me but we kissed and we were close and we didnt talk for a week now its all gone :[ anyone know how i can talk to him again

2007-07-01 04:38:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex was the worse cheater and liar in the world.

2007-07-01 04:37:24 · 12 answers · asked by r_u_2_b_true 3 in Marriage & Divorce

by seeing in there eye

2007-07-01 04:35:53 · 13 answers · asked by cindy r 1 in Singles & Dating

...things upset you less?

2007-07-01 04:35:40 · 15 answers · asked by Christopher P 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that all my friends say he likes me. I THINK I like him too. He is fun and we enjoy each others company. Once my friend asked him if he likes me and he said that he cannot answer that question because it is a very dangerous question. Sometimes he treats me badly and i get angry and he later appologises. Sometimes I feel like I get upset when he does some things that he can do to a friend but not to a girlfriend. He once told my friend that I like playing games with him and that he does not know if iam serious or not. What does this mean???? What should I do??? We both know we like eachother but he has not admited it. I cannot ask him out because Iam the girl here (him and his friends will find me desperate) What do I do????

2007-07-01 04:35:14 · 10 answers · asked by Me!!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

What is the reason when you can always get it from the person you love..why do men go out looking for sex?

2007-07-01 04:32:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The thought of it being a game combined with laughter will help the dirt come out from both sides. It will either draw us closer or we will separate. Now is the time.

2007-07-01 04:32:33 · 4 answers · asked by Queen 2 in Singles & Dating

i think it cuse they are doing some thing or playing games

2007-07-01 04:31:09 · 22 answers · asked by cindy r 1 in Friends

2007-07-01 04:29:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

For ten points best answer to this question will win ten points. If you were married to some one for along time like 7 or 8 years and they say love you but they mumble it and only after you say it to them first. they really dont show you any love or affection at all. and if they doit for a minute. but only after you show them love in the first place. what would you think what would you do? if you don't believe they are cheating on you and there is no real sign they are cheating on you. what would you do? You love them so much and maybe they love you but how much they love you if they can never say it?

2007-07-01 04:29:30 · 9 answers · asked by sassylassy2876 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i havent got anybody in mind, but i feel ready to settle down!! so let the manhunt begin! hehe! x

2007-07-01 04:29:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told him I love him because I knows he cares about me and now he won't answer me but wants SMS messages and comes on IM but won't answer me just wants to always know where I am..is this strange? If he doesn't love me why would he care where I am?

2007-07-01 04:28:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you think it takes for a male to become a man and a female to become a woman?. in my opinion, it has nothing to do with age and how big you are, but the way you think with your brain. so whats your opinion?

2007-07-01 04:28:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been putting up questions about my being a witch and all. they all said i was bragging, no, i am a beginer and was in need of some help. but all every one did was get mad and say that i should grow up.

2007-07-01 04:25:23 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

whats temperature there?

2007-07-01 04:22:07 · 18 answers · asked by vivekijs 3 in Singles & Dating

I was at a family event yesterday and saw a child tell his mother about something bad his brother was doing. The mother laid into him for tattling and then went to deal with the brother's misdeed. I've seen this situation many times in my life where the tattler gets in trouble for tattling and I really don't understand why that's wrong. In this case, the mother punished the tattler, but then made use of his information. When I was a kid, there was an old lady in our neighborhood who would call your mom if she saw you smoking on the corner or hanging out with the wrong crowd or whatever and then when you got home, you'd really get it. So why is it that kids are taught not to tattle, but adults are encouraged to speak up when they see someone doing something wrong or acting suspiciously?

2007-07-01 04:17:42 · 6 answers · asked by Emily Dew 7 in Family

guy 1- loving, caring, nice, supportive, degree, financially stable, stable job, own place, lives near by, 3 yrs older, mature, a man, a real man...a gentle man, loadsa hugs and smiles all over. loving personality and attitude. from the heart...feel secure.

guy 2- loving, caring, nice, emotionally supportive, financially not so much, 2 yrs younger, lives far away, too good looking, nice body, sexually pleasing but has a hurtful, painful past but so have i and it might make it that much harder.degree, creative, humour but i dont knw if its all out of the heart tho, im doubtful or maybe too good to be true, kisses, cuddles, immature at times (is it the 2 yr difference?) maybe or do i just feel secure with older guys.

Now is guy 1 the real man, or guy 2? does guy 2 need time to grow up another 2 yrs to show the real man in him? i'm willing to wait 1 to 2 yrs. I dont knw what i want and who...but which one would most appeal to you. which one do you think is best, dont say i should knw!

2007-07-01 04:14:21 · 32 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Singles & Dating

What should i tell her? Her dauighter was her life. she was a single mom. she is an emotional wreck right now not talking to anyone. I am not in good shape either. I lost my best friend last week in a murderer. Now her in a car crash. Help someone!

2007-07-01 04:12:09 · 19 answers · asked by Michael B 1 in Friends

ok, this is embarrasing and tricky for me and I know a lot of people are going to flame me. I love casual sex. let me explain: I date some guy and after a few dates we have sex. when the relationship goes steady, my sex drive dies down, I want to break it off and I suffer from guilt and dreams of having sex with someone else. when I break the relationship, my sex drive is up again (even if it is with the same man, since I am relieved that we are not a 'couple' and this is just for fun). to be honest, I'd like to experience a situation where I could date more than one man. my most satisfying sexual experiences, where when I knew there were no strings attached whatsoever and I was able to totally relax. I don't want to cheat or hurt anybody, so I am suffering inside and trying to find a good mate hoping this trend would go away. problem is... when sex doesn't work anymore, nothing else does, no matter how great the guy or how much I try to suppress my inclination. so I get depressed.

2007-07-01 04:01:00 · 14 answers · asked by sarah kay 5 in Singles & Dating

He's 2 years older than me, and i was at a party. A very attractive boy made a pass at me and i kissed him. I rang my boyfriend 10 minutes later, and met him in town and told him straight away. We worked through it, but now, 2 weeks after, he's acting really strange. Before, he seamed to be making as much, if not more effort with our relationship, but now, he seams not to care.

what's going on?? And how can i change it??

2007-07-01 03:59:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Need a little input here. I'm a single, adult guy. I date on a regular basis. Haven't been in a serious relationship for over a year. Here's my dilemma...

I recently began dating 2 wonderful women. It's very early, there are no commitments - just having a good time getting to know one another (in both cases).

Traditionally, I've only dated one woman at a time or I met someone who was so great that it was a no-brainer as far as where my 'relationship-nurturing' energies should go. This situation is different. Both ladies are smart, attractive, successful, appear into me, and have real potential. I'm not a player - this is just one of those "when it rains it pours" scenarios for me.

How long should I let this go on? As I said, no one is being lied to, there are no restrictions on dating other people, etc. Anyone have any thoughts on how to proceed, make up my mind, etc? Anyone have a similar experience?

2007-07-01 03:58:42 · 20 answers · asked by Gaius Caligula 3 in Singles & Dating

It's so annoying. i love everything in my heritage. What's up with that question 'what are you?' I'm HUMAN!!! what sre YOU?? It makes me so so so sad feeling like im being backed in a corner and forced to pick one race. it's not fair.not to me and not to my family. And i hate that part of my family thinks i have 'good hair' and other parts think i have 'thick hair. it's just hair people. Thanks for reading i needed to vent.

2007-07-01 03:57:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I had back surgery in March. I was living with my parents who decided to get a divorce while I was in the hospital. When I got out, I moved in with my boyfriend and his uncle. I had no where else to go and I couldn't take care of myself. We live in a 2 bedroom apartment right now, my daughter, me and my boyfriend share a room, she sleeps on a fold out futon in here in my room with me right now. I can not currently work, my doctor signed a paper that said I am temporarly disabled. My daughter Serenity is 4, and she's a very hyper active child so I decided to get tested for Attention Defisit Disorders. I feel its in her best interest. My ex husband was in agreement with me but he changed his mind a few days later and now he's threating to take serenity away from me becuase of our living circumstances. I am currently on the waiting list for housing to get a place for me and my daughter.. he can't take her from me can he? PLEASE HELP! i have full physical custody and we share joint legal.

2007-07-01 03:57:59 · 9 answers · asked by xxtr8sbabygurlxx 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 21 and i have been smoking for 4 years and i am hiding it from my parents, and i think they will get mad but i enjoy it and dont want to quit ,
how do i tell them so i can stop hiding it?

2007-07-01 03:53:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok. This is crazy but, here it goes. My sister accused my step-dad of molesting her. Then she went to live with our Daddy. A couple of months later, she and my Dad were fighting over his rules and she accused him of the same thing. This makes guy #3 she has accused.
I can't stand this, My sister is full of crap. She refuses to take a lie detector. She is begging to see a counselor or somebody who will give her medication because "she can't deal with this". And, my mom is doing everything in her power to "help" my sister. I'm so disgusted I can barely talk to my mother and my fiance refuses to have anything to do with them or let our kids go to her house.
I'm at a loss as what to do. I'm getting married in April 2008 and this is ripping my family apart. What should I do? I completely believe in both my dad and my step-dad's innocence.
And, to top it all off, my mom won't give me my wedding dress, which is stored at her house, unless I refused to invite my dad to the wedding

2007-07-01 03:49:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

me and my boyfriend of 3 years are thinking about having sex with eathother for the first time..see he's not a virgin but i am..and im afraid that he might go to deep or to hard or something like that..he tells me it will be okay when we do it...i just dont know what to expect can you guys help me please im just confused( not worried) about the sex topic
~~*much love*~~

2007-07-01 03:48:46 · 17 answers · asked by ♥blacktina beuty♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-01 03:47:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce