me and my boyfriend of 3 years are thinking about having sex with eathother for the first time..see he's not a virgin but i am..and im afraid that he might go to deep or to hard or something like that..he tells me it will be okay when we do it...i just dont know what to expect can you guys help me please im just confused( not worried) about the sex topic
~~*much love*~~
2007-07-01 03:48:46 · 17 answers · asked by ♥blacktina beuty♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you need to ask, you are too young to be having sex. Just keep doing kid stuff until you grow up and can take full responsibility for your actions.
2007-07-01 03:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 3⤋
Are you sure this is what you want to do? How old are you? Take your time with sex. It is great, but it can wait. Since he is experienced, I am sure he will know what to do and not do anything that will hurt you. Please make sure you protect yourself. Have a condom and get on the pill or use some type of contraceptive. Just make sure you want this.
2007-07-01 10:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by ontrack522 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are really 13 than you are much much too young. Do not have sex for a long time. If you have to ask than you are not ready.
2007-07-01 10:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
Sex is all about mind game.f u tell urself that u aint gona enjoy
t wil b like that,just give urself a chance,think that ur makin love to the most precious person u wont regert
2007-07-01 10:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by hotchck 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its not fare to do it before marriage! But its ur life,ur wish....so if u do it after thinking a lot then gather lots of information abt it before doing it so that u dont get into trouble!
Ok?! Bye...
2007-07-01 10:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by igloo 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, please make sure you are ready, ready, ready even if you've been together for three years.
And now for the other stuff...
It's only normal to feel scared your first time. Make sure your boyfriend is very gentle with you and if something hurts too much, stop! The first time is usually very painful for most girls but it'll be over before you know. Take your time with foreplay, stretch yourself out with your fingers or he can do it for you, and use lubrication!! But if you're still very scared it could be that your body is telling you that you're not ready. So instead of having sex, try other things first - oral sex, body rubbing, dry humping, fingering...
Take your time and don't forget to use protection!
2007-07-01 10:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by Maria Brightly Burning 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋
oh gosh. wait. Do not do it. he has been with other girls, and he knows what he is doing, and you dont. One: you are supposed to wait for marriage because sex is supposed to be special, and shared with one person. This guy is someones future wife, and you dont want your future husband doing things with other girls right?
2007-07-01 10:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by italianchikita 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree that sex should be had when you're not married. This is something you should be discussing with your parents not strangers.
2007-07-01 11:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mo 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
relax.. and let your bodies do the talking. dont feel pensive. else you wudnt be able to enjoy it....
dont have any pre conceived notion.. coz u may be disappointed if it doesnt turn out like that..
and most importantly.... practice makes perfect!;)
2007-07-01 10:57:05 · answer #9 · answered by frazzled 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
SEX is our natural instinct. Trust me, it will be just fine. If you are worried about too deep or too hard, just tell him to take it slow and also, don't be afraid to tell him if something doesn't feel right. You will get right into it though I am sure. It is mean to feel good.
2007-07-01 10:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by martidom 3 · 1⤊ 8⤋