Family & Relationships - 1 July 2007

2007-07-01 10:48:09 · 23 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-01 10:45:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i want 2 get married at 26 or 27 and have kids when im 28

2007-07-01 10:44:43 · 9 answers · asked by Goblin: D.M.A. 5 in Marriage & Divorce

It was my decision to separate. We will divorce. We have twins 1.5 yrs old. Since the separation, i never know what to expect - whether he'll be cordial or angry. Lately, his anger seems worse - he says hes depressed, he says he'd like to "end it all" and/or "run away". His friends have stepped aside while he's going through this, leaving only me a regular face to lash out at. Hes told another friend he thinks he needs help. This friend says i should find him help. Yet, dare i? Already he blames me for all the disappointment in his life now. I can just imagine if that doesnt work for him - another thing for him to lash out at me for. I really dont know what to do, or even who to talk to. . . any suggestions are greatly appreciated.

2007-07-01 10:39:54 · 19 answers · asked by Pooka 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met someone online and i didn't expect the have the feelings i did for this person who i had gotten to know so well. We've been "together" for 10 months now and at first we got along pretty well, nowadays all we do is fight -literally. It's been going on for so long and we can't seem to work it out. I'm a realist and pretty logical, i don't like being naive about things but he lives in a fantasy world. He gets mad when i state the facts about how things really are. We do love eachother, if i didn't love i would of broken it off but i can't seem to do it. I know we're not compatible, he has lied to me in the past about things big and small and expects me to forgive him everytime. I am able to admit to my faults and when i'm wrong even though i am a stubborn person, he can never do it. When we fight he becomes so bitter and immature and i know that fighting brings out a persons real side. I don't want to be with someone like that.

2007-07-01 10:36:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-01 10:35:58 · 23 answers · asked by rosangel3@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend and I are going to watch movie in our first date, and I would like you to help me to find out the best movie for out first date. to make us more emotion, and motivate us.

2007-07-01 10:35:09 · 7 answers · asked by Homie 2 in Friends

thanks

2007-07-01 10:34:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I notice that more women post constructive ideas to mend society and help the earth.

2007-07-01 10:34:25 · 15 answers · asked by CoolLuke 7 in Singles & Dating

i thought id met a guy who i really liked then one day he just didnt turn up didnt phone text or answer the phone or door to me .i saw him out and he told me to leave him alone didnt give me the time of day i am so hurt and confused as everything did seem fine and now this . is this a common way of being cowardly dumped now adays it is so cruel

2007-07-01 10:30:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It's by choice
So why is that such a hot topic of conversation at family get togethers, Why do they feel the need to try and make me feel inadequate , I have a child and I lead a very productive and happy life, Not one of them is happily married
Are they just jealous because I have my freedom .

I'm not in any way putting down the joining of two lovers I know they're are lots of marriages that are thriving, But most just stay together for all the wrong reasons , To not be alone, Or for the kids, Financial reasons But if your miserable why waste your life away .

I just never wanted to get to the point where you take each other for granted Maybe I sound synical but it's a choice I've made and I shoulndt have to defend it right?

2007-07-01 10:26:45 · 21 answers · asked by ♥ღ♥ RaVeN ♥ღ♥ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it me, should i change for them to like me, I've been trying and all that but it seems that all the guys just use me to either get down my pants or to get to my friends, I'm just sick of it, will i ever have a bf that doesn't use me?

2007-07-01 10:25:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you tell your spouse that your relationship needs professional help?? I'm so scared to mention it to my husband. I've told him before and every time he just agrees then "forgets" about it cuz he assumes that everything is all fine because we hadn't had any fights in a while..but we really really need counseling. We never talk, never have s*x, never do anything really. It's crazy, it's almost like I married a room mate , not a husband to love and have fun with til death do us part. I don't even know if I have feelings for him anymore because I've put up so many walls to keep myself from getting hurt. I want to be in love again, but don't know if it's possible...I'm just rambling now, sorry..back to the question...so how DO i tell him that?

2007-07-01 10:21:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so I have to support him while he's with me and while he's with her? doesn't sound like 50/50?

2007-07-01 10:21:42 · 6 answers · asked by chillypowder 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-01 10:19:13 · 4 answers · asked by mike r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I show no interest in the opposite sex around my parents. I have never once said "he is hott" in front of them. I have told them that I am into boys I just don't feel comfortable talking about them to you. I am scared that they will start to think that I am a lesbian. They do know that I am really shy around boys at school. I don't think I will get a bf in high school because I am shy and I live in a small town. Do you think my parents will think that I am a lesbian because I show no interest in boys around them??

2007-07-01 10:09:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

our home life has a greater focus on responsibility, morality, values, and aspirations.

There would be rules at their Dad's house but he/they are more slack in the way that they deal with people. i.e. Saying they'll do something for/with someone and then never following through. Saying they'll pay someone back for a loan or private purchase and never doing it. (Those traits really bother me and I fear they will pass on to my kids if they live there full time.)

Their Dad's school system is not in as good of shape as ours. He/They don't have high aspirations. i.e. Being a laborer is good enough. (It's okay and lots of us live that way, but wouldn't you rather your child reached a little higher--AT LEAST TO START WITH???)

My son and daughter are 12 and almost 14. Are my fears legitimate? Emotionally, as hard as it is, I'm ready to let them go BUT I'm afraid of making a choice that will hamper their future success and immediate best interest.

(I frankly would enjoy being the one they

2007-07-01 10:08:20 · 16 answers · asked by WonderWhy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Granted the vast majority of abuse in marriages/relationships is toward the woman, but something we rarely talk about in society with the same level of concern is that of physical and mental abuse committed by woman toward men
Is violence toward men viewed as less serious?
Have you ever been hit and/or emotionally abused by your wife/partner, and if so what did you do about it and how has society treated you?

2007-07-01 10:07:56 · 12 answers · asked by ? 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

ive been with my gf for 7 months now, im 17 and shes 16. thingsve bin fine between us all this time, weve had our problems and weve managed to work around and work them out, family being our most recent one. its just these last few days she hasnt been talking much with me, everytime i say i love you to her, she doesnt say anything like that back to me nowadayz, i dont get it and its made me feel upset the last few days, ive tried confronting her about it by saying she hasnt been talking with me much and shes said shes been tired and hasnt been feeling it, and i dont know if this is with me or not :(. its not normal to all of a sudden stop talking to me compared to how she used to, ive had a few problems with one of best m8z not liking me and shes told me shes not upset with me for having a go at her m8, ive done nothing to wrong to her to make her feel upset or hurt once!! i dont understand :( i told her il stick by her no mtter what coz i love her alot. i feel pushed away :( advce plz

2007-07-01 10:07:39 · 5 answers · asked by lovestruck 2 in Singles & Dating

My dad and I have always had a strong relationship untill lately, I'm 13 and I asked my parents if I could highlight my hair and my mom said yes and my dad said no, and i can't help but think that me asking that question helped cause this to happen. My mom has a disease, not deadly, and is sick a lot, when she gets better she usually blames my dad for her being sick in the first place, and it's not his fault. So today they were fighting, again, and my dad just left, he took the pop-up trailer and said that he would be back in a few days. Things like this have happend before but he's always told me that things were going to be okay, he would at least say bye, this time I didn't even know that he was gone untill my mom told me so, he didn't say anything to me before he left and it really makes me think what did I do. I'm sick and tired of my parents always fighting and my mom always being a ***** to my dad and all of it, I want to run away and hang out at my grandmas, help plz.

2007-07-01 10:03:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm currently taking a break from an ex-boyfriend.i'm so sexually frustrated.i need affection bad.i'm thinking about getting it from somewhere else.good idea?

2007-07-01 10:03:12 · 12 answers · asked by Brittanie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend that's getting married at the end of July. I'm not going to her wedding...Should I send the gift with the Regret or wait until it's closer to the wedding and mail one?

2007-07-01 10:01:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

cause im going to this concert with my best friend and i know my friend Zach is gonna be there too is it cheating if i dance with him and i have a boyfriend who didnt want to go cause he was hanging out with his buddies he said he would go if i really wanted him to but i said he didnt have to cause i know he didnt want to

2007-07-01 10:01:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Met a woman online & the chemistry was there. We became real close, real quick. However at 26 she has already slept with over 200 men / women & all I want to do now is run. She's done all the typical kinky stuff people do. 3somes, bi encounters, video & ect, ect. She was being brutally honest maybe too honest. She's beautiful, no kids, makes 6 figures & obviously knows how to make love. We spend hours every night talking but when I hang up. A lil voice is going she banged over 200 men & women leave now. What do ya think & be HONEST.

2007-07-01 10:00:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, theres this girl i really like and i always think about her. So once, i had a dream about her.We were at school.And this guy had something i wrote to her but he gave it to her.Then her cheaks turned red and she went up to me and started saying something to me but i cant remember.Then she hugged me. Then we were in class.She wouldnt stop staring at me. Then i started staring at her too.Then after class, we hugged.Is this love?

2007-07-01 09:58:16 · 14 answers · asked by tommym720 2 in Singles & Dating

Usually when we go out, we take her car, but I just got a new car, and there were problems with hers. So I drove two hours to NYC, and she drank way, WAY too much, and passed out on the way home. As we were crossing the bridge, she started puking red all over my freaking car. She basically vomited all over herself and the car, and had to sit in it for the two hour ride home, passed out. I had to drop her off, and spend the wee hours of the morning (6 am at this point) scrubbing red vomit off my door and seats. What the heck am I supposed to say to this girl the next time I see her??!!

2007-07-01 09:57:49 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet Belly 2 in Friends

I'm in Highschool...

Background:

My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 1 month and a half. We kiss (as in peck) to say bye to eachother when we see eachother.

Problem:

We havn't madeout! I'm not trying to rush it or anything because I have never madeout with a boy before. But whenever I am with him, I really want to. When we are on dates we are either at the movies or in eachothers room alone. And those are the two perfect places to kiss boys with out it being awkward.

Question:

Any advice on what to do on the next date?

Is it okay for the girl to make the first move & how?

& please share stories if you want!! lol

...any help please!!

Thank you =)

2007-07-01 09:54:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1.) People that don't date or have a relationship in high school, do they eventually get a bf or gf??
2.) Would someone not want to be with a person because they never had a relationship before?
3.) Do you know any late bloomers?? Did they eventually get a relationship and how old were they??
4.) If someone does not have a relationship in high school because they are shy or not ready......do their parents think that they are gay or lesbian?

2007-07-01 09:52:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-01 09:52:36 · 9 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-01 09:51:25 · 11 answers · asked by buttnut 1 in Singles & Dating