Here's the truth...I am that way! He's a little bit shy, but still with you. He wants the same thing, but doesn't know how to do that sort of thing because he doesn't know where you're at. Next time you two are at the movies or in rooms alone, literally, lay it on him, and just go for it. He's afraid that's not what you want, because he's a gentleman. If that's what you want, go for it, we nice guys like that!
2007-07-01 10:02:10
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answered by youdontneedtoknowme 5
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Advice on the next date:
Get some alone time so you can express WITH WORDS first how you feel about him. When you can get some alone time you'll be able to see weather if he's that shy kind of guy who doesn't really like making out in public (sorta like I am), but likes to do it in private or if he's having problems trying to "commit".
- Is it okay for the girl to make the first move & how?
Yes it is alright to make the first move, just make sure you set the ground rules of how far YOU are willing to go in your relationship at that point in time, so he wont start to expect things.
2007-07-01 16:59:07
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answered by assadfortson 2
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of course it's ok for the woman to make the first move. a lot of guys like knowing she likes him but I'm more concerned with how it doesn't seem like your guy wants to make out when your alone. some people, men and women, don't like pda's so that doesn't mean anything but alone he should be all over you by two months! hell, usually guys wait until she's comfortable making out. He MIGHT be gay but who knows these days??? BEFORE you jump to conclusions I'd say you two need to have a serious talk. It could also be he's still extremely shy. a lot of people have a difficult time showing affection even alone with the one they love. You ask a lot of couples, even married, a big complaint, after money probs, is the lack of affection from their partner. good luck and PEACE.
2007-07-01 17:00:53
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answered by Anonymous
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Focus in on his facial area and say you like something. Like "I love looking at your eyes" and just look at him for a while. And look down at his lips and back up. Try to give him a hint. Then lean in closer and look up at his eyes. Its okay for the girl to make the first move. Some guys i guess expect it. Maybe he does! Try lazer tag for a date. F-U-N. And it gets you closer to each other if your having a good time. I always thought that would be a neat date. haha. Hope i helped :)
2007-07-01 17:01:06
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answered by Psychgrl77 3
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Yes it's okay to make the first move. I'd prefer a girl to make the first move cuz honestly I don't know when to make the move lol. So yeah as your kissing him just grab his .......you know. If he lets you then take his hand and put it on your.........you know. Trust me on this one, he's not going to say no or stop you! The second he touches you or you touch him he's going to be too far gone. He'll be drooling like a tard walking into chucky cheese. If you have questions............i'm right here lol
2007-07-01 17:01:18
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answered by David J 2
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It is absolutely ok to make the move. In order to work up to it, try doing the "simple" kisses you've been doing before, but hold them for a few seconds. Keep your lips together. Hold his head if you need to. Eventually the mouths will open. :)
2007-07-01 16:58:13
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answered by cross country runner 2
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He might actually feel just as nervous to you... Of course, it is okay for the girl to make the first move.. But are you sure you can deal with what might come later??.. Some guys don't 'know' how to stop when you want them to!!!
2007-07-01 16:59:41
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answered by Anonymous
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Sure it is ok for the girl to make the first move. Just kiss him and nature will take over.
2007-07-01 16:58:59
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answered by Michael C 5
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there is nothing wrong with the girl making the first move... if he has not really kissed you yet then you need to make the first move... you guys have been together a month... it is about time that you should move to the next step..
2007-07-01 16:58:12
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answered by Broken Blue Eyes 6
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He is just as nervous as you are about it ..
There is absolutely nothinq wrong with a girl makinq the first move ! =)
Just try this :
-- when you two are alone or the moment seems riqht and u kiss.. move your lips slowly to his.. and when they meet, put your arms around his shoulders/neck and bring him closer and then finally slide your tongue into his mouth .. he will get the message and comply by slidinq his in your mouth as well.
If his tongue is on the left side of ur mouth, shift ur tongue to the right, and just move your tongue around his .. try tricks like ticklinq the roof of his mouth with your tongue .. try it.
Good luck ! =)
2007-07-01 17:06:23
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answered by theGREATEST. 4
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